u/MembershipLess9579

I'm not actually getting married but my best friend brother is and he's his best man so has been helping him plan his his stag do and he asked me and some of our other friends what we'd do for ours if we ever got married. Now I made it abundantly clear no clubs and most importantly no strippers.

Most of them were understanding about the partying because they know I detest nightclubs and don't drink for medical reasons. But when it came to the strippers most apart from my best friend and two others looked at me like I was a madman. And they were like ye but your not monogamous surley you would be ok with a few strippers. And I was like I have strict rules and ive always felt uncomfortable about strippers.

Then they said well what if you're partner wants strippers I said then she can have strippers what's your point. They said well that's not really fair is it. I said I don't care if I see even one stripper even if the stripper is not for the party I'm leaving and going home. I also told them I'm not travelling abroad. I said I wan't to go to a rugby game at murrayfield , for dinner, and to a pub I don't drink but it doesn't mean they can't. And one of them went man your just odd your meant to have strippers and go out otherwise what's the point.

Edit: I should have worded the post better. But the post is about what I would do at my stag do not my friends brothers. My friend has just had stag do on his mind alot lately and was curious what we would do at ours.

Most of them were understanding about the partying because they know I detest nightclubs and don't drink for medical reasons. But when it came to the strippers most apart from my best friend and two others looked at me like I was a madman. And they were like ye but your not monogamous surley you would be ok with strippers. And I was like I have strict rules and I've always felt uncomfortable about strippers.

Then they said well what it if you're partner wants strippers I said then she can strippers what's your point. They said well that's not really fair is it. I said I don't care if I see even one stripper even if the stripper is not for the party I'm leaving and going home. I also told them I'm not travelling abroad. I said I wan't to go to a rugby game, for dinner, and to a pub I don't drink but it doesn't mean they can't. And one of them went man your just odd.