Dating after divorce (24M)
24(M) seeking advice after getting divorced.
I’m divorced, have a young son, and I’m reaching the point where I’ve started thinking about dating again. The problem is that I have no idea what dating is supposed to look like for me anymore.
I was married, so while I wasn't thinking about dating apps, first dates, meeting new people, or any of the stuff that comes with being single. Now that chapter of my life is over, and getting back out there feels strangely intimidating.
Being a dad also changes how I think about it. My son is an important part of my life, and I don't want to rush into introducing someone to him. I figure dating and parenting should remain pretty separate until a relationship has actually become serious and stable.
For people who started dating again after a divorce:
•How long did it take before dating stopped feeling weird?
•Did you use dating apps, meet people organically, or both?
•How upfront/open were you about being divorced and having a child?
•When did you know you were actually ready for another relationship?
•What mistakes did you make when you first started dating again?
•Did you find that being divorced made dating harder, or was it less of an issue than you expected?
I’m NOT trying to replace my marriage or recreate my old life with somebody else. I think I’m mostly trying to figure out what a healthy dating life after divorce actually looks like.
Any advice or experiences would be appreciated.