u/Mindless-String6081

Hi I'm 24 yo f I work online without the knowledge of my parents so I do have money to run away. Why running away? My father doesn't let me go outside, I have to be super religious infront of them or else they will not stop belittling me and cussing. Im not allowed to work unless the work is 5 mins away from home. I can be killed for even putting make up on let alone them finding out I did take my hijab off at some point to hang out with my friends or working online . Do they treat me well sometimes? Definitely yes and even give me money. Is it worth it to stay? No cause im so mentally drained and I cant tolerate the extreme rules they set upon me. I need your advice ppl and if running away is a good solution cause ion think I can get married since most men wanna have kids but I want to stay child free and experience life more since I couldn't while living here so I either end up fighting with them for my freedom or literally f off. Help me make a decision please this is si important to me and which country would be the best and safest option for me.

I'm drowning in tears but yeah.. i have to vent to someone but apparently everyone is asleep. I woke up today feeling so happy , excited to meet my friends. Then a random animal stopped me as i was walking to ask for my number ( it happened many times so now i have a standard answer ) just told him a number n left like i usually do to avoid them cussing or calling me weird names. .. si khona called infront of me and the phone answered and somehow i gave him a dentist number without me even planning for this💀💀💀the dentist asked if its monsieur mazali and this guy cussed him and hanged up , looking like a monster he asked me did i give him my ex number i was so panicked i said no and tried to walk away stunned and I felt like laughing ( i usually do that when its serious or when i am in danger I laugh 💀) Aya he saw me laughing he kept on calling me names and that i am a *** who is walking in these shoes to attract men with money and I left him cause he has no money and i am in love with a married dentist and just omg i cried from laughing cause wtf . I successfully left the place ,had fun with my besties . Aya when I went back home i told mom about the story and guess what she said.. * can we blame him? You wear heels outside expect even worse * now i am crying so hard over what mom said cause i cant with this misoginy anymore. Its outside at home at work your own father your own mother your own friends. I am tired. Can we change the low quality ppl who live in algeria with others who respect women and can we choose our parents 💔

Hello, i am 23 yo F and I am wondering whether moving to Algiers is the right thing to do giving i have a different style of clothing and my friends told me its only Okey to be yourself in universities but to hang out like that around would get me harassment. I need your genuine opinion and thank you (ps: I am going to move out the house and rent in algiers for work)

I dont know if i am right or wrong. But that's how I view it at least, I imagine the perfect relationship in my mind, and find out that all I want is to be very close to this person before even considering a relationship with them. I find it unrealistic in my opinion again to date ppl to see if they suit you honestly. If I see an attractive man for example, I'd rather approaches him to befriend him rather then immediately date .

What do you think guys I want to know your opinion and whether rushing relationships is what lead ppl to separate faster

i have a crush on someone but he probably doesn't care at all, now I'm wondering how do i get his attention we only talk online and i told him yesterday that i have a crush on him and his reaction was silly then when i got upset he started laughing and calming me down. Idk how to behave here ( ps: he made it clear that he doesn't want to be in a rs but im so into him) don't come up to me and tell me to move on or to find someone better i just think i can't have more chemistry with someone like i do with him

Im 23yo F and I'm attracted to younger men like 21,20 and i have 0 attraction towards any older men which i find weird lately ngl and i hope that its not a big of a deal. If it is so abnormal how can i fix this please and thank you