People are literally starving and homeless and religious folks want a whole bunch of $ so they can travel to Hawaii, be taught how to convert pple and then money to travel the world. Isn’t it more helpful to use that money to actually help pple as their god dictates. I guess it’s more important to save their souls than help with their actual well being.
Need to change screen time to green time. Just a “humble” dream to own land. No such thing as parks and actually engaging with your child instead of screen time. (Slides 1&2).
I’m disabled so I need the public to fund an entire home. Not a rental, but a home. If she can’t raise the full ask, she’ll reluctantly take just the down payment.(Slides 3-5)
While OOP appreciates that others are facing serious situations, so is he! He “reached a point where [he] felt [he] needed some support.” His situation isn’t as simple as getting more jobs and paying his debt. He need to find a “realistic way to recover” and that’s to crowdfund to “completely resolve his debt”. 🤦🏻♀️
For a lazy grifter, this guy has a ton of time to put into his 2nd crowdfunding. He has been succeeding (1290 euros of 1600 euros raised) since February to get funding to help him create a “world class” album without working and focusing exclusively on his music. A sound like Eminem and Dr. Dre.
He’s a victim of so many things: his car got seized, his dog got attacked, his phone and tablet crashed, 3 cats and 1 dog he can’t afford, no electricity until recently and no running water and and buried 10 friends. The only thing he can do to help him out of this situation is to let him sing himself out of this mess. The goal is to earn enough for streaming!
If successful, the fundraiser will pay for his music and equipment, but also, in the “best case scenario”, his fine for his car, medical bills for his dog and him, a new car, house deposit/rent. He doesn’t want to work so he can focus on self care and his music bc that’s his “higher purpose.” His music is “world-class” so he needs “the best quality.”
*The updates for his fundraiser and some of the crazy narcissism, highlighted, if you want to dig further but feel free to skip as it’s a long ass read.
OOP and his online girlfriend have known each other for a few years and are madly in love despite never having met bc “international travel is expensive”. So, he has created a poster with exact figures for his trip to see her in Ohio, including airfare, visa and biometrics, travel insurance, airport transfers including domestic travel, money to pay his girlfriend’s family for expenses, food and essentials, mobile and data, baggage fees and an emergency back up fund. Seems neither have a job.
Next GFM coming up…we never thought we would be in the position of having to beg again but since this is a forever love, pls help pay for an immigration attorney, any fees for citizenship, our wedding and license, a home, a car and maybe 6 months payment upfront bc I can’t work while trying to get my greencard and my girlfriend doesn’t have a job and lives with her parents. It isn’t about material things, it’s about celebrating being “real, consistent and meaningful” and of course our incredible journey. 🫶
They have never met yet so there is a picture of two people. If it’s AI, did they really just find a picture of a brown man with a white woman? 😂 Scam? 🤷🏻♀️
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OOP was “forced” to move and has been unemployed so she decided to fundraise to start her own very unique business of buying and reselling goods, getting an LLC and/or making custom jewelry.
She has been diligently working towards this dream, including asking questions about 3 months ago (last 4 slides) about starting her own business. Now that she’s done her research on requirements and costs, she will settle for an initial start up of $100K, a much smaller amount, with 18K for patents, $1,675 dollars for filing fees and $80,325 for “more costs, including some I can’t find the exact price for”.
She also will need well over $200K “when demand is overwhelming” as she intends to provide health insurance and hire people and not use AI. Remember, her business is to employ others through her kindness and your wallet. Not even a please or thank you. 😂
Edit: Some comments and responses.
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I understand that fighting for custody of a child can be costly, but $50K for a lawyer when OOP hasn’t even started any proceedings is ridiculous. Not a consultation or deposit, but what he thinks is the estimated fee is from his own extremely knowledgeable experience. 🙄 And, he needs a lawyer who is $300/hr bc his ex gets free legal help, probably from legal aid, so it’s noooottt fair.
OOP can’t give any information right now bc privacy concerns, but you should know his ex “doesn’t work and gets government assistance” and his ex is “putting up” lot so issues. No red flags here. No desire to pay less child support, no explanation on why his wife wants supervised visits, no discussion if he’s behind on child support, no discussion of his debt.
He “promises in time [he] will come out and explain to the people he owes an explanation to.” Remember, he “feels bad asking for money” but $50K will pay off his debts and then he knows he can then “budget [in] the lawyer costs.”
I miss what made BH so special. It was the draw to the fabulous lives of wealthy woman showing off their lifestyle and fun friendships. A little drama without the toxicity. As a superfan, I wanted to relive some of those moments that just had me rewinding over and over again. For me
-The Alison Dubois dinner. “He will never emotionally fulfill you!” 😂. It might be my favorite moment.
-Kyle and her angry vein and Kim in the limo. “You stole my god damn house”!
-Rinna breaking a wine glass and throwing wine at Kim. “Let’s talk about the husband” 😂
-LVP and her fabulous homes, parties and animals. Kevin Lee’s “chi chi chi”. Giggy RIP. 💔
-The Vanderpump versus the Maloof hoof. The chef Paul and his hatred of LVP. “I did not sell a story to Radar online!” So ridiculously ridiculous.
-Brandi slapping and throwing wine on LVP. That’s when it was over for the hot mess express.
Adult children and their adult grandchildren are asking for $9K to help their 80 year old mother/grandmother recover from a broken neck so she can get back to work as the “breadwinner” of the family. While she recovers, they are struggling with medical bills and also “everyday expenses to keep our home running” since no one works except this 80 year old woman.
Although not completely clear, there are at least 5-6 adults living in the household. There’s Grandma, Dad, Dad’s wife, granddaughter and probably another kid or two or a Grandpa. They all can’t work bc of medical issues. I guess being 80 and having a broken neck isn’t enough of a disability. So let’s get grandma back to work as we have no plan when Grandma can no longer work.
They have taken accountability “100%” and “believe that if got some of this knocked off”, they would be fine. Only asking $9K. I hope this “touches someone’s heart.” 🤦🏻♀️
She’s “exhausted from just getting by”. Hell, me too. Now that she is a parent, her priorities have shifted from wanting to pay her bills to wanting to be present for your child. Yeah, me too. You still gotta work. For all those working your ass off this Monday to pay the bills, didn’t you know you could just crowdfund to wipe out your debt? 🤦🏻♀️
OOP works abroad and hasn’t seen his family in 8 months. Knowing his family relies on him, he nevertheless racked up 14,000 euros for nonessential items. Now his family is suffering bc of his poor decisions (who could have foreseen that?). This fundraiser is not for him but for his family and he will use the money to stabilize his family first. Don’t you worry that the fundraiser is for the family even though he will use that money to pay off his cc and loans. With his fresh start, he can now budget accordingly.
Comments in yellow by OOP, and comments in green from others.
I don’t know who is more entitled. The Brazilian fiancee who uses emotional tactics to speed up a wedding and insists it can’t be in a courthouse for her first wedding (and wants a second wedding when she actually moves to the US) or OOP who is asking the public to pay for his bills so he can spend it on a wedding that is not necessary, nor one he could afford, to keep his fiancee he’s been supporting for 4 years happy. Whole thing is ludicrous and entitled.
OOP wants $ for bills, flights and one wedding in Aug in Brazil (another wedding in the US). He gonna need $400 for the flight, some money for fiancée’s reasonable bills, $500 for a simple wedding. He can’t do a courthouse wedding bc the fiancee cries bc her first wedding can’t be in a courthouse.
He must make this wedding happen bc his fiancee has been so emotional about getting the visa process started. Fiancée refuses to push the wedding back and insisted on wedding, even though OOP is broke. He has $45 in his bank account, $580 of CC debt and can’t pay his rent.
They are so flippant about the immigration process as if yeah, yeah, once I get a job, I’ll figure it out then. He doesn’t have any funds to support a wife from abroad nor the visa and lawyer costs to start the GC process but wants to start the first step by marrying her, at her insistence. When will he actually be able to sponsor her in 10 years when he finds a job?
BTW, it would be easier to bring her on a 90 fiancee visa and get married in the US than marrying outside the US, but fiancee insists on a wedding even though the process is more complicated and takes longer.
Note: When he got some push back from commenters, he changed that language so he’s only asking for help with his bills. Isn’t this essentially the same? The public pays off cc and rent, he will use rent money and paid off credit card to fund his travel, pay for the wedding and his fiancée’s bills and crowdfund when he can’t afford his credit cards again.
Comments in the link if interested.
OOP is crowdfunding for bills, flights and one wedding in Aug in Brazil (another wedding in the US). When he got some push back from commenters, he changed that language to only for bills, and only bills, but continues to provide more information about what others costs are upcoming. Isn’t this essentially the same? The public pays off cc and rent, he will use rent money and paid off credit card to fund his travel, pay for the wedding and his fiancée’s bills.
He can’t afford his own bills let alone his fiancée’s bills but she too is unemployed. But, he must make this wedding happen bc his fiancee has been so emotional about getting the visa process started. Fiancée refuses to push the wedding back and insisted on wedding, even though OOP is broke. He has $45 in his bank account, $580 of CC debt and can’t pay his rent.
He needs $400 for the flight, some money for fiancée’s reasonable bills, $500 for a simple wedding. He can’t do the courthouse bc she cries bc her first wedding can’t be in a courthouse.
So no job, no savings, no rent, in debt wants money to fly to Brazil and marry his fiancee. He doesn’t have any funds to support a wife from abroad nor the visa and lawyer costs to start the GC process but wants to start the first step by marrying her, at her insistence. BTW, it would be easier to bring her on a 90 fiancee visa and get married in the US than marrying outside the US, but fiancee insists on a wedding.
His comments in yellow, some relevant comments by people in green.
OOP is looking for a “strategically advantageous marriage” to establish an “lineage and build a dynasty” with a registered family coat of arms Golden Serpent.”
About him:
-“not financially established”.
-tall, “highly intelligent” former model with “strong analytical and strategic planning skills”. Has been involved with investments, helped with local planning for political campaign, handled legal matters, and a photojournalist for a news magazine.” [read: dumb dude who thinks he’s smart bc he invested in crypto and lost, got sued and took a pic that was posted online].
-He is intellectually curious bc he wants to read “The Prince”…hello it’s a 2 hour read.
-He’s a fashionista (see Imgur to see his outfits), likes designer furniture, collecting books he won’t read and art, listens “occasionally” to classical music, has a “small collection of porcelains”, grown indoor roses and likes stray cats so you see why he needs a rich woman to support his wide ranging interests.
-He can be romantic “when appropriate”.
-English is limited so he won’t be able to communicate with you.
Given how much of a catch he is, the woman he is seeking to marry must be financially well off who is capable of providing financial support who must accept him as the head of the family.
He views marriage as a “tool for increasing social status”.
All of the above also applies in “the context of sperm donation”.
So what lucky woman wants his contact information? Any takers? Anyone?
This is a fantastic read in victimhood, entitlement and narcissism. Canadians, you may get mad. 😂
An international student from El Salvador is crowdfunding for tuition for this semester for college in Canada. He always knew he was “meant for something bigger” since he was 11. El Salvador is/was terrifying to live in so this middle class student was given a “big loan” and arrived in Canada with nothing but the clothes on his back. His family was “absolutely devastated” bc “the person that lit their day with happiness was gone.” But, still he persevered.
When he arrived, so many awful things happened to him, a “country where [he] thought [he] was safe”:
-No one welcomed him. And, he “had to go to another building” IN THE COLD!
-He finally decided to go to Walmart to get winter clothes only to be screwed by a Canadian taxi driver IN THE COLD!
-He had to go through 3 apartments in 1 year. Hmm, wonder why. 🙄
-He fell on ice two times and broke his ankle.
-He couldn’t find a job as a student and had to use his student loan money for living expenses.
-The horrible healthcare system screwed up and caused an embolism.
-He’s been mistreated and discriminated.
-He’s been robbed 3 times.
-This is a big one, he has to eat what the food banks provide which has made him unable to lose weight which makes him depressed and physically unwell. How dare you feed people, Canada.
So after feeling unwelcome, treated unfairly, feeling cold, falling, being robbed, starving, having an embolism and unable to find a job, he wants to remain so please help “him smile again.” Otherwise, his dream and goals will be shattered, and he “will be forced to return to [his] country with crippling debt, depression and physical illness.” And, don’t worry about the two other semesters he will need to crowdfund, that will be for a later time.
And, remember, “I believe respect is important, even online, so I will be respectful with everyone and I expect respect from people as well, so if you have any actual help to give me, I'll be more than happy to answer your questions, I will ignore trolls and destructive criticism.”