Three days and no amazon wishlist for food or pet expenses. I guess they weren’t that hungry after all. Remember cash is preferred over GFM! And if you don’t want to pay cash, you can send them a refrigerator and bed frame bc their parents are supposed to be funding the lives of 20, 23 and 29 year olds who aren’t working.
EDIT: More comments from another sub bf the post was deleted.
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OP wanted 5K euros to go to Japan with his sad brother who has no friends. Since that wasn’t getting traction, in 1 day, he posted using another Reddit account to say he wants to study Japanese for 6 months and needs $10K euros for this. When given pushback, he said they were two separate dreams but the one for learning Japanese was a longer term goal.
Eventually, he apologized saying he is new to Reddit and didn’t know about the rules and deleted the post but left his GFM up and changed the name on it.
Kid trying to get to Japan in any way possible? Maybe. Scam? More probable.
OOP made a bunch of bad financial decisions, moved to France from the Netherlands to marry his future wife who is a dentist and has been mostly unemployed since his move in 2025. His fiancee already contributed 50K euros for their wedding and his father is contributing as well. But, he wants to contribute 25K euros to the wedding to relieve some of the burden from his fiancee and needs another $25K euros to start his marriage w/ no debt. Everyone REMEMBER this is not simply asking for someone to pay for an expensive wedding, it’s something BIGGER. It’s about finally dealing with/ his financial problems and contributing to his marriage…by asking strangers to bail him out.
Long ass GFM included so highlighted the financial ask piece at the end.
I feel absolute sympathy about the situation w/ the dogs, but this lady can’t afford her own housing for her, her child and her dog. Yet she is trying to take responsibility for 8 animals by asking strangers to buy her a house, insisting it’s for the dogs, including very sad stories about the dogs and forgetting her dog & changing the GFM to include her own dog.
I couldn’t fit the long GFM in slides so I just added pertinent slides. The full GFM is in the link below.
EDIT: OOP provided an updated comment. She has an autistic daughter and she’s homeless. One’s dog’s meds are $2K/mo so that’s why she can’t take on a mortgage. Sure, I believe that she’s paying $2K/mo for the dog’s meds while she and her daughter are homeless so she would prefer to “buy the house upfront” w/ community help.
UPDATE from today and yesterday. Can you believe that yesterday her friend who was boarding the dogs cant do it so now it’s more urgent. But don’t worry, today, she found the perfect home. And it’s only $100K plus expenses so she only needs $150K. Oh, and it’s 9 dogs so she picked up an extra dog somewhere.
5 days ago, OOP asked for help w/ food as he ran out of $ while in Guatemala. When asked questions, he trolled, called pple names refused to answer questions bc he already got help. Welp he screwed up and lost his SS and now in his more humble beg he needs $ to survive and a ticket to get out of S. America. Since his SS will take months to reinstate, he also needs some $ to sustain him when he comes back. Too bad he was such an AH.
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I need to see all the various options for cabinets so I can better understand the wood tones and quality. Does anyone happen to know of a large showroom where we can get a sense of tones, materials and different makers? Thank you so much!
I need to see all the various options for cabinets so I can better understand the wood tones and quality. Does anyone happen to know of a large showroom where we can get a sense of tones, materials and different makers? Thank you so much!
Edit: I’m in Los Angeles
Recently I was blackmailed out of $500 that I needed for bills and for moving into my college dorm I no longer have the money to pay for my bills nor basic essentials because of this situation and I’m looking for any kind of help (we can set up a kind of payment plan or even just a date that I should have to pay you by) please anyone!!!!
Looking for a loan of 500$
I’ll pay back $550 over any period of time that’s necessary
There are so many campaigns for money on these help subs. Whether it is due to AI, these generic posts asking for help are so similar. So for those crowdfunding, please try something other than these statements:
-I never thought I would be asking for help. I am the one who donates. I was too prideful to ask for help but I have no choice now.
-It’s not a handout, it’s a hand up.
-I need help but I have kids/ pets and I’m more worried about them. Instead of proof, here’s a picture of my adorable child/pets to reach parent and pet lovers.
-I had to create this crowdfunding in secret bc X has to much pride. I can’t answer any questions or proof bc it’s surprise.
-It’s not just a luxury/dream, it’s a way to be whole/a way to honor someone. My kid needs to go to Disneyland, we need a new home, we need a new car, iPhones, honeymoon, weddings. The more ridiculous your request, the more unlikely it will be funded.
-Let me trauma dump everything bad that happened since I was 6 to show how I’ve been a victim all my life even though it isn’t relevant to the crowdfunding.
-Even though I don’t provide proof, I promise it’s real w/ a hidden history. Why do you need proof? It’s to protect the privacy of the victim.
-Low effort posts. Help I need help right now. Here’s my Cash App.
-I’m hungry but I don’t want to post an amazon wishlist. Cash only.
-why are you bullying me by asking questions? You never give money to anyone, especially me, so you are terrible people.
Pple start writing your own GFMs from the heart instead of asking AI or copying other GFMs. Maybe then you might get more assistance.
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I’m a meat eater trying to do vegan/vegetarian some days of the week. I have family visiting now who are vegetarians and I cooked to accommodate their dislikes and preferences. On one day of the 2 weeks they have been here, I wanted to take them to Planta Cocina to celebrate my bday bc it was so delicious that I eat there as a treat. They said they don’t want to go there bc the food tries to replicate meat, doesn’t like tofu, doesn’t like nuts (so no cashew cheese) . Now I have to go eat at a mid Chinese restaurant so w/ veggie chowmein, fried rice w/ no egg, no tofu dishes, no eggplant and perhaps a vegetable like green beans. And surprise, the dishes are vegan but no meat replicas including tofu. Sigh, why can’t pple even try vegan food and make so many assumptions?
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OOP & girlfriend sound like they have never or barely worked & have lived off their parents & friends. So many things wrong: the entitlement to his parent’s $; the emotional blackmail (they’ll die) to family, friend & strangers; the excuses for why they can’t work and why getting benefits like SSI and food stamps are too hard & the $3K ask to pay for all their bills after grifting everyone they know w/o any future plans or job prospects. Pls “send as much as you are able to.” 🤦🏻♀️