u/MochaMilku

So I'm a young black woman who's interested in Asian men, but I've never really dated one. When it comes to dating apps the Asian men that I match with seem to either never message me back or randomly ghost. I just accept this as typically dating app experiences, but when it comes to Asian men in person I have no idea if they have any interest or just being friendly enough to get by. I usually get this with east/ south east Asian men while south Asian men only like me on dating apps and are 2x my age.

I know how to deal with other races of men since they are easier to read but at this point I think Asian men have no interest in me. It could also be my weight since I am plus size, but I am losing weight.

I'm curious on what y'all do when there's a group you no longer like, group has controversy, or disbanded ? This has kinda prevented me from buying too much merch of the groups I like because I don't want to be stuck with it all of it.

Is merch easy to sell ? Or do y'all just throw it away

Is the discord for janitor still active ? It's been three years since I've used it and used to be active on the discord. I don't know if I'm banned or if the original link doesn't work anymore

So I lost my job back in December of last year and lately just been trying to find a new IT job. I was doing IT help desk but have some experience in other IT Fields due to an apprenticeship since 2020. I have experience in information and security access management which falls into cyber security, but I heard even with my experience my resume wouldn't even be looked at without a CompTIA Sec+ certificate.

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Is cyber security still worth trying for if I study for the certification or would another field be more worth the time like AI learning ?

Hello everyone ! I'm new to jirai kei and actually learned about the fashion / culture after my first trip to Japan back in January. I actually learned a little bit from online videos about the " landmine girls" on YouTube but never really thought much about it.

The moment I actually walked around Tokyo I saw quite a bit of girls dressed up in jiraikei and it's variants. I even went to Shibuya 109 and bought a jacket from liz lisa without realizing it was a jiraikei brand ! Now my tiktok feed is filled with jiraikei and would love to get involved, but unfortunately I'm not in a good financial situation, environment, and body image to participate like I would like to.