u/MoonAndStarsTarot

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Questions from a new ukulele player

Hello!

I have decided to pick up ukulele due to a desire to play music on an instrument that... well... demands less of me. My instrument arrives tomorrow and I am so excited to start playing. I am a violinist and do love to play that but if anyone here has ever played one, they can attest to the fact that it is an instrument that demands more, more, and more of the player. I have stopped playing for the love of music and more because it is habit now. My husband, while not willing to admit it aloud in case it hurts my feelings, would also prefer a slightly quieter instrument.

Another factor in wanting to play is the social aspect. There is a ukulele community group in my small town that are really warm and inviting. They're constantly posting callouts in the local facebook groups to get people to join and will even let people try with no experience. There are always a few extra instruments so that newcomers can try. This is in contrast to the community orchestra which are some of the most elitist and snobby people I have ever met. One would think that they were paid members of a major symphony.

Here are my questions:

  1. What are the "gold standard" strings? Are there different types? I use gut strings on my violin because I use it in my medieval adventures and it is a period instrument so I want it to be as accurate as possible.
  2. Do ukuleles need humidity control? How sensitive are they to temperature changes? How sensitive are the strings to temperature/light changes? With my violin I have humidity controls in the case and if I so much as breathe on the gut strings incorrectly they seem to lose tune.
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u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 1 day ago

Hades and Purrsephone Update: Tenuous Peace

If you saw any of my previous posts from back in April asking how to get Purrsephone to stop attempting murder on Hades this is where we’re at. The solution? I rubbed churu on each of them and they licked it off each other. Weird? Yes but also effective.

They’re still not friends but they do play a bit. Their favourite game is King of the Hill and Purrsephone has genuinely quite gentle with that one. There’s still small and sometimes fur flying fights but Hades has started standing up for himself more. He will bap her on the head.

Where we started: https://www.reddit.com/r/CatTraining/s/4IQcB8cZFC

u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 2 days ago

How often can you eat tuna?

In an effort to save money with the current skyrocketing grocery prices, I have been using my go-to day before payday recipes as my normal recipes. I made taco beef yesterday, for example, and I used to be able to make 6 meals worth of that for about $20-$25. It was $40 worth of ingredients yesterday. I paid $17 for 1.2kg of lean ground beef in February and yesterday I paid $25 for a few grams more than a full kg.

One of my favourite go-tos is tuna mac and cheese. I typically make enough for two dinners (myself and my husband). I have a bunch of canned tuna and several boxes of Annie's Super Mac that need using sooner than later. If I used two cans of tuna, three boxes of mac and cheese, and some frozen peas, it would stretch for around 4-6 meals as well. Would it be safe to eat that for 2-3 days in a row? We haven't had tuna since March so it's not something we often turn to but I am trying to shop our pantry as much as possible.

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u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 5 days ago

Leftover pea pasta for dinner with savings!

My husband and I got paid today so I have been balancing our budget this afternoon. Through slow saving, we’ve got a 3 month emergency fund saved up, next month we will have fully paid off our kitchen way ahead of schedule, and can actually start looking to go on a vacation. I took over as the sole financial manager in November and I’m feeling very proud of the progress.

u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 7 days ago

Hello,

I made a post a while ago about how my husband and I were going to try for children but then due to sudden onset of abdominal and rectal bleeding, we're holding off until we have concrete answers regarding my health.

I've been doing okay these past months while waiting for the gastro consult appointment but it is next week and now I'm not doing so well. I've been having panic attacks and been overall very weepy. My husband is super supportive and also very scared (understandably!).

I'm here to ask for prayer requests that it turns out that I only have hemorrhoids or something benign and not cancer. First time in my life I've prayed for hemorrhoids.

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u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 17 days ago

I’m proud to announce that they actually sat in the window and watched a squirrel eating seeds in the yard.

In even bigger news: Purrsephone tried to bite Hades’ tail. Hades actually pushed Purrsephone back, asserted his boundaries, and she listened.

They’ve now been coexisting relevantly peacefully for about an hour. Hades is still a bit jumpy but he’s actually not letting her shove him into corners.

I began this session by leading Purrsephone out of the living room with a tube treat that they both shared and there have been no fur-flying conflicts so far. We still have a long way to go but this has been a very positive development.

Hades and Purrsephone 3: https://www.reddit.com/r/CatTraining/s/KK4JJwDHD0

Hades and Purrsephone 2: https://www.reddit.com/r/CatTraining/s/AlKNsDzQ7Z

Hades and Purrsephone: https://www.reddit.com/r/CatTraining/s/xrWX8wcJ7f

Edit: My big goal now, is actually not improving Purrsephone’s behaviour. I’m actually focusing on increasing Hades’ confidence so he can assert his boundaries because that seems to have been the big issue. He’s very gentle and timid while she is very abrasive and confident. Sharing the tube treat seemed to be a big boost to his confidence.

u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 20 days ago

Please excuse my floors. They’re not dirty, just stained after two incidents involving coffee grounds and water.

I decided to see if I could get them to share a treat and it turns out they could. Purrsephone is currently playing with a toy while Hades warily watches her but they’re in the same room and she’s not out for blood!

If anyone has more advice I’ll take it!

Edit: Here is them interacting earlier https://www.reddit.com/r/CatTraining/s/DzIPCg2eyh

u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 21 days ago

This is very tame for Purrsephone and after the video ended she drove him into the hide and his fur flew. The heavy breathing sound was being made by Purrsephone.

Hades is back to being by the gate and so is Purrsephone so clearly not super traumatized.

u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 21 days ago

I’ve attached a video of Purrsephone (grey and white) and Hades (black). This is how they regularly interact through the gate. Hades will often sit right up against the gate and Purrsephone will be swatting at his side and he doesn’t move. Literally a minute ago he was right by the gate and she was bapping him on the face and he just let her. Sometimes he will swat back but not often. Purrsephone will regularly call for him and he will be there to hang out with her. Hades sleeps at the gate and spends most of his day beside Purrsephone so clearly they don’t hate each other completely.

I’ve done all the Jackson Galaxy introductions and there’s no hissing or growling ever. When I do room swaps, they happily use each other’s litter boxes and munch on each other’s food. There is also no aggression or reaction when they’re put back.

I play with them both 2-3x a day for about 5mins a session and then finish each one with a treat, which they share through the gate. They will literally lick tube treat off each other’s noses. Sometimes I play with them at the same time by having the worm toy sit between the bars of the gate and they happily push it to one another.

When I’ve let them be in the same room, however, Purrsephone instantly beelines for Hades and tries to disembowel him. His fur is flying, he’s kissing, she’s growling, and it’s super traumatic. Hades is leave shaking and Purrsephone goes back into her room acting as if nothing happened. In fact, she will cry at the gate until he comes and hangs out with her, which Hades does.

I’ve done health checks on both, Purrsephone was on Prozac but it did nothing, and used every feliway diffuser under the sun (I had plug-ins in every room of the house). They hate collars so I haven’t tried calming collars but I’m not sure those would help.

If keeping them separated like this forever was the only option, I’d be fine with it, but Purrsephone is in the living room so if we ever want to go in there, it’s a whole production to keep her from bolting and attempting murder.

Edit: I made another post with a video of them interacting. https://www.reddit.com/r/CatTraining/s/h3go04WAzO

u/MoonAndStarsTarot — 21 days ago