▲ 14 r/Lolita

How often does Baby re release classic items?

I saw that they were selling the scallop tartan dress but I couldn’t stay up super late to watch the website. When i woke up this morning all the colorways were sold.

There’s also a few blouses I want from them that I think were released in their classical series but I missed that as well. Any blouse with detachable sleeves.

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 2 days ago
▲ 6 r/piano

Piano teacher wants me to improvise. What should I keep in mind?

I’m a complete beginner I started last week as of today. I’ve gotten scales down somewhat and reading sheet music to an extent (I played trumpet when I was younger)

During my lesson today my teacher had me improvise going up the c major scale. During this she was playing a song on guitar so basically I was improvising off of her.

I have fun learning/trying new things but this felt a little stressful. I’m struggling to let loose playing and not reacting to mistakes. She told me until next week to try and listen to a backing track of autumn leaves in a minor and improvise off of that. As well as practice scales.

I showed an interest in jazz so that’s the direction my lessons are going in. But a lot of this feels really intimidating. I’m fine learning sheet music and playing any instrument from memory but coming up with my own thing I really struggle.

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 2 days ago

Dislike meal prepping, how to eat consistently and cheaply?

Hi! I’m 20 and enjoy cooking a lot but whenever I buy groceries I never seem to use all of them. If I make a soup I make a lot and eat that for a bit and forget about the other ingredients.

I dislike meal prepping I feel full meals start tasting gross after a few days. I’ve heard people say meal prep ingredients and put them in the freezer which I might start doing. Overall I want to start eating more consistently (I forget to eat a lot. I have adhd) and lessen my food waste whether ingredients or full meals.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 3 days ago

Cannot seem to grasp coding but I still want to pursue it?

I’m currently a compsci major. I want to learn how to code to make video games one day. When it comes to actual coding classes though I just cannot seem to understand.

I took python 1 and passed the knowledge certification and came semi close to passing the coding certification. If I was asked to code in python I honestly couldn’t do much.

I’m now taking java 1 and facing the same issue. I read the textbooks and struggle to understand the language but I can kinda get there. When it comes to coding though it starts to get lost on me.

I feel so frustrated because I don’t want to give up but I’m struggling a lot to be mediocre with coding at this rate. I’m unsure what my options are right now

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 16 days ago

Interested in becoming a therapist. What should I know?

I’m currently working on my bachelors degree. Psychology became a big interest of mine over the time I’ve worked with my current therapist. I find it so interesting the patterns people get stuck in, human behavior is overall interesting for me.

Therapy seems to be the only career path for me to learn about topics and also help people. I’m turned away from jobs where I feel I wouldn’t be making a difference in helping people. Psychiatrists are helpful but if I were in their shoes I wouldn’t feel like I’m helping people much.

I know helping alone isn’t much of a driver for being a therapist though. How did you know this is what you wanted to pursue? Or if you had the capacity to hold space for others?

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 16 days ago

Hair salons that specialize in black 4b-4c hair?

hi, im trying to find a hair stylist just to get a trim or cut in either metairie, mid city, or new orleans specifically around the central business district.

Any stylist that hopefully isn’t 200+ just for regular services

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 20 days ago

Selling VIP/GA Austin, TX tickets (8/14/26)

Bought these tickets and right after a date got announced in my state so not traveling to texas and don’t want these to go to waste

I paid 37 for the general admission and 100 for vip I can sell them together or individually. I can show confirmation of both

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 1 month ago

Can’t come up with much for stories. Struggling to start

I enjoy reading and really want to start writing consistently. I love figurative language and find it really satisfying to read. Normally things that inspire me to write are things I enjoy in my personal life like desserts, lolita fashion, anything cute. I also enjoy psychological horrors/eerie things. I started reading house of leaves and really like it. Media like silent hill 2 and the backrooms I also find very inspiring.

With this in mind when I try to write and I seem to blank. My mind turns anything I think of into a copy of a game I’ve played or a book I’ve read. I struggle really hard to think of a characters wants, needs, etc. I struggle less with imagining worlds and scenery.

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 1 month ago

Jfashion casual wear/items for hot/humid areas?

hi!! i’m mainly a jirai wearer but I find jirai is too tight fitting and hot to wear in my state which is southern and very humid.

I really like wearing egl as well i know i can find some light items in this style. Are there any other fashion styles that would be light and could be worn semi casually? i was also thinking of fairy kei

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 2 months ago

What do therapists do/learn to not foster unhealthy dynamics with clients?

I know therapists follow ethics but it’s still pretty vague to me. My therapist and I have a great connection and she cares a lot. I saw someone say online some therapists get too emotionally invested. But my therapist seems to show her emotions a lot throughout sessions and even at some point had shed a tear as I was crying once.

Does too emotionally invested mean thinking about them a lot outside of session or not treating them as equally as you would another client?

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 2 months ago

I love therapy a lot and I love psychology a lot so it goes hand in hand. I’m a very reflective person so I enjoy the setting of therapy. At times I find it to be the only thing i’m looking forward to though.

I want to start different hobbies but ones I specifically want cost a bit of money (piano and other instruments) I don’t feel like my life is necessarily boring I’m in college and work part time as well but I don’t really look forward to many things most of the time.

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u/MoonScorchedBunny — 2 months ago