u/Natural_Bid177

There is a guy at work who I really enjoy talking to and he is my type. I cannot tell for the life of me if he is simply just flirting to pass the time, which is fine, or if he is interested. We work in an office and his desk is not in my area, yet he comes and talks to me on both of his breaks and before he leaves. He has been doing so for 2 nd a half weeks but has not asked for my number, nor indicated that he would want to spend time with me outside of work. I do sit around other people, and they are nosey, so I would not surprised if this is why. I do not want to ask for his number in fear that it would make him uncomfortable, and it’s okay if he’s just harmlessly flirting, but mixed signals just aren’t my thing loll. Is there any sly way to ask for his number that wouldn’t make things awkward if he said no? We do work different shifts so workplace “drama” isn’t something I’m worried abt tbh. We don’t see eachother other than when he purposefully comes over to talk to me. He works second shift and I work overnight.

Hello! I am buying a Ford Escape off of my mom’s husband’s sister on Monday(I’m paying 1.5k for it, as it was recently completely repaired for 1k and I’m paying 500 on top of that.) I have a 2013 Dodge dart right now that is failing pretty badly at 180k miles(transmission is going out slowly but surely, both back wheel bearings going bad, one of the battery terminals is bad, one engine mount needs replaced, and heater core going bad), and ever since I got the dart I’ve just been sinking money into the repairs(probably about 8k, plus the original 4k I paid for it.) I’m really hoping this will not be the case with the ford escape where I will have to constantly be paying a lot of money to repair it every couple months:(. Please let me know y’all’s experience.

Hello! Please let me know if this isn’t the right subreddit for this but, I am 20 and have had a 2013 Dodge dart for 3 years(around 180k miles right now.) I originally bought it for $4000 and have sunk probably around $7000 extra into it at this point just getting it fixed. It is having issues again after I got it fixed last year and I know to get fixed all the issues that are wrong with it now is going to be around $2000. I am thinking of investing in a new car, but my only issue is my credit right now is at 550(not good, I know). I essentially was kicked out at 18(my mother was moving back in with her husband and he didn’t want me there) and racked up a lot of debt on credit cards trying to afford living on my own(about 8k in a year) I’m in a better place now, paying off my debt, improving my credit score and beginning to save again(I only have about 1k saved up) but I am wondering if I should just suck it up and fix what’s wrong with my car while improving my credit or if I should look into buying a new(used) car? This is the only car I’ve ever had so I’m kind of clueless:(.