u/Navy_sub

I got married four years ago. I’m very blessed Hamdullah for having three beautiful kids loving husband, but I feel like something is missing. before I got married, I had tons of friends, obviously not married for some reason or so I lost all of them. I lost contact with all of them and I became friendless. i’m a person who does not like social media so I don’t really cooperate on social media other than Reddit and sometimes Twitter and if you know you know it’s so hard to have friendswhen you’re in the United States if you don’t have any sort of social media and you don’t have a job and me being a mom it’s 10 times harder. I have in my life as a friend my sister-in-law, which I can’t really tell her that much secrets or be so open with her or just be comfortable around her for reasons a lot of married women might know why..🙄

anyway, I’m trying to make friends right now, but the thing is I don’t really go out since I have three kids and they’re all three and under but I am trying to make my own cake business, which I feel like it might help a little bit, but I still feel like it’s missing. Can someone help me give me any advice any suggestions? What do I do? Am I just overthinking or do I actually need some sort of friends in my life

UPDATE: thanks for everyones feedback and advice however I’d like to note something that I haven’t mentioned I used to live in a whole different country 12 hours flying from the US so that’s probably the reason why I lost connection with my friends even though I tried so hard to stay in touch but it’s so hard to maintain kids husband different time zones and a lot more at the same time so I guess my friends are still very close to each other but it’s just me Il the left out one since I’m hard to reach 🥲

another thing some of you guys commented on me having 3 kids back to back growing up I had 2 brothers and we were so close to each other and the age gap between us is the same with my kids even my kids are boy girl boy which is the same how it was for me I have always dreamed about having three kids and for them to have kind of the same relationship like how it was with me back in the day and I wanted them to always have each other and be friends and learn and do everything together I think it’s a pretty good thing for them specially we’re here in the US I’d rather them having each other and be close better than being close to someone else if you know, you know I know it’s hard but it’s worth it and it’s not gonna be the same all the time they’re gonna grow up in a year or two and they won’t be as much work as they are right now

hello everyone I have a quick question that I need some details about it. I want to start my own cake business. I’ve been learning all about baking and piping and decorating even doing side sweets, such as banana pudding’s cupcakes, cake pops, etc. for the past two years and now I feel like it’s the time that I show everyone my work and start my own business. I have no idea where to start from. I don’t have any audience. I don’t have any business skills or like how to get my first customer, can someone please lead me to the right way and tell me exactly what do I need to do?