u/NewspaperIn2025

हमरा कैथी मे तनी डाउट बा अगर केहु सॉल्व कर सकी तऽ।

कैथी लिपि मे आधा अक्षर ना होखेला नऽ? तऽ "संस्कृति" जइसन शब्द के का "𑂮𑂢𑂹𑂮𑂹𑂍𑂹𑂩𑂱𑂞𑂱" — हइसे हलंत लगा लगा के लिखल जाई?

अइसे तऽ बहुते गंदा ना लउके लागी ई सभ शब्दवा? हमरा लागल ह की इ शब्द भोजपुरी के ना हऽ, हिन्दी/संस्कृत के हऽ। तऽ हो सकेला की दिक्कत आवत होई।

तऽ एकर भोजपुरी शब्द का होई?

I am 25M, Introverted Indian.

I never cried till my 20s, nor I could even when I tried. My grandma died when I was 10, and I felt scared (you could see on my screen) because I could not cry while everyone was.

I started noticing that I never shed tears. I kept a diary noting down every time I did. During my stay away from home for 3 years, I shed tears 7 times. They were all like one-or-two drops.

But when I broke up with my GF at the age of 22, I felt very sad. She had cheated (in another country) and I ended things then and there. Soon, I realized I would shed tears while watching movies without even trying. I liked this change initially.

But now, things are getting out of hand. It's been over 3 years, I broke up. I rarely talk to her or think of her. But I get emotional and get my eyes wet even during simple scenes. Even while watching my favorite comedy movies, I would get teary at even slightly emotional scene. I feel it's getting out of hand.

The thing is I still never get that emotional on my problems or of my family/friends. I get in the action mode where I want to hear them with the intention that I gotta help and solve the problem. But while watching movies or reading a poem, I easily get emotional.

Is this normal? How do I reduce it? Is it just that I get empathetic with everyone?? My friends have said that I am a good listener. If so, why can't I cry on their problems? Idk but I feel I might embarrass myself in front of someone being overemotional on random things.

I have realized that due to contemporary state of Bihar + Huge Media Bias against Bihar, many Biharis have internatlised the fact that Bihar is no good.

There is this weird behaviour where they believe that "nothing good about Bihar can be true" and "Everything bad about Bihar is true."

While many do accept that there is Media Bias againt Bihar, but very few believe reports/stats that say good things about Bihar are because we don't report enough suicide numbers, rape cases, etc.

They just outright claim all good news is either fake, superficial, or based on data that is not collected correctly as if the rest of India is surprisingly reporting all their crimes perfectly and we don't.

I don't get this self-loathing turning into self-hatred of such Biharis. Many of such can be found on this subreddit itself.