u/NickM16

I can’t wait to collect all the cats and 100% the game once I finish my first playthrough. All are one.

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for three months now. Since I started dating her I’ve learned a lot about myself and want I need in a relationship. Since we started dating we are spending time with each other on the weekends and we go back and fourth between where she lives and where I live. For example this past weekend I went down to see her and this upcoming weekend she’s coming up to see me. This has made this fair because I can stay at her house( she lives alone and has her own house) and she stays at my house when she’s with me. but recently due to her parents being very strict Catholics I am no longer allowed to spend the night with her in the house her parents got her or sleep in the same bed because if her parents find out that I’m sleeping with her they have threatened to take her house away. They pay her bills and utilities because they are rich. From the very start it was hard because I only ever see her in person on the weekends. This has been very difficult to say the least. This wasn’t how I imagined my first relationship going. This last time that I was visiting her I had to rent a hotel for the first time ever and slept alone which was very hard for me. There are barriers including not seeing each other regularly and renting a hotel every time I see her that I don’t see changing in the near future and the fear of her parents finding out that she is having sex and that I’m in her house. She is 28 and also doesn’t have a steady income or job security. I love her very much and this is my first relationship so it’s really hard but I’ve come to the decision that we should breakup because of all the things I mentioned earlier. Not seeing her enough and now the hotel thing are just too much for me. The honeymoon phase for me is over. I’m really trying to not chicken out on breaking up with her because she’s had a history of abuse with past relationships and I’m the best boyfriend she’s ever had. She also has chronic illness and is schizophrenic but she’s med compliant and is stable emotionally. she’s the literal woman of my dreams. I’m still in love with her but the distance between us and her strict Catholic parents has made the relationship difficult. I’ve already picked up a date for when I break the news to her in person. It’ll be the 10th of September when I come to visit her. I’m also deathly afraid of being single again. None of this is inherently her fault I don’t think. It’s just outside factors (distance between us is 89 miles) and her strict parents are getting in the way. I’ve met her parents twice and they are very conservative and catholic. I need advice. I don’t want to let her go.

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