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I was with this guy for 6 months. Everything was going really well, we got along perfectly, and he treated me really well.
The only thing that bothered me was that he never wanted to go out with me. He didn’t want to see me very often—we would see each other once every 2–3 weeks. The thing is, we lived in the same area and could easily have seen each other either at school or around town. Whenever I tried to talk to him about it, he just wouldn’t communicate. He would say he simply didn’t feel like going out and that he wanted to sleep.
The last time we argued, I told him again that it hurt me that he never wanted to go out with me and that I wanted us to spend more time together. He ignored me, made some excuse about needing to get a haircut and go to sleep, and that was it. After that, he stopped replying to me.
The next day, I went to his classroom and he treated me with complete indifference. I left angry and kept texting him from Thursday until Sunday. Eventually, I realized that he genuinely wasn’t going to respond anymore. He basically broke up with me without ever actually saying it.
It’s been a few months, and I’m still struggling to get over it. I find it hard to believe that sex was all he wanted from me (I was 19 and he was 18), but I can’t stop thinking about it. I feel like shit. I can’t understand how someone can pretend to care so well for so long, only to eventually show you who they really are.
The whole experience has been horrible, and now I’m scared to try again with someone else. I keep feeling like everyone is the same and that I can’t trust anyone anymore.

Am fost cu băiatul asta împreună 6 luni. Totul era bine, ne înțelegeam perfect, se comporta perfect.
Singura problema care ma deranja era faptul ca nu ieșea afara cu mine. Nu voia sa ne vedem des, ne vedeam odată la 2-3 saptamâni, faza era ca noi puteam sa ne vedem si in liceu si in oraș, nu eram la distanta.. si cand incercam sa discut chestia asta cu el nu vorbea?? Spunea ca nu are chef pur si simplu si ca vrea sa doarma.. cand am avut ultima ceartă si i am reproșat ca nu iese cu mine si ca as vrea sa stam mai mult, m a ignorat, a bagat o scuza ca trebuie sa se tunda si sa doarma si gata.. dupa nu mi a mai raspuns. A doua zi am fost la el in clasa si ma trata cu indiferenta.. am plecat nervoasă si i am tot scris de joi pana duminică. Cand am realizat ca el chiar nu mai raspunde deloc, practic s a despărțit de mine fara sa zica. Mi e greu sa cred ca sexul a fost chestia pe care o voia( eu aveam 19 si el 18) au trecut cateva luni de atunci si nu pot trece peste.. ma simt de kkt, nu concep cum un om se poate preface asa bine si intr un final sa si arate caracterul lui adevarat.. e groaznic sentimentul si mi e frica sa mai incerc cu altcineva.. am impresia ca toata lumea e la fel.

Buna! Am dat admiterea la fmi unibuc ( specializare matematică) zilele trecute si cred ca voi prinde loc la buget ( mi am calculat o medie de 7) problema e ca nu voi prinde loc la camin cel mai sigur.. si nu mi permit o chirie. Nici camin privat nu suna bine la bani.. singura solutie e sa stau la un camin de la alta universitate insa nu e sigur ca vor ramane locuri libere sau ca ma vor primi.
Urmeaza sa dau admitere la ase cibernetica, daca voi face 9-10 grile la mate din 10 voi avea medie de 9-9,50 si cred ca prind loc la camin si la buget.. nu era ase ul prima optiune pentru ca ma gandeam sa ma fac profesor de matematica ( am luat 9,50 la mate si 8,50 la info in bac)
Nu m ar deranja sa lucrez si in programare daca am ocazia si pot invata limbajele.
Dar mi se parea o idee mai buna fmi mate decat ase cibernetica si ma oftic ca nu am unde sta pentru ca am muncit sa prind loc la fmi. Voi ce ati face in locul meu? Ce ati alege? N am idee deloc