u/No-Jackfruit-3758

for context, i'm 27 and my friends are trying to set me up with someone who is 23 years old. i've never met her but basically we're all from a similar circle, like it's come to that point in life (at least for me) that age doesn't matter anymore but not in a creepy gross way. just that i think when you reach a certain point in your twenties where 25+ is literally just 25+ and no more specifics.

so the thing is, i'm not sure if i should go on a date with her because of the age gap. i know the wlw community has a lot of brow-raising issues regarding this but i think this isn't too crazy naman...? i don't know. it's not comparable to 17 and 21 na 4-year age gap naman.

i think it's just a bit of a dilemma for me because ive only ever dated +-2 years my age, so literally just batchmates or a batch lower.

what are your thoughts?

batinga is always full and the other groomers are very careless when grooming for cats, they cut off my cat's whiskers before so it's hard for me to trust just any groomer lately. any recommendations? preferably uptown unta

apparently they DO exist, but not in the form im used to. i always thought filchi gay girls should be from chinese/catholic chinese schools, but i was wrong. they come from international schools, other exclusive schools that aren't necessarily chinese but still top of the food chain type.

and i have come to terms that WOW i prefer girls who dont come from chinese schools. at all. the difference in culture is interesting to me; it's not clashing with each other, just different. it's warmer and more sincere, there are no ulterior motives of anything like "we're friends because we can make our business better". there's nothing wrong with that of course, but i like relationships where we're both genuinely spending time for the sake of relationship and not because im expecting to ROI from you.

I’m going to make my life more difficult by making my dating pool even SMALLER 😁

Non-negotiable requirements:
- FEMME4FEMME PLS
- DLSU, ADMU, UST, UP (business/med/architecture/interior design/law only)
- ages 25-32
- 5’3 and above only
- LESBIANS ONLY sorry i can’t date another bisexual or i’ll go insane, we’ll hate each other and be toxic lang
- FILCHI, literally god pls
- chinese high school or private exclusive schools
- family has business/professionals
- primarily speaks in english
- FEMME or at most androgynous but not too masc
- can deal with crazy family who thinks theyre better than everyone
- physically fit, lean (45kg-60kg)
- sporty and active
- can handle speaking to a crowd or several people at once
- have a car and can drive

Negotiable:
- working/not working for family business
- no mommy/daddy issues
- religion (dalawa lang naman yan either catholic or christian)

they don't exist.

i might be the only one alive and the rest of them probably went into hiding or went to outer space BASTA they don't exist anymore 😭

like girl where da hell are y'all my parents don't care that i'm gay, they only care about who i'm dating AKA i have a homosexual great wall i think honestly this might be the first time in history that chinese parents care more about the race than the gender/sexuality because chinese families are traditional as HECK. my dad literally said "look.... just date a chinese girl pls" HELLO! WHERE CAN I EVEN FIND GAY CHINESE GIRLS! literally non-existent, NON-EXISTENT.

if they did i would already be with one like girl why are you guys so freaking hard to FINDDDD my parents dont even CARE that im gay THEY CARE THAT IM NOT DATING A CHINESE WOMANNNNN... GREAT WALL > STRAIGHT WALL 💔💔💔💔💔💔

i've been alive 27 years and still NONE. they want me to get married but it's not my fault these girls aren't even freaking real 😭

if they did i would already be with one like girl why are you guys so freaking hard to FINDDDD my parents dont even CARE that im gay THEY CARE THAT IM NOT DATING A CHINESE WOMANNNNN... GREAT WALL > STRAIGHT WALL 💔💔💔💔💔💔

i've been alive 27 years and still NONE. they want me to get married but it's not my fault these girls aren't even freaking real 😭