Jeg 17m går pt på arbejde. Og hver gang jeg kommer forbi hegnet på 5. Sal får jeg tankerne om at hoppe. Bare gøre det hele bedre og stoppe her.
Er det normalt ?
(Det skal lige siges det ikke har noget med arbejdet)
I feel so empty inside
I am so confused on girls and all that. I talk with alot of girls and kisses them and stuff. But yet idk how to feel.
I get that I should be grateful for being so far. But I’m not happy. Don’t think I have been like real happy since 4 years ago. Everything has gone downhill. All tho i got a friend who makes life worth living for.
But i just had to dump it all somewhere.
The Course of Life
Sunday, 14/06/2026
It is now 10:15 PM, 1 hour and 45 minutes after everything went to shit. I’ve been crying for the last hour, and even though it was only a talking stage, it still hurts.
Why did it go wrong?
It went wrong because she wasn’t ready. She told me how she felt — that I couldn’t say “I love you” after only 1.5 months. That was one of the things that had been building up. But it was also about how she felt about herself. I respect that 100%, but I’m still heartbroken. I thought she was so sweet.
The problem is also that I’m so unsure about everything. I don’t know what to do. She wants to continue, but not seriously. That’s fair. But it messes with me so much that she’s in this in-between stage where she might kiss other people but still likes me. I don’t know what to do with myself. I’m so tired, but I can’t sleep. I feel like going for a walk. Just closing my eyes and maybe just waiting.
Everything had become so good. I met her. She was sweet and wonderful. I’ve finally found some friends after two of the hardest years of my life in secondary school, where I was bullied more or less every day. I was told that I should just take my own life. That was also on my mind afterward. But the only thing that stopped me was thinking about how it would affect my family, and how sad they would be.
I’ve gone through it thousands of times in my head — how and where. But also how my family would react.
On the other hand, I’m grateful for my friends, because otherwise I don’t know where I would be right now.
I don’t really know why I’m writing this. I think I just need to get everything off my chest after such a long time.
Hvad gør man, når man bliver droppet over besked i en talking stage?
Jeg er 17 år og har lige oplevet at blive droppet af en pige på min egen alder. Vi havde skrevet sammen i noget tid, og for mig føltes det som om det kunne være på vej til mit første forhold.
Så ud af det blå fik jeg en besked om, at hun ikke ville mere. Hun var sød omkring det, men det gør stadig ondt. Det er første gang jeg har været så følelsesmæssigt investeret i nogen, og jeg har svært ved at lade være med at tænke på, hvad jeg gjorde forkert, eller om jeg kunne have gjort noget anderledes.
Jeg ved godt, at vi aldrig nåede at blive kærester, men det føles stadig som et brud på en måde. Især fordi jeg havde nået at forestille mig, hvordan det kunne blive.
Så mit spørgsmål er egentlig: Hvordan kommer man videre fra sådan noget? Er det normalt at være så ked af det, selvom det “kun” var en talking stage? Og hvad gjorde I andre, da I oplevede noget lignende første gang?
Hej dkbrevkasse
Jeg er 17m og føler lidt jeg står et mærkeligt sted lige nu. Jeg ved ikke rigtig hvad jeg vil med mit liv eller hvad jeg egentlig synes er spændende længere.
Jeg har tænkt meget på at starte i fitness, fordi jeg føler det kunne være godt for mig både fysisk og mentalt. Problemet er bare at jeg synes det er mega pinligt, fordi jeg ikke aner hvad man laver derinde eller hvordan man starter. Er bange for at ligne en idiot.
Samtidig føler jeg også bare jeg mangler noget at lave i hverdagen. Jeg gider ikke rigtig spille computer mere, men det er også lidt det eneste jeg laver.
Derudover skriver jeg med en pige som jeg virkelig godt kan lide, og det påvirker mig nok også mere end jeg vil indrømme. Jeg går hele tiden og er bange for at det stopper eller at hun mister interessen, og det fylder ret meget i mit hoved.
Ved ikke helt hvad jeg vil med opslaget. Måske bare høre om andre har haft det sådan her som 17-årig, eller hvordan man finder lidt mere retning i tingene.
I am a 17M and i met this girl at a party. She is 16f and i really like her. We have been talking the past since we met but I just feel so scared that i fuck it all up. It’s my first talking stage in a long time.
I like her alot and i am so scared every night when I go to sleep it will end. And every time i see my phone get a notification I instantly look if its her. If not i get sad. I feel like im overthinking and i talk with my friends but i dont know how to fully express myself.
If someone could give some advice it would help alot.