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Hello,

Just posting because I want some quick fix things I can try, I don’t want to call Microsoft right now.

I just need to open my pay portal for work to look at my T4 for an application and this 20 min max task is going to take me upwards of 2 hours I just know it, because of Authenticator being linked to this whole process.

What do you do when the 2 digit code just isn’t being sent to Authenticator app? I don’t get the push notification and it doesn’t show up in the app. I have also tried getting the code sent to outlook, or the 6 digit code in the app. None showing up.

I hate Microsoft Authenticator with a PASSION. Some nonsense like this is always happening.

Any ideas I would really appreciate!

Hello,

I am just looking for advice in my current situation. Within this last month, someone has gotten into my easyweb now 8 times. Every time they try to e transfer large sums of money. TD has stopped it every time and I’ve always gotten my money back, but I am getting irritated with my card being locked when this happens, and sometimes it happens during the weekend and I am left without money all weekend as the bank is closed on Sunday.

Every time they just give me a new card and reset my easyweb password, but the same thing happens. Every time I suggest that we do something different, because I know that the same thing is just going to happen-the people on the phone at the fraud department as well as the bank tellers shoot me down, and don’t offer any other solution. I’m not sure what to do…. Although I always get my money back, I am TIRED of going into the branch, and I am TIRED of changing my card info for everything all the time, and getting NSF fees when I forget.

The first few times this has happened, they were able to add a security phone number and email that was not mine. Once, I asked the person on the phone at the fraud department if the numbers and emails were removed, and they told me that they were- but when I renewed my easyweb I saw that the fake phone number and email were still on my account LOLOL thanks TD! Seems like something pretty simple to check, and they couldn’t even do that for me correctly. Since removing those myself, it seems like now the hacker has been able to just change my password now and that’s how they are getting in.

TD told me to take my phone to Apple to check for malware and I did this-they said there was none. I also factory reset my phone. I am thinking that maybe I just need to close the account? TD seems hesitant to do this, but I am unsure of what else I can do here? I am sick of going into the branch and getting a new card while knowing that I will be back to the branch with this same issue, either the next day or a few days later. It seems like a waste of not only my time, but the employees…

I am just tired of this all and unsure of what I can do.

Any advice or experience in a similar situation would be appreciated!!!

Hello!

Lately I have been having an issue with someone I considered my best friend. So this issue happens more over text but in person as well. Whenever I state an opinion, I feel like this person has to either argue with me, try to correct me, or responds in a flippant manner that becomes grating and irritating after a while. Even after I say something that is (I think) quite obviously a joke! Things came to a head recently and this person removed themself from our friend group chat over something that I thought was minimal or could be talked though.

It’s important to note that this person just recently got off their meds, and I believe they have been diagnosed as BPD and bipolar. I love this person dearly but I don’t like at all how they speak to me. I consider myself a pretty happy chill person, so to be responded to constantly with what feels like anger or judgement gets to be draining.

What I wish people would understand is that I am not an easily swayed person and just because I think or do things differently, it doesn’t mean I am stupid or that I want to be like someone else. I don’t appreciate being talked down to, and I’ve noticed this happen in a few relationships I’ve had in the past.

This person often puts long rants into our group chat or texts me personally to complain about work, family, etc. Sometimes they just need to vent but if I offer any suggestions, they are often met with hostility so I keep responses brief. This time, this person was complaining about a health issue I was also having the previous week. I asked if this person had tried something, and they responded in a way that was really rude-at least it read that way to me. I don’t need someone to talk at me like I’m stupid when I’m just trying to show that I care. I could just ignore this person like everyone else in the chat does. So I decided to stand up for myself and be passive aggressive back! I said something along the lines of “Ok! I wasn’t aware of that, but now I am thanks :)” this person immediately left the group chat.

Now I’m confused and kind of angry. This person speaks to me like this all the time and when I do it back it’s a problem? This is kind of leading me to think that this person and I should stop being friends. If I can’t bite my tongue anymore then that’s a problem, but I also don’t want this person to feel like how they speak to me and others is ok. Part of me thinks maybe she is unaware of how she is coming across, and I should tell her how she’s been making me feel, but at this moment I’m pissed off and I don’t think I did anything wrong so I don’t want to reach out.

What would you do here? I’ve been friends with this person for like 15 years and they are like family, but lately them being so miserable and tbh rude to me is too much and I don’t have time for it anymore.