u/No-Plantain-5613

Please don't write your sin (as we don't want our sins to have a witness on the day of judgement just write it was a moment of weakness ) and then what stopped you in your track.

The intervention can be something that came to your mind and you deliberately stepped back or someone sharing something related to that.

Please be clever about how you share it so that no one can know what it was.

While reading the comments something else popped up in my mind how do you think women who are mothers or sisters or wives or daughters can create a sense of safety ?

I have this thread going on about getting to know men.their emotions and about SA of young boys.

While reading the comments something else popped up in my mind and that was how do you think women who are mothers or sisters or wives or daughters can create a sense of safety ? If it's the right word ?for you guys.

Or what do you think future mothers should instill in their children to become a safe space for boys.

So many of you struggle to express their needs and wants because you have been taught to toughen up.

Or your experience wasn't good and you decided to shut down entirely.

Or your parents weren't good at responding and talked negative things about you in your childhood.

So what do you need from the community that will help you or your children in future when we are gone but maybe something you tell us might be learned by someone else and become a source of ease for someone.

If men struggle what do you need ?

That's my fav question that I have asked you people so far...

So I would love to know.

While reading the comments something else popped up in my mind how do you think women who are mothers or sisters or wives or daughters can create a sense of safety ?

I have this thread going on about getting to know men.their emotions and about SA of young boys.

While reading the comments something else popped up in my mind and that was how do you think women who are mothers or sisters or wives or daughters can create a sense of safety ? If it's the right word ?for you guys.

Or what do you think future mothers should instill in their children to become a safe space for boys.

So many of you struggle to express their needs and wants because you have been taught to toughen up.

Or your experience wasn't good and you decided to shut down entirely.

Or your parents weren't good at responding and talked negative things about you in your childhood.

So what do you need from the community that will help you or your children in future when we are gone but maybe something you tell us might be learned by someone else and become a source of ease for someone.

If men struggle what do you need ?

That's my fav question that I have asked you people so far...

So I would love to know.

Why boys dont share their feelings?Just why ?

I asked boys about SA they faced and some of them found it difficult to open up.I and many other who read you get it.Totally.

I want to know apart from the hurt that you guys faced after SA why can't you share your emotions or feelings ?FOR SA victims why not professional help ?

For girls every girl that faced this.i believe a large number of them have confined it to someone?

Why not you ?

What makes it difficult for you to share your needs ?

Or if you think you want to open up who would you go for and why ?

Any difficult emotion.

You boys are an extraordinary species I'm telling ya.

Why boys dont share their feelings?Just why ?

I asked boys about SA they faced and some of them found it difficult to open up.I and many other who read you get it.Totally.

I want to know apart from the hurt that you guys faced after SA why can't you share your emotions or feelings ?

For girls every girl that faced this.i believe a large number of them have confined it to someone?

Why not you ?

What makes it difficult for you to share your needs ?

Or if you think you want to open up who would you go for and why ?

Any difficult emotion.

You boys are an extraordinary species I'm telling ya.

I asked boys about SA they faced and some of them found it difficult to open up.I and many other who read you get it.Totally.

I want to know apart from the hurt that you guys faced after SA why can't you share your emotions or feelings ?

For girls every girl that faced this.i believe a large number of them have confined it to someone?

Why not you ?

What makes it difficult for you to share your needs ?

Or if you think you want to open up who would you go for and why ?

Any difficult emotion.

You boys are an extraordinary species I'm telling ya.

Boys usually don't open up so easily about their feelings so if they face something like this it's even more rare for them to share it with their mum or someone trustworthy .

Hi so I'm (anonymous) and writing my first content for a book and it's on rape .I know someone very close to me ( a girl ) who faced it here in Pakistan ( by her own father ) and now I want to know about BOYS.

If you are comfortable and have experienced ( I pray not ) or know someone who did experience sexual abuse of any type I want you to share your story or their story.

Was it someone close or a friend or a guardian and how long did it continue, did it ever stop? did u share this with someone? your mama ? Boys usually don't open up so easily about their feelings so if they face something like this it's even more rare for them to share it with their mum or someone trustworthy .

Again no pressure I just want to hear your story .

So far the internet I have scraped through has only given me content about girls which I'm personally quite familiar with .I want to know about u guys.

I still remember I read a novel once and it was the only one where rape of young boys was mentioned those who travel with truck drivers in Pakistan (those with flashy colors and loud songs)

Since then I have always felt unease whenever I see a truck or especially a kid in it.

If u share your story i shall be grateful to u.

And anyone who faced this I know you can heal .remember if u don't heal it , it will be disastrous.

Boys usually don't open up so easily about their feelings so if they face something like this it's even more rare for them to share it with their mum or someone trustworthy .

Hi so I'm (anonymous) and writing my first content for a book and it's on rape .I know someone very close to me ( a girl ) who faced it here in Pakistan ( by her own father ) and now I want to know about BOYS.

If you are comfortable and have experienced ( I pray not ) or know someone who did experience sexual abuse of any type I want you to share your story or their story.

Was it someone close or a friend or a guardian and how long did it continue, did it ever stop? did u share this with someone? your mama ? Boys usually don't open up so easily about their feelings so if they face something like this it's even more rare for them to share it with their mum or someone trustworthy .

Again no pressure I just want to hear your story .

So far the internet I have scraped through has only given me content about girls which I'm personally quite familiar with .I want to know about u guys.

I still remember I read a novel once and it was the only one where rape of young boys was mentioned those who travel with truck drivers in Pakistan (those with flashy colors and loud songs)

Since then I have always felt unease whenever I see a truck or especially a kid in it.

If u share your story i shall be grateful to u.

And anyone who faced this I know you can heal .remember if u don't heal it , it will be disastrous.