u/No-Soft-6485

salary is 6,800 a month NET. current rent is 2,500 for a studio in UES. won a studio in Williamsburg for 3,500 a month. apart from modern living, it has a W&D.... I wfh.... i kinda hate my current living situaion as it's pre-war and i live with cockroaches... but I also live in Manhattan. I can't save anything rn and am worried it will get worse if i move. also my work is not stable... so idk what to do

My work is remote, so I've moved to NYC for culture and dating 3 y o today. I got disappointed in dating within 2 months of swiping. I enjoy Broadway, Central Park here and there, MET, and a slice of pizza sometimes(everything else was found in my previous locale too). I haven't made ANY friends. I live alone. I've tried bumble for friends but all i met was lesbians who wanted to date. I live paycheck to paycheck and wonder if I should move to a cheaper locale. I'm in my late 30s. Is it over? Or can I still make friends SOMEHOW?

salary: 150k, location: NYC, current rent: 2,500, includes utilities.

current place is a shoebox with no w/d but the location is nice, UES.

considering moving to harlem, 40 blocks up and paying 3,500 +utilities a month. I get paid 6,800 net a month. the harlem apartment is lux, is a 1bedroom has a w&d.

i am on thin ice at work, my boss hates me and wrote me up multiple times in the past 3 years, to be able to fire me any day she wants.

im not really able to save much now, the only time i saved was when i received a bonus, so i have 30k on my savings account.

Whenever i read a post of a couple looking for a place to live i immediately assume he is using her for free sex and to have 50% off rent, and she's using him for rent, and that separately on their own they cannot live in this city.

I currently live on 80s and East End and pay 2,500 for a studio in prewar, utilities included.
does it make sense to move to 120s Street in East Harlem to a 1b1b with w&d and pay 3,500 plus utilities? I absolutely hate laundromats and have an OCD to give it to wash&fold.

edit: salary 140k

2 days after my third egg retrieval I've started experiencing persistent tingling and numbness in labia. It's been 5 weeks and counting. Has anyone experienced this? Googling it says it's pudendal nerve damage

2 days after my third egg retrieval I've started experiencing persistent tingling and numbness in labia. It's been 5 weeks and counting. Has anyone experienced this? WHat specialist must I see?