u/NoFaith7172

hello. i'm f21, chinese. i’m into fashion, drawing, manga, visual novels, gacha games (hsr, genshin, blue archive, etc..), and a lot of other things. i mostly play solo games, but i’d be down to co-op sometimes too.

i’d really like to meet people around 20–25+ who likes similar things, are asian, and especially girls since i don’t really have many girl friends. we could potentially even meet up in the future since i don't have any real-life friends.

i’ll be upfront too: i am mentally unwell and have quiet bpd. i’d like to connect with people who understand that or deal with similar things so we can support each other. i can get overly attached and maybe even overbearing, so if all of this is a red flag to you, it’s probably better not to interact. thank you.

i like sharing pictures (like my outfits) occasionally and can vc with you though i’m pretty shy with new people and am more of a texter. we can even share funny videos together, just ask for my socials! i don't post anything on them yet but will soon

it’s been so long since i was attached to someone. my first true fp in years, and he was so nice. i left him because i was too obsessed and i knew that in the future he’d be annoyed at me. i’d always check his following, his activity, just everything. he has way more friends than me so i wonder why he even reached out to me in the first place. he follows a lot of girls. if he were in a room with them and me, i know he’d choose them over me and that thought would make me cry. i felt so small every time we talked and i could never tell him anything because i knew i made him uncomfortable. i’m so stupid. i feel free but at the same time i feel so empty because i left him

hello, i'm 21f and east asian and i like fashion, drawing, playing games (vns and gacha), and manga. i prefer to look for others (20-25+) who are asian as well, into fashion and drawing, have freaky humor, and that are girls too since i don't have many girl friends

also, i have quiet bpd so i tend to withdraw and would like to meet people who are the same so we can support each other. i'd be so down to send voice messages or voice chat but i get nervous, so i'm more of a text person. i like to play solo games more but we can always co-op on something!

i also like to share pictures of stuff (like fits!) sometimes or funny vids so if you want someone to spam, then come to me ahaha

thank you for reading and hope i'm interesting enough ^o^

hello, i'm 21f and east asian and i like fashion, drawing, playing games (vns and gacha), and manga. i prefer to look for others (20-25+) who are asian as well, into fashion and drawing, have freaky humor, and that are girls too since i don't have many girl friends

also, i suspect i have quiet bpd so i tend to withdraw and would like to meet people who are the same so we can support each other. i'd be so down to send voice messages or voice chat but i get nervous, so i'm more of a text person. i like to play solo games more but we can always co-op on something!

i also like to share pictures of my outfits sometimes or funny vids so if you want someone to spam, then come to me ahaha

thank you for reading and hope i'm interesting enough ^o^

I’m honestly still not sure if unadding her was the right thing to do.

She originally reached out to me wanting to be friends, and we talked for a while before things slowly fizzled out. I tried reaching back out, but she wouldn’t respond. Then one day, she accidentally added one of my friends, and suddenly she messaged me asking how I was and trying to talk again. She said adding him was an accident, and he confirmed that too, but they still ended up having a conversation before unadding each other.

I won’t lie, it hurt a little seeing that she was able to talk to him so easily, and that it somehow reminded her that she had basically ghosted me. At the same time, I tried to be understanding because of her AuDHD. I figured we’re both adults (she's 26 and I'm 21) and she also had a situationship going on so most of her mind was on that. Ironically, she used to mention that he was a bad texter too and would want reassurance from him.

Later on, me and that guy ended on really bad terms, as he said some creepy stuff. Apparently, after that, he told her stuff about me, like how I used to vent about people and one of them was her, and I didn’t even know until I realized they had added each other again. I ended up talking to her about it, and she apologized for being defensive and things seemed ok, but I wondered why she still kept him around (because I told her about the stuff he did) and had a bad feeling.

After that, she stopped responding to me for months while still staying active online. I’d see her liking reels about liking being alone and other content that really made me resent her. It got to the point where I felt like I couldn’t even text her anymore because she clearly wasn’t making the effort to respond to me, and I felt like she was "male-centered" from the way she was still friends with the guy.

Eventually, I just unadded her. Part of me feels like I should’ve explained why, but another part of me honestly feels like she probably wouldn’t have cared anyways and I didn't owe her one. I mean, we weren't really close at all but this has been on my mind for a while now. Was I stupid and should I have just given her more time to respond??