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I will literally be scrolling on TikTok and stumble on some random TikTok live tarot reading and someone would ask if their ex misses them or some shit and they will literally pick a card with an entirely different meaning and say yes 😭😭? It makes me sad that people fall for it 😭😭

Tarot readings can be great for understanding and gaining clarity on a situation, but I think it’s important to keep a few things in mind before buying a reading from someone. As someone who has been providing reading services for years this is some advice I’d like to give.

Tarot cards are great at reflecting energy, and a lot of the time a reading can also reflect the energy of the person giving it. I would personally never give readings unless I’m in a calm emotional state.

Tarot should be used as guidance, not as something that controls your decisions. Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and remember that you always have free will!!

I’d also say to be careful of readers who try to scare you or make you feel dependent on constant readings. Tarot should be something that helps guide and empower you, not something that makes you feel anxious or stuck. At the end of the day, you still have free will and your own judgment.

Predictions: tarot cards usually aren’t the best for long-term predictions. Keep in mind that energy can shift fast, situations can change, and people make different choices all the time. I wouldn’t get too hung up on a negative future reading because it could simply be reflecting your current energy in the moment.

I’d also suggest avoiding overly specific yes-or-no questions. I’ve had people ask questions before where I genuinely had no idea how the cards would even answer it. Open-ended questions usually lead to much clearer and more helpful readings.

Hello!!

So I am constantly seeing people saying things like “oh but I’m manifesting an avoidant” “is manifesting an avoidant harder? “

Manifesting an avoidant to come back is easy. Most avoidant come back even if you don’t manifest them believe it or not.

But when it comes to manifesting an avoidant it’s important to not manifest the avoidant qualities back with them, so constantly calling them an avoidant is just gonna bring them back with the same quality’s and unfortunately the same patterns are going to keep happening of them leaving when things get too hard, they get overwhelmed etc.

So I would recommend not only focusing on them coming back or just texting you , but the person you want them to be, “my sp is so committed to me” and things like that. And don’t stop manifesting when you get them, keep those positive thoughts.

I’d also recommend absolutely no chasing or no contact, start a complete no contact rule with them, and don’t even chase them in ur head focus on yourself.

Ignore everyone telling you u can can do it by urself for under $30 🤭🌸💔🐷😜😜😜❤️❤️❤️

Not a self promotion!

Idk if this is allowed on this sub but I genuinely want to help.

I was in the same situation, looking at this sub trying to find legit casters and going absolutely crazy, I’ve tried them all and got NO movement on any situation. I started to do spells myself and I finally got movement. I understand not everyone has the resources or feels like they have the power within themselves to do it but trust me doing it yourself is so much more powerful then getting a stranger to do it, and it’s easier then you might think.

My DMs are open for questions.

Also there is nothing wrong with wanting someone else to do it! sometimes situations are more complicated then other and if you don’t want to spend a but load of money for it to may not work maybe consider doing it urself !

So I little while ago I did a blockbuster 7 day candle on my specific intention to start for a clear slate. The blockbuster candle was successful 0 wax left over the candle was clear, and things shifted in my situation. After the blockbuster was completed I then did a come to me candle, it took a while to burn but I didn’t mind because I felt as though it was calm persist energy and didn’t mind being patient, the candle is finished but there is some left over wax. I wanted to know what the leftover wax meant and if I did something wrong.

Hey guys so I would really like opinions and insight on this 😭..

So I’ve been manifesting my sp since we split up, for about 3 months, we’ve been unfollowed each other on social medias the day of the breakup. since the split up we haven’t spoken AT ALL I didn’t interact with any if his social media and I randomly got blocked 💀??

He randomly sent me a TikTok but I didn’t see it until 4 hours later and I was blocked on everything … like wtf 💀💀??

Im not seeing this as a bad situation or the opposite or anything I just wanna understand cus I’m really confused cus I did absolutely nothing to be blocked.

English isn’t my first language so bear with me .

Just because you had a bad day or had doubts doesn’t slow down your manifestation. If anything it can make it stronger.

You’re heartbroken, heartbreak leads to fear and fear leads to doubt. And it’s okay ur feelings are valid. Your fears aren’t reality. When you have those doubts ur not in a place of clarity or intuition ur in the complete opposite.

Manifestation has worked for SO many people, you come to this sub and see SO many success stories, why wouldn’t manifestation work for you? Why would you be the exception? You’re not some special chosen one who out of billions of people it magically doesn’t work for ? So stop it.

You can use these negative emotions to focus on yourself and understand yourself, understand ur triggers and why your really scared at the moment , are you scared because you think you’ll loose them ? Why are you scared of loosing them ? . When you start to focus on you in anyway, they start to focus on you.

I was manifesting for 3 months, didn’t see any movement but still had high hopes, It was perfect the weather was nice I started focusing on myself, I worked on my self concept and I was okay. Then out of no where I saw something on my SPs profile, I didn’t go looking it just popped up on my suggestion. I was devastated, I didn’t understand why he put that there it didn’t sound like him at all my mind starting racing to the worst case scenario and I lost myself it was the complete opposite of my affirmations. I really thought in the moment I was a dumbass and silly for trying to manifest him. I was so heartbroken and depressed I felt like I was gonna pass out. I truly gave up and thought that was that. I didn’t even wanna try manifesting him because I was so embarrassed. It was the next day, I was still depressed and fell into a deep hole of heartbreak, I wasn’t on my phone but decided to open TikTok and he sent me a video. Just like that the first movement I saw after 3 months. It felt insane.

Keep in mind that all happened in the span of 2 days.

Things can and will change SO quick.

The point of my post is that there are no rules to manifestation, it’s different for everyone. No one can tell you that feeling you’re feeling will stop or negatively affect your manifestations.

I’ve been doing witchcraft for a while now, and just recently I’ve started getting serious, doing research and buying the right materials (I know there is so much more to witchcraft then the right materials) but recently have been feelings lost. There is so much information and misinformation out there, Everything I seem to do is wrong, if the “wax drips this way then this and that”, “you need to use a block buster “ “no you need a road opener “ . I try to go to Reddit for help and my post gets deleted for some crazy reason, I don’t want to go on TikTok or social media for advice and I also don’t have any family or friends to speak to. I don’t even know if the mods will keep.

I’ve been studying witchcraft for a few years and I’m ready to start practicing, would love to hear y’all’s answers :)!