u/North-Investment-461

Is it right that my shoelaces should be facing behind me in a toe touch rather than up?

I invited a guy over last night and we had oral sex.

I've woke up this morning and I feel so guilty. Like I've done some awful. My family is out of town and there's no reason anyone else I know would know I had someone round.

He's a neighbour from the next street. We're friends. I've been going to the pub with him and sometimes his friends every so often. A long while ago he took me to the cinema and paid. He always walks me home when we're out. He doesn't want a relationship and neither do I. I've been back and forth to uni so there's often been long gaps where I've not seen him.

I've not had that much experience but in the past if I've ever kissed someone on a night out. I feel so much guilt the next day, so much that it makes me feel a bit sick.

Sometimes I do have intense feelings of guilt when there's no need. Usually I'd talk to my mum about whatever is on my mind but this is too personal.

I'm not from a religious family at all, sex was never a taboo subject growing up.

There's no reason at all that I can think of that I feel guilty.

I've heard so many people say he was entertaining and he wasn't a great business guy but at least he was funny.

But a constant has never made my blood boil like this Man. Kurran was the Apprentices worst Candidate hands down. No contest.

It's the fact he's completely incompetent, puts 0 effort in everything and then has a suprised pikachu face whenever anyone calls him on it.

And he speaks so demeaningly to the women contestants. Especially in his PM task. Like sayings he'll Deal with them in the boardroom and in the task shutting down anything they say.

No wonder his team refused to listen to him when was PM. Following this man in a task would be like willingly following the Captain of the Titanic into the iceberg.

In his last episode he was described as having the business acumin of a pea. And that description sums him up completely.

My biggest pet peeve in the cheer community is the blame game people like to play when watching cheer videos.

When it's either a video demonstrating the first few tries of a stunt before a team gets it right or a funny fail video there always seem to be at least one person in the comments that feels the need to say 'Flyers Fault BTW.'

Obviously this happens with all the positions I think people just take some extra pleasure in blaming the flyer.

I know what's just how the Internet is sometimes but I hate that people's immediate response is just to be negative and snarky.

I think part of the reason is because the cheer world is dominated by younger athletes it's led to this immaturity though of course I'm sure most teenagers and kids don't act like this.

Maybe in some circumstances it would be appropriate to say 'Hey I think doing Bla bla bla would help the stunt be steadier.' Although I'm sure in most cases these athletes have coaches that are helping them instead.

Rant over. This was just something I needed off my chest. And if you're reading this and you're the type of person to leave this comment. For the sake of my sanity please stop it. 🙏

I (20F )was out with my close friend (Sally) (20F) and a mutual friend (Steve) (19M)the other day. I left for a few minutes and when I got back Sally told me they were planning on a beach trip with a group and asked me to come along. She asked me what day would be best and as far as I wad concerned it was all planned.

I went to hers the night before and asked if we're still on for tommorrow. She sort of dodged my question and said that we were now going to PLACE. Then I asked if any others were coming and she said no it was just her and Steve.

The story she was given me was a bit convoluted and I hadn't clocked I was being booted from the plans yet so I asked for a summary and then she clarified that it was just her and Steve going.

I'm going through a really hard time at the minute. And I'm feeling a bit sensitive.. I don't know if I should bring it up or it's not so bad and I should let it go.

I think it's relevant to know that Sally really likes Steve and I think the feelings are mutual but Steve has a girlfriend of a year. Although I feel a break up is on the horizo.

He means well and he's nice enough. But he's one of those people that just talks at you rather than with you. And I always end up third wheeling when we're all together.

I think it's worth noting that he doesn't know she invited me and took it back.

Tldr - My friend removed me from her day trip to the beach because she wanted to spend time with a boy.

I was out with my close friend (Sally) and a mutual friend (Steve) the other day. I left for a few minutes and when I got back Sally told me they were planning on a beach trip with a group and asked me to come along. She asked me what day would be best and as far as I wad concerned it was all planned.

I went to hers the night before and asked if we're still on for tommorrow. She sort of dodged my question and said that we were now going to PLACE. Then I asked if any others were coming and she said no it was just her and Steve.

The story she was given me was a bit convoluted and I hadn't clocked I was being booted from the plans yet so I asked for a summary and then she clarified that it was just her and Steve going.

I'm going through a really hard time at the minute. And I'm feeling a bit sensitive.. I don't know if I should bring it up or it's not so bad and I should let it go.

I think it's relevant to know that Sally really likes Steve and I think the feelings are mutual but Steve has a girlfriend of a year. Although I feel a break up is on the horizon.

He means well and he's nice enough. But he's one of those people that just talks at you rather than with you. And I always end up third wheeling when we're all together.

I think it's worth noting that he doesn't know she invited me and took it back.

Any advice would be appreciated.