u/NorthernElk1

I am a little lost with what to do in my long distance relationship or how to make things properly work. The life i live right now is making it impossible to do anything at the moment. I'm 20 years old from Canada and I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend from Eastern ukraine for soon to be 2 years now. I did make a post on here 9 months ago worried about her situation. Anyways, trying to make a plan for the future is extremely difficult in many ways. We both don't have much income at all to even see eachother in person.. It will require me to move to somewhere in europe to be with her, since she wants to try to move to Norway in the future, to live a safer life. From what i understand it is extremely difficult to move there without a profession or much work experience/education. She can probably move there as a refugee, but for me it is way more difficult. There isn't a clear end in sight. I love her, but the uncertainty makes me anxious. And i know that it isn't impossible. What is the best thing to do in this situation? You can be completely honest, just looking for an outside view on it

Hello, I'm not sure how to start off with this, I've never talked about this with anyone really. Anyways I am 20 years old and was diagnosed with Fasd around 4 years ago while in a hospital for a month due to mental health problems(like severe anxiety and depression). During my stay i did certain congnitive and problem solving tests. It was some iq test of which i did poorly on. I don't have any of the physical features of fasd, apparently it is only mentally. I talk normal and things, so it isn't something you can easily spot. My mother was a severe alcoholic and passed away last year from her addiction. She had quite a bit of history with drinking while pregnant, especially with my other siblings

When i found out about having fasd i was in complete denial for years. I thought they came to the wrong conclusion with everything. Now i understand that it is a real problem in my life. Trying to live with it and understand it is very difficult, especially with my current situation. I live out in the countryside of Canada, and i still have no drivers license or a job. I've been trying to get used to driving over the past while. I just can't concentrate at all too well and i panic lots. It doesn't feel safe. My family keeps on telling me that i just need to get used to it. Without a license you can't do anything out here, public transportation doesn't exist here. I feel like i might just be making excuses to not achieving anything much yet. I'm always worried i won't get very far in this world with how i handle things. And i hope to find someone who can give advice or just understands it a little

Hello, I'm 20 and looking for someone to play certian niche video games with(only with someone 18+) currently have been playing a game called Generation Zero, i don't know anyone who even plays the game

Other games i play:

Hearts of iron 4

Crusader kings 3

Company of heros

R.u.s.e

Wargame

Nuclear option

Those are mainly the only multiplayer games i play. I always play them either solo or cooperate :) Also, time zone differences doesn't matter much at all during the weekends