And by stinginess I don't necessarily mean with money but act like using time to talk to you, text you and spending time with you is wasting their precious resources. Stingy with their affections (never compliments you, doesn't even touch you even though you initiated it) and stingy with their likes on social media as if anything below grade is not worthy of his likes.

I've chalked it up to that this individual doesn't like me much...so maybe this INTJ was a dud and not all INTJ men are cruel.

Hope this isn't a stupid question could I log in with only the GAIA ID number?

I need to know if there are tools you can uncover to see if they have a dating profile for free, and no I'm not doing the "forget password" thing cuz that would tip them off.

Originally I was an INFP. I still think I'm more of a feeler than a thinker. Not sure if the second time is more of an accurate analysis??

Is there a way you can see when the profile has been updated either recently or weeks before. I need a timeframe! Sorry I know this isn't the Facebook sub but still...

Is there a way you can see when the profile has been updated either recently or weeks before. I need a timeframe! Sorry I know this isn't the Facebook sub but still...

I wonder if it's because they have low self esteem and the thought of being a cold, unbothered sociopath gives them a sense of facade?

Time and time again I've always hear the common notion or opinion from men that Latin women particularly the ones from Mexico and the rest of Hispaniola are very attractive and of course -- their voluptuous bodies. (ahem JLo)

But what makes them attractive? Is it due to the intermingling of their native ancestry? Because you don't often hear "oh Italian women are so hot" or "Spanish women have amazing bodies" despite having the same Mediterranean ancestry. What are they eating to grow that oomph on their behind??? 💀

I doubt if my diet consists of tomatoes, guacamole and tortillas I would magically have a thicker body but nevertheless it's probably something in their genetics that shapes how they look. Whether that's through their environment, food or maybe the indigenous ancestry that I do not know.

Thoughts?

this isnt a pheno post but I need to get this out of my system so bear with me - I will delete it later.

category_0 was a friend I made on r/phenotypes two years ago. long story short it was short lived but it wasn't out of animosity. the guy was on the spectrum I believe, and he has deleted his old account.

in 2025, while browsing on here I clicked on a username I didn't recognized, slightly just slightly hoping I would bump into category_0. well lo and behold I befriended THAT person but he was a judgemental asshole but I still was intrigued. fast forward to present day, this person is still an asshole and even much worst now to the point it's just emotional abuse.

and all because I just wanted to see my old phenotype friend that I had to go through this see saw of push-pull relationship.