r/INTP_female

Life’s tough, and dare I say more so for INTP girls since even amongst the rarity of INTPs, it’s mostly guys. Also, most INTP girls don’t really fit the “normal” stereotypes of what society expect, and being logical and intuitive just makes it harder to fit in. But being alone really does affect INTPs very much bc they feel such a deep sense of loneliness. You’re not misfits, and being weird is interesting. Hope you find your people in life. Peace.

This might be dysfunctional but i think i just dont like being in a relationship. Even if i do like the person themself i feel irritated at the general demands of a romantic relationship. The amount of time, energy, and money that goes into it is so draining. Idk im just not built for it. There is so many other things i need to spend my resources on. Like personal pursuits/goals and my general well being. I know that sounds terribly selfish but its just how i feel

I wish i could be a ‘sometimes’ girlfriend. Like ill be your girlfriend but we just dont bother with each other everyday. Im beginning to consider breaking up with my girlfriend because i am just so! drained! I have nothing left to give. It fucking sucks because i actually do love her and she is a great partner. I just need to step away now and then to focus on myself as an individual and i feel like im not allowed to.

Do you INTP ladies feel the same? Any advice?

This question is not aimed at people on the asexual spectrum just fyi

I didn’t learn how make up works when I was growing up and now I’m considering it as an adult. I’d like to know if there are YouTubers or blogs or any impersonal resources out there that the make up users among us might recommend.
Thank you kindly.

I am 23 m intj or intp ,5w4 very polymathic.. i want to meet intp females who are interested in so many subjects to have discussions on everything.

I am big fan of alan Turing, claude shannon , demis hassabis, Norbert weiner , Von neuman, elon musk, david deutsch , Douglas hostadgfer, michael levin etc

If you are also fan of these people, you are most likely interesting.. We can vibe

I saw this question recently and was really surprised at the answers.

What percentage of you like photography as a hobby or career? What kind specifically? And why?

According to the information I have gathered from my recent observation, most INTPs (female and male) I saw are interested in either programming or entomology, etc.

Now, Im curious how many female INTPs here are interested in quantum physics or physics?

I've taken an interest in MBTI archetypes lately because my mind is always looking for scientifically valid means of categorizing people.

I like INTPs and hate just about everyone else. Every girl I've been deeply attracted too were all INTPs. I just learned my childhood (male) friend is also INTP and he's the only one from our hometown I still talk to.

INTPs are the only people I cannot read at all. You guys shut off my brain's "analysis and deconstruction" mode and I just accept the quirkiness at face value, I find it amusing and cute but doing otherwise is also a waste of energy. I describe INTPs as "chaotic neutral".

I'm 26 in PST. DM if interested.

Is it not reasonable that I know everyone including me has flaws and I accept that? I like yapping too much to not share my analyses of people I observe with friends sometimes.

I've been thinking about this lately and I'm curious how other INTPs experience it.

I'm not naturally someone who meets a lot of people, and I find it much easier to connect with someone when there's already something interesting to talk about rather than through typical small talk. I also struggle with maintaining long-term connections. It's not that I don't want to. I genuinely do, but somehow conversations eventually fade or I get caught up in my own world, even with people I really like talking to.

So I'm wondering.

How do you actually meet people you genuinely click with?

Do you usually make friends through shared interests, online communities, university/work, gaming, random conversations, or something else?

And once you meet someone interesting, do you actually make an effort to keep the connection going, or do you also have the classic INTP tendency to disappear into your own world for a while? 😭

I'm curious about both friendships and romantic relationships, but I'm especially interested in how you guys form genuine connections rather than just acquaintances.

Originally I was an INFP. I still think I'm more of a feeler than a thinker. Not sure if the second time is more of an accurate analysis??