u/NurseRx-Rae

Survey on Plural Experiences
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Survey on Plural Experiences

I am conducting research for personal use. I like plurality, I think it's interesting, it's my special interest, but I've come to find that my experience is non-'traditional'. So, I made a survey asking about different plural experiences. Please answer honestly, and I'm open to you taking it multiple times.

And if you have any ideas for more questions, please feel free to request them.

You can find the survey here (should take about 4 to 5 minutes to complete). I will be posting my results, but please know it is 100% anonymous; I will NOT be using anyone's names.

u/NurseRx-Rae — 1 day ago
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Any ideas on how to make headspace NOT sad?

I don't like the headspace my brain has generated. It's a floating island in space. And all I know so far is that there's an overgrown forest and inside that forest is a temple, but it's abandoned and broken down. And inside lives a headmate with a lot of baggage.

This headspace is NOT my favorite. It's really just sad. But it's what my brain created for us to explore.

The headmate is a little (7 y/o) and a Fallen Angel. Which is my religious trauma tied into 1 tiny protector.

This headspace brings me sadness. It's NOT a pleasant place to be…

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 2 days ago

Is this a thing???

I've noticed something odd with my gender. When I'm alone, I'm a girl, but when I'm with others/in public, I'm a boy. Not really fluid, more like a switch. Like a lever going back and forth between boy and girl, depending on whether I'm alone or not.

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 6 days ago

Does a mod like this exist? I can't find one...

Is there a mod for deleting relationships? Specifically, the family tree? MCCC relationships don't seem to be working anymore in recent updates.

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 10 days ago

What Would a Otherkin Inclusive Society Actually Look Like

I'm trying to create a worldbuilding project where minorities are considered normalized, like extremely normalized.

In your opinion, what would an Otherkin inclusive society actually look like? Like everything from broad categories of life and society to just mundane life, what would it look like in your perfect Otherkin world?

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 12 days ago

What Would a Therian Inclusive Society Actually Look Like

I'm trying to create a worldbuilding project where minorities are considered normalized, like extremely normalized.

In your opinion, what would a therian inclusive society actually look like? Like everything from broad categories of life and society to just mundane life, what would it look like in your perfect therian world?

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 12 days ago
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What Would a Therian Inclusive Society Actually Look Like

I'm trying to create a worldbuilding project where minorities are considered normalized, like extremely normalized.

In your opinion, what would a therian inclusive society actually look like? Like everything from broad categories of life and society to just mundane life, what would it look like in your perfect therian world?

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 12 days ago
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What Would a Plural Inclusive Society Actually Look Like

I just want to say that for the sake of my research, ALL FORMS OF PLURALITY ARE OKAY AND WELCOME HERE!

I'm trying to create a worldbuilding project where minorities are considered normalized, like extremely normalized.

In your opinion, what would a plural inclusive society actually look like? Like everything from broad categories of life and society to just mundane life, what would it look like in your perfect plural world?

I'm not plural myself, but I find this interesting and wish to include it in my project! I don't want to be insensitive since I'm not plural, so I want to get insight from real plural people.

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 12 days ago

Can I be singularian AND still feel gender?

I'm genderfluid, but for some reason, I really, really connect to singularian. Despite feeling gender, I do in fact reject ALL forms of alignment/gender. I like being me and describing my 'gender' as just doing whatever I want to and being whoever I want to, and NOT identifying with gender despite feeling it. So can I use singularian OR NOT?

And IF not, is there a gender that does fit?

u/NurseRx-Rae — 15 days ago

Is there a term that's like pansexual (attracted to all genders and regardless of gender, considering other things like personality, presentation, or behavior) but excludes men or people who are male-presenting or identify as male? I like people for things other than gender, but that STRICTLY includes women, non-binary people, androgynous genders, fluid genders, and xenogender people. So people like cisgender or transgender men and masculine or male-presenting non-binary people are out of the question for me.

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 21 days ago

I ask you to please be kind to me because I genuinely do NOT understand that I'm trying to learn.

To figure out if I am polyamorous, do I have to date somebody? /genq

Like, I'm interested in the idea of being in a polyamorous relationship, specifically a group relationship, or just some type of polyamorous relationship where we are all dating each other, and we all love each other greatly.

When I asked this question in a few different polyamorous subreddits, I was heavily discriminated against, with people saying I was monogamous and I was just fetishizing polyamorous people. WHICH I GENUINELY WASN'T!!! This is a REAL question and reality I want, but now I'm scared to date anybody or even ask to be poly because I'm scared I'm going to get yelled at again…

So now I'm wondering if there's a way to figure out if I'm poly WITHOUT dating anybody, or is it a requirement to figure it out? /genq

I think I'm ambiamorous, but I'm not sure because I've never been in a polyamorous relationship, but I HAVE been in a few monogamous relationships.

Excuse me if this is a stupid question to ask… /gen

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u/NurseRx-Rae — 23 days ago