Boyfriend going on vacation for 12 days

My boyfriend is going on a vacation for 12 days and I’m not being selfish at all just a little sad since I’ve been going through a lot this summer and especially this week. I had to cut off a chunk of my friends because they’ve been talking behind my back and being super fake on top of it all so I can’t talk to them. Family problems have been a lot lately my parents did attempt to divorce and both of them are telling me their problems. I had to cut contact with my closest sister because she’s been a bad person lately, and my everyone and my job has been treating me very badly for no reason at all. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong and I’m sure people hate to see me working on myself but I am criticized for everything. What I’m trying to get at is my boyfriend is the only one who has made me feel so safe and loved through it all and I don’t try to trauma dump him all the time even if he doesn’t mind but I’m scared something will happen again and I’ll have nobody at all to talk to. I’ve been crying at work lots and at night too. We usually call at night so I’m distracted but my anxiety increases at night a lot. I’ve tried texting a few helplines and they start to sound kinda like an automated response now which kind of sucks. Just thought I’d share just in case anyone else feels the same. I’ve never been this far apart from him so I just need to distract myself and do the things I love. I’m working for 8 out of the 12 days he’s gone so that will pass time a lot I’m sure. My anxiety has been super bad lately just with everything going on and my boyfriend leaving makes me feel a little more anxious now just because at the end of the day I don’t use him for my anxiety or to cry to, I just love that he’s there and that’s truly all I need. Thanks for listening.

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u/Obvious-Lead-5030 — 3 days ago

I NEED HELP (New to this)

Im 19 years old and I have always been known to have clammy feet and hands. I don’t sweat that much from my head or from workouts really but I only find my hands are constantly wet or sticky same with my feet. As of lately it’s been bothering me to the point where I break down and cry because I’m getting so annoyed. I’ve washed my hands and feet, dried them and used powder about 5 times in the last hour just for it to get wet again in about a minute. I’m getting stressed and this is interfering with everything. Even in the winter i still have wet feet. Everything lines up perfectly with Hyperhidrosis. What are some products I can use to stop this. I also have eczema and my hands are very soft I wouldn’t want anything to dry out my hands or make me have a flare up. Thank you.

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u/Obvious-Lead-5030 — 2 months ago

I hate essay based exams

As the title says, I hate essay based exams. How do you study all the units just to answer one question. There’s also barely anytime to write a good essay. At least with multiple choice you can have an expectation of what’s going to be on it. I have no idea what to expect and was just told to study everything.

How do you guys study for these? I genuinely have no idea how to.

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u/Obvious-Lead-5030 — 2 months ago

Delayed period after taking plan B

Hi everyone! I’m 19 years old and I’m currently on birth control and have been on it for almost two years now. Me and my boyfriend did the you know what on April 27th (unprotected) but always very careful and always pull out without any problems at all.

However, this time I found he took long to finish which is strange and he said he maybe may have finished inside me but he said he didn’t feel anything but honestly wasn’t sure at all. It was strange but I thought I would take a plan B the next day just to be safe. I took one the next day and the pharmacist said I should be fine.

I’ve also missed a couple of pills that month of April and I usually don’t at all. I also get very regular periods every month. Last year I took a plan B but I don’t remember if it delayed my period that much. I’m not really getting much cramps I cant tell if it’s cramps or not. I know stress can also delay your period.

Me and my boyfriend are always very careful having sex but what’s scaring me is that my period is about 2 days late and I’ve heard stories of delayed periods but I’m just having so much anxiety at the moment. My mom and pharmacist already assured me and I always have the biggest fear of getting pregnant even though I have been fine these last two years.

I wanted to know how long these delays usually last and your experiences. Please give me some peace of mind if this is completely normal. Thank you everyone ❤️

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u/Obvious-Lead-5030 — 3 months ago

Musky/Baby Powder perfume recommendations

Hi everyone! My most favourite scent of all time is musky soft and powdery perfumes and I wanted some people’s recommendations. I find a lot of 90s perfumes smell the best. Here are some of the ones I have:

  • Skin Musk Cologne Spray (I can’t find it in Canada but this is my absolute fav)
  • White Musk (The Body Shop)
  • Pearl (Element Edition)
  • Rare Pearls (Avon)

Thank you :)

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u/Obvious-Lead-5030 — 3 months ago