u/Odd-Piccolo-934

My question is, if I were to kill someone who only has 10 more years to live, I will get the 10 years, cool and all, but what if I kill multiple people? Let's say I kill the first guy, get 10 years, and after 1 year, I kill someone else who was going to live 50 years, does that add 59 years to me ?

Do I have to wait for the first 10 years to expire in order to kill someone else ? Also how does it work aging wise ?

Let's say I'm 25 years old, when I survived the bridge collapse let's say. And I kill two babies who, just for this hypothetical, were both going to live until they turned 100 years old, so would I be 225 years old ?

Would I naturally die at let's say 85 ? Would I stay 25 years old until I died at 225 ? Would I ever die if I kept killing people ? And if I were to not kill anyone else other than the two babies, how would I age up to 225 ?

Hallo allerseits. Sind am überlegen ein neues Haus zu kaufen. Haben eins gefunden was uns gefällt. Einziges Problem. Der Arbeitsweg. Wenn wir das Haus kaufen würden, müssten wir täglich, laut Google Maps, 35 min, 36km fahren, hin und dann nochmal zurück. Also insgesamt 70 min und 72km täglich 5x die Woche. Die Spritkosten sind etwas natürlich bei den jetzigen Preisen, die zu bedenken sind. Man müsse locker 2-3 mal im Monat tanken. Kostet auch 200-300€.

Ist jetzt eher eine Frage für die Pendler hier, ob sich das lohnt ? Gibt es hier viele Leute die größere Arbeitsstrecken fahren? Was sind eure Erfahrungen? Würden uns freuen auf die Antworten.

Mfg.

Hallo allerseits. Die Schwester meiner besten Freundin heiratet und mein Mann und ich auch Männlich, sind eingeladen. Wir lieben die gesamte Familie und die uns auch. Die Beziehung ist wirklich sehr sehr eng. Wir sehen uns gegenseitig eher wie Familie als nur Freundschaft.

Ich habe jetzt zwei Fragen, und würde mich freuen auf euren Feedback. Die erste Frage betrifft die Menge an Geld die wir geben werden und die zweite Frage der Verpackung des Geldes.

Sind 300€ wenig Geld ? Das war die Summe die wir überlegt hatten zu geben. Wir finden die Summe mehr als in Ordnung, möchten aber definitiv kein Fauxpas machen, und unsere sehr gute Beziehung kaputt machen, bzw. Wir möchten nicht, dass es so rüberkommt als ob wir die Familie nicht wertschätzen würden.

Nur so, wir sind beide ursprünglich nicht aus Deutschland, und sind zum ersten Mal Teil einer deutschen Hochzeit. Wir können uns auch leisten deutlich mehr zu bezahlen, nur wir möchten gleichzeitig es auch nicht übertreiben, weil wir haben das Gefühl, dass auf beiden Seiten die Familie ausversehen beleidigen kann, wenn man zu viel, oder zu wenig gibt.

Zu der Frage der Verpackung, es gibt so paar Möglichkeiten mit Geld irgendwie falten und schön verpacken, jedoch wir finden diese Dinger alle voll hässlich, und ich weiß ein Briefumschlag ist recht langweilig und unspektakulär, aber wäre es so schlimm die gesamte Geldsumme in einem Briefumschlag mit einer schönen Karte als Geschenk zu geben? Wir finden das, ja einfach, aber auch nicht wirklich schlimm, und alles andere empfinden wir als unnötig und auch unnötig übertrieben.

Sind wir komisch ? Sollten wir doch was größeres machen als nur Briefumschlag, bzw. Auch mehr Geld schenken ?

"AITAH"? My husband (38) and I (30) (gay couple) went to a BBQ party at one of our friends house. We were 9 people in total all different ages from early 20 to max 50. When I say party I mean, the hosts were doing a BBQ and our friend group was invited. We ate, drank, talked and had a lot of fun. At least I had until we were walking back home in the night.

While walking my husband asked if I had a great time and I said, Yeah! And I asked him what about you ? He said not so much, and said to me that he didn't like it at all how I basically spent 99% of the time there talking only to the daughter of the host family and basically didn't talk at all to anyone else. I was shocked and said that was something bad ? I wasn't actively ignoring anyone. I talked to them for some things, and I greeted everyone when they came and left, and then just was really enjoying the conversation I was having with the daughter of the hosts, who so happened to be sitting right next to me. It was nothing intentional or me ignoring the people, I just clicked with her so much and it was a blast.

He went on to say, that's disrespectful and you don't do that, and I should have talked more with everyone and be more involved in the party. I was genuinely surprised and said I didn't think for a second I was doing something wrong. I was enjoying my time with her and just didn't think nor want to speak to anyone else, not because I disliked them, I just didn't want to stop the conversation we were having.

I was not actively ignoring people. If someone had talked to me I would have answered them back and/or talked to them.

I even said to him why didn't he make a hint or try to talk to me in private and tell me to spread my attention and talk to everyone, but he said there was no discreet way to have done that and that I shouldn't play dumb and that I should know that my behavior was unacceptable and that it was not ok for me to not participate so much in the group.

"AITAH" ? Should I not have focused so much of my time for one person in the group?

I can't wait to hear from you all.

Edit. First of all WOW! And thank you to everyone replying. In 30 min I got so so many people commenting and I'm guessing over the night I will get even more comments, and I can't reply to all of them so thank you so much in advance to everyone, cause where I'm from it's almost midnight we are going to bed now, and yes I posted this almost immediately when I arrived home, after we had this bad conversation on the street, because I genuinely didn't understand what I did wrong and wanted a fresh neutral perspective from people who don't know me or him.

Tomorrow morning I will bring this up again and see how the conversation goes. I brought your comments up but he said that "if we all see it like that, then whatever, he thinks it's weird" Maybe he's angry now, maybe he needs some time to reflect, he just went to bed and is sleeping now and let's see what happens tomorrow.

I'm glad to see that almost all of you don't see an issue as well, I genuinely hope he agrees tomorrow and maybe see that he overreacted. I'll keep you up to date. Lots of love ❤️😘

Second edit. So we had the talk, and he apologized and said he might have overreacted. He said that it didn't bother him that I was talking only with her, he was afraid that the other people in the group might have felt left out, or bad/sad/angry/disappointed/ignored by me, because I didn't speak to them at all. We both came to the conclusion that we cannot know nor control in this scenario the emotions of other people, and that I genuinely didn't do anything out of malice.

Having said that, that's why I also didn't answer the many comments saying he was a red flag or controlling or jealous, because I know my husband very well and he is none of those things. I'm very happy for all the engagement and kind and honest replies from all of you, so very much appreciated, but don't you guys worry about me. I have had a very happy marriage for many years now. And we all make mistakes and sometimes the verbage or timing or whatever is not perfect but the love is always there. We are both very blessed to have each other. So again. Thank you all very much from the bottom of my heart. You can reply again, if his concerns might have ground. Just as a feedback if you'd think that the other guest might have those feelings about me not having engaged with them. Just an FYI, they didn't engage much with me as well🤷🏻‍♂️ I think 3 of them, didn't talk to me at all so it was not me ignoring anyone, maybe they didn't want to disturb the conversation we were having, but mostly the daughter and myself got maybe asked 2-3 questions and that's it. So 🤷🏻‍♂️ Lots of love again ❤️😘

Hey Guys I have not so much a question but idk at least conversation for the topic.

When I host on Ygopro, or join a Ygopro alleged anime accurate duel. I do so gladly but get up very much annoyed at how people play especially Yusei, but also Yuma and Zane.

I make it a point to only host DM/GX, and I even state no BS cards cause I see it as a fun way, to enjoy it and have fun.

Like no virus canon, crush card, sabatiel, god cards, that spell kaiba gave Yugi for example.

My problem with Yusei, Yuma and Zane players, is they don't want to have fun at all, but only win. That's why they always have not only super busted cards, like number cards, anime bla bla bla, but also, "accurate" Yusei, with Black Rose, And other one of cards, maybe even the prison old dude cards, where I go that's not even accurate.

Or Zane players, only win condition, and only thing they do is Future fusion, overload fusion, chimera tech attack 1 million times with 1 million attack points, or cyber end, power bond limiter removal, where I'm like, how is that fun at all. Like can't you even try to enjoy or be accurate. How is using Yusei with no other signer dragons less fun? And also I don't see that as accurate at all, because wow akiza gave him that card for 1 duel, now it's accurate to use it. Like are we such, sorry for saying it, a-holes as to not be able to connect the dots, and actually be accurate and, again, not be a giant a-hole who only wants to win and dislikes fun.

I would like your guys opinion on this.