Please help me explore underrated momo spots here

I don't wanna go to cafes, so pretentious (for me)

Roadside, street food recs please

24f (not sure if that's relevant)

Currently doing my mba from a tier 2 college (idk it's relevance either)

I feel like I am too lost in my past/ i dwell too much in it.

Like every time thought is me knit picking my behaviour/ past situation with friends, family, relationships. I keep replaying the same shit, subconsciously thinking that a different behaviour of mine could have resulted in a different (better) outcome, (blaming mostly myself for it all)

Conversations where my parents were wrong and clearly very traditional and patriarchal, still i would think maybe they meant well? But ik they didn't and that they are just way too patriarchal like that but aaaaaa, can't help it.

How things went in my past relationships, maybe i could have done some everyday things better? Been less or more myself? Idk..... Same with friendships that I have lost.

I dwell in my past way too much that I ever do about my future. 80 past, 15 present, 5 future.

Every free second of my life, drives, shower, anything, I'm thinking about my past.

I want to change this but idk how what

I think it's problematic but I'm not sure

I think it's problematic because i don't think about my future, i don't have a dream destination, dream anything, idk where I wanna be in 5 year / even next year

I try to have a bucket list (because i like making lists lmao) but I'm not particularly inclined towards it

I blame my parents for this, not having dreams, because all I ever dreamt of was marriage and a kid or two, nice house, joint family or something

But, with my recent breakup, and being out of house (i have been at home, around my parents all my 23 years before), and thanks to internet exposure and the few Friends that I'm grateful of, i have my eyes Opened to new possibilities that do exist outside everything i have been taught?

But idk how i build/ rewire my brain to start thinking about a future. Idk have some dreams like everyone does?

Idk if I make sense, I really hope I do. Help 😭

24f, recently got back from Delhi for a 2 month period. I was so happy to be going back to bhubaneswar, BECAUSE DELHI SUCKS, the people, and oily shitz, i just needed the home feeling and slowness that delhi is because I'm born and brought up here so god I missed it!

But it all feels so different? I was gone for about an year, and things have changed so much around here, in a very subtle way that most people might not have noticed... But aaaaa why

Like... People are rude here, every class of people are suddenly elite here.

Bepari manakara au icha nahi bepara karibaku? Haata re rate ete ki tanku kameibaku kahile, ki bhaina online ya thu kaam achi, kahibe jauna seithu kinidaba... Like okay I will but wtf?

Suddenly samastinka pakhare iphone achi?!!!

Mu bank re internship karuchi, seithi dekhuchi lokanka account re 1000-2000 thiba, tah upare loan, and kahibe madam tike dekhantu paisa kuade gala be holding a 1 lac phone, LIFESTYLE INFLATION MUCH?

and everywhere is crowded, everyone seems to be chasing something, no one sits back and just exists?

The uber/rapido/ola people think i owe them everything, they be asking for extra money like it's in the companies new policy or something... ( One guy told me +10 @50 ride fare, +20@100 ride fare and +50@200 ride fare, WTF? And they won't even cancel khudse, ask extra on knowing the location, LIKE DID I BEG YOU TO PERSONALLY COME PICK ME UP OR SOMETHING? WHY THE ATTITUDE BRO) The AMA BUS? Toh nvm..

The crime rates? WTF HAS HAPPENED TO MY SWEET CITY?

Do any of you feel that the soul of this city feels depressed? And that the bhonsar vibe is missing?

Like for me the bhonsar vibe never loud or something but just so quiet, home, cozy, and welcoming, but now Idk?

Lmk what you guys think. Am i wrong?

I came across this quote on Instagram today, and after having read about 6282638363posts on dysfunctional relationships fellow subreddit-ers have put up with for years, especially women, i thought i should post it here.

"Your self respect has to be greater than your desire to love."

Feel free to post similar sensible quotes that you came across that distressed relationship people, need to listen.

I moved from Bhubaneswar last year, I have found some odia people here, BUT NOT ENOUGH. Looking for more, to hang/talk with idk

I'm 24F, currently in NCR (noida).

Hi, 24F, student at amity university

I'm looking for a flat, preferably near college (sec 125, 126, 44, botanical, okhla, etc)

I'm willing for the flat to be a lil far too

But I want a safe locality (for obvious female reasons)

I have 4 other friends with me as well, who are looking for flats but we are not from noida, so we are looking for inputs from y'all.

We are on a budget, and obviously the daily travel, n all math we'd need to do, but for now we'd like leads from y'all, pleaseeeeeeee (us 5 girls would be really greatful)

*It'd be great if you all mentioned where you stay, and what's the rent you pay + maintenance and other things*