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So i've been wanting to make short videos for instagram reels for a while now. nothing crazy, just clean cuts, some text overlays, maybe basic transitions. i downloaded capcut but honestly i have no idea where to start and the interface is a little confusing at first.

i actually found a course focused on reels editing specifically, thinking about going through it to get a proper foundation instead of just guessing my way through everything. it's more for people who want to post consistently and actually understand what they're doing, which is where i want to be.

but before i commit to a full course i wanted to ask here too, does anyone have quick capcut tips that helped them when they were just starting? like anything that made the learning curve easier? would really appreciate any advice from people who actually use it.

I have been trying to cook more at home lately and keep running into recipes that say things like "add the garlic after the onions" or "put the spices in before the liquid." I always assumed you could just throw everything in together and it would work out, but my dishes never taste quite as good as the recipes promise.

So I did a little experimenting this week. I made the same simple stir fry twice. First time I added everything at once. Second time I followed the order in the recipe carefully. The second one genuinely tasted better and I am still not totally sure why.

Is there actually a real reason behind the order ingredients go into the pan, or is it more about timing so things do not overcook? I have heard something about blooming spices in oil first to get more flavor out of them but I do not fully understand the science there.

Would love to know if any of you have noticed a big difference from paying attention to this, or if there are certain ingredients where order really matters versus ones where it makes no difference. Feels like one of those foundational things nobody really explains to beginners and you only figure it out by messing up a few meals first.

i was out on a longer run last weekend trying to build some distance when i stepped on uneven ground and rolled my ankle pretty badly. it swelled up fast and i had to limp the rest of the way back. i have had minor twists before but this one felt more serious and it has been sore and unstable since.

i wanted something to support it while it heals so i don’t make it worse when i start walking more. i got an ankle brace from support brace and it has already made moving around much steadier. how long did it take most of you to get back to easy running after something like this? any tips for protecting it without losing too much fitness?

I spent years telling myself that I had to hit some kind of ultimate rock bottom before I could really commit to getting clean. Like there was a specific threshold I needed to cross before recovery would actually stick. I believed that if things were still somewhat manageable, I was not ready. That myth kept me stuck longer than anything else.

It was not until I talked to someone further along in their recovery that I realized waiting for the worst possible moment is not a requirement. It is just a story we tell ourselves to delay the hard work.

I have also heard people say things like you have to want it for yourself and nobody else, or that relapse means you failed completely and have to start over from zero. Some of those ideas helped me at certain points and hurt me at others.

I am curious what recovery myths kept you stuck or made the process harder than it needed to be. Whether you are early on, years clean, or somewhere in between, hearing what false beliefs people carried could genuinely help someone reading this who is still holding onto something that is slowing them down.

What is the one myth you wish someone had challenged sooner?

I found one house... Approximately it was built in 1970s and it’s charming, great neighborhood, with good bones. Or at least I think they’re good bones. Hard to tell through the leaking roof and the ancient wiring

But I love the place. I can see past the faded wallpaper and the orange shag carpet. I’m not stupid and I know a fixer-upper when I see one. I just don’t know how much of a fixer-upper it really is

The roof is leaking. The electrical panel looks like it belongs in a museum. I’ve already started doing the math in my head, wondering if I can even afford this

Friends said I should just walk away. While others say I’m overthinking it. But one friend told me not to make any assumptions and to get an inspection first. He recommended Sure Building Inspection and said they do really detailed work and tell you the whole truth about what you’re buying

That sounds like the smart move. But I’m also scared of what they’ll find. What if the report comes back with a list of repairs that costs more than the house itself?

I’m torn between excitement and terror. This could be my dream home. Or it could be a money pit that destroys my savings

Has anyone bought a house with similar issues? Am I crazy for even considering this?

After years of apartment living in the US, I just moved to Australia and into a place with an actual garden. It's been a slow start. The soil feels completely different from what I'm used to and I'm still working out what actually grows well here.

I grabbed some basic pots, a trowel set, and a few storage containers from Victoria's Basement (found it local) to get going without blowing my budget. Decent quality for the price. But I still need a proper soil mix, raised bed materials, and some kind of watering setup.

The garden is mostly bare right now. I have a small patch where I'm attempting herbs and a few vegetables, but it needs a lot of work.

For those of you in Australia, where do you usually buy your garden supplies? And is there anything I should know about gardening in this climate before I get too far down the rabbit hole?

I honestly don't get it. you call a support line, and instead of just listening to the 5 second menu, you start mashing zero like an absolute maniac or literally screaming "REPRESENTATIVE" into the receiver

My job finally upgraded our phones to cloud talk recently so the routing actually works and isnt complete garbage anymore. But it literally doesn't matter if you intentionally bypass the prompts that are supposed to tell me what your account number is. Now I have to ask you everything manually from scratch and you're already pissed off before I even say hello

tbh it just makes the call take twice as long. Just press 1 for billing guys, it takes two seconds

Ever notice how being out in the sun gives you a cognitive boost? While we usually credit vitamin D or circadian biology, there’s another piece to the puzzle: Near-Infrared energy (NIR).

Our brains actually respond directly to NIR light, but to get true neuroprotective and therapeutic effects, especially for things like brain injuries, you need a much higher irradiance (power density) than what normal sunlight provides.

That’s where targeted photobiomodulation comes in.

A peer-reviewed, double-blind, sham-controlled exploratory investigation published in the Journal of Neurotrauma looked at delivering medical-grade NIR directly through the scalp and nose to bypass the skull.

While the authors note these results are preliminary and hypothesis-generating, the clinical data is statistically significant and very promising for neuroprotection.

I've been thinking a lot lately about the stories we tell ourselves early in recovery, or even before we admit we have a problem. So many myths kept me stuck longer than I want to admit.

For me it was the rock bottom idea. I held onto that one hard. I kept telling myself my situation wasn't bad enough yet, that I still had further to fall before I deserved help or before help would even work. It took me a long time to realize you can choose your bottom. You can just stop digging.

I've also heard people say you have to want it one hundred percent before recovery can work, or that one slip means you failed completely and have to start over emotionally from scratch. Those do a lot of damage.

I know this community has people at different stages, whether you're newly sober, years in, or supporting someone you love. I'm curious what myths slowed you down or made things harder than they needed to be. Maybe sharing them helps someone else recognize the same thinking before it costs them more time.

No judgment here. Just honest conversation.

The water glass method genuinely works better than the paper towel trick, but you have to do it right. Trim the stems a little when you get home, stick them in a glass with an inch or two of water, and loosely cover the top with a plastic bag. Then put it in the fridge. Most herbs will last a week or more this way. Cilantro and parsley do really well with this method.

Basil is the exception. You're right that it hates the cold. Refrigerating basil turns it black fast because it's a tropical plant and cold damages the leaves. Keep it on the counter in a glass of water, no bag, away from direct sun. Treat it like a small plant. It'll last several days and might even sprout roots if you leave it long enough.

The paper towel method works okay for herbs you're going to use within a couple days, but it's not great for longer storage. The towel dries out, or stays too wet, and either way you lose the herbs faster than you want to.

One other thing that makes a big difference: don't wash them until you're ready to use them. Moisture sitting on the leaves speeds up decay, so washing the whole bunch when you get home actually shortens their life.

If you're still going through herbs slowly enough that you're losing half the bunch anyway, it's worth buying less at a time if your store sells smaller portions, or freezing what you won't use. Chop them up, put them in an ice cube tray with a little water or olive oil, freeze, then toss the cubes in a bag. Not ideal for fresh use but totally fine for cooking.

One thing that surprises me looking back is how many beliefs felt completely reasonable while I was stuck in addiction.

For years I believed I hadn't suffered enough yet. I thought I needed to hit some dramatic rock bottom before I deserved help or before recovery would actually work. Looking back, that belief probably kept me trapped far longer than the addiction itself.

Since then I've met people who believed all kinds of things. That they could quit whenever they wanted. That asking for help meant weakness. That relapse erased all previous progress. That their substance of choice "wasn't as bad" as other addictions. At the time those ideas felt like facts. Now they seem obvious in hindsight.

I'm curious what belief kept you stuck the longest.

What's the biggest lie your addiction convinced you was true, and what finally made you realize it wasn't?

I’ve been looking at my traffic sources lately and realized a lot of my usual SEO strategies just aren't cutting it anymore. People are using AI tools to search for services instead of just scrolling through Google links. I run a local service business and want to know how to get ai to recommend your business when someone asks for options in my area.

Like, if someone asks for the best plumber or marketing setup nearby, how do I make sure my name pops up? Has anyone actually cracked the code on how to rank on chat gpt or other AI bots? Do you just need a ton of mentions online, or is there a specific trick to it? I’m trying to get ahead of this before my competitors do.

Hey everyone, total beginner here. I recently started cooking my own meals instead of ordering out every night and honestly the hardest part so far is seasoning. My food either tastes completely bland or way too salty. I feel like I'm missing something really basic that experienced cooks just know without thinking about it.

I've been watching videos online and I keep hearing things like "season as you go" or "taste and adjust" but nobody really explains what that means in practice when you're just starting out. How do you even know when something needs more salt versus a different spice entirely? And when should you add seasoning during cooking versus at the end?

I tried making a simple chicken and vegetable stir fry last week and it tasted pretty flat even though I added salt and pepper. I'm guessing I either added it too late or not enough but I genuinely couldn't tell.

If any of you have been in the same spot or have simple rules you follow when seasoning, I'd really love to hear them. Even just knowing the basics of salt, pepper, and maybe one or two other spices to keep on hand would be super helpful. What do you wish someone had told you when you first started cooking?

Alt titles: How do you actually learn to season food when you are a beginner | Why does my food always taste bland even when I add salt | What are the basic seasoning rules every beginner should know

Today I sat down to do something for work that normally takes me maybe 20 minutes. Three hours later it still wasn't done.

The whole time I wasn't scrolling or doing anything fun. I was opening the file, staring at it, making coffee, coming back, reading the same few lines, then feeling worse because I knew I was wasting time.

I've started noticing that this happens whenever my anxiety gets bad. The work itself usually isn't the problem. It's like my brain suddenly treats every small task as something huge and overwhelming. The part I struggle with most is the guilt afterwards. Falling behind makes me anxious, and being anxious makes it even harder to get things done. It feels like I'm constantly trying to catch up with myself.

If you've been stuck in that kind of cycle before, what helped you get moving again?

honestly it's been pretty vindicating watching the whole tech industry slowly realize that probabilistic code generation is a nightmare for anything critical

My day job forces me to review so much LLM-generated typescript right now and it's soul draining. it looks perfectly fine on the surface until it hits production and you find out the model just hallucinated a state transition that completely breaks under load. it makes me miss writing haskell so much, where the compiler actually catches this garbage before you even try to run it

It feels like the broader industry is finally starting to understand why strong guarantees and rigorous type systems actually matter. was reading some stuff recently about how ai labs are pivoting their benchmarks towards actual formal verification and theorem proving because just spitting out plausible syntax isn't scaling for them anymore

like... yeah, no kidding. We've been trying to tell people for a decade that mathematical correctness matters way more than raw typing speed. just wild to see the rest of the software world slowly reinventing the wheel because their fancy autocomplete keeps breaking prod.

Hey everyone, finally done with the kitchen after 4 months of chaos and living off takeout 😂

Bought this little weatherboard in brunswick west last year and the kitchen was proper stuck in 1987 - brown tiles, those awful melamine cabinets, and the bench space was basically non-existent. Decided to keep the existing carcasses (they were actually solid) and just do a full refresh instead of ripping everything out. saved us a decent chunk.

New benchtops (2pac in white), new doors + drawer fronts from a local cabinet guy in coburg, and some fresh paint. Total came in around $14.8k including appliances (got a decent smeg oven on sale). And the handles - went with some matte black ones, they were pretty good quality for the price and the delivery was quick. Just simple stuff but they make the whole thing look way more modern.

The best part was discovering the original hardwood floors under the old lino when we ripped it up. Wasn't planning on sanding them but once we saw them we couldn't go back. Now the kitchen actually flows into the living area properly.

Only major drama was the sparky who kept ghosting us for 3 weeks, nearly lost it.

Anyway, happy with how it's turned out for a first reno. still learning as we go.