Reminder for your betterment

Today I learned about shingles after an uncle of mine was diagnosed with it. I had never heard much about the disease before, so I searched it online. Reading about it was overwhelming enough, but the pictures of the blisters were even harder to look at.

Later, I mentioned it to my mother. She told me about a woman she knows whose father had shingles. According to her, the pain was so severe that even clothes touching his skin became unbearable. They had to make a cage-like frame around his bed and drape cloth over it so that nothing would touch his body while still preserving his privacy.

That conversation stayed with me.

As Muslims, we often say that life is a test from Allah but we often forget what that really means. We spend so much time worrying about our careers, our finances, comparing ourselves to others, or wishing we had what someone else has. Yet we rarely stop to appreciate one of the greatest blessings we already have: our health.

None of us knows what tomorrow holds. We wake up each day assuming our bodies will continue to work as they always have, but our health is a privilege that can change in an instant. The ability to walk comfortably, wear clothes without pain, sleep peacefully, or simply live without constant suffering is a blessing we often take for granted.

This post is simply a reminder—for myself first and foremost—to thank Allah for good health. Thank Him not only as our Creator, but as the One who knows our future, plans what is best for us, and guides us through every test. Indeed, He is the Giver of all blessings, and He has the power to take them away at any moment.

Alhamdulillah for the blessings we overlook every day.

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u/OkStock4101 — 15 hours ago

ME or SE?

Guys genuine bataou which field is better mech eng or software eng?Ik dono different engineering fields hain,both have their pros and cons but which field has a brighter future?I went to SE b/c I liked maths and logical reasoning aur engineering ka shok tha he but honestly dry lagi hai se,you just code code and code.

Mech eng acha option hai but risk factors bohot involved hain,I can't imagine myself doing a job jahan mazdoori bhi hou,I mean the factor that makes it very interesting is designing itself but yar ik mech engs jo night shifts kare rahay hotay hain and they work in extreme conditions too

Ab bat yeh hai I still wonder if I have done a good decision selecting SE,Engineering is my choice and I will always do engineering but se ya me main kon sa behatr option hai?

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u/OkStock4101 — 14 days ago

Active wear shop recommendation in Atb!!

I am in search of good actove wear because I used to exercise+jog in my casual clothes and It used to get extremely hot and most of them got ripped because of all the sweat

Searched online and 1 active wear shirt is atleast 5k and not to mention most of the clothes are extremely immodest

If anyone knows good active wear shop in Atb where there is variety but atleast I'll be able to find loose active wear clothes,pls lmk!!! Thank you

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u/OkStock4101 — 14 days ago

Freshman year-biggest nightmare

Hello everyone,

I am officially a 2nd year university student and there are few difficulties that aren't helping me in university life,I would be very grateful if you all suggest some good advices as they can really help me in these difficult times:

First if all I don't think I have ever been this low in my life,I was 18 years old when I went to university and before my university,my father diagnosed with cancer.I had my college final exams coming up and universities acceptance tests too.

I worked really really hard in my college exams and I was able to be in top 3 of my college but for the acceptance tests,I didn’t perform well tho I was able to get position in 700s(out of more than 6k people) but after that few things happened:

1.First it was my first time away from home,completely new place,complete different weather and I had a very difficult time adjusting to this new place.

Consequences:I had extreme hairloss,I lost 4 kgs along with dark circles and lots and lots of brainfog which made me unable to perform

2.A classmate of mine started emotional dumping on me (despite constant efforts to stop him and help him too)and was extremely manipulating

Consequences:I had this constant stress all over me and as an empathic person, it effected me so bad that I used to wake up at nights and used to cry at random times leading to extreme disturbed mental health.I often used to just stare at walls for 3-4 hours

3.My roommate was not considerate of my schedule and often used to disturb me while sleeping along with her friends.It got si bad that I had to talk to her friends personally(I made it clear to my roommate the first week)but it kept going till finals.

Consequences:Always tired from disturbed sleep and was unable to focus during lectures .talking to them personally even ruined my relation with my classmates too and they all started taking bad behind my back.

Despite being at home nowadays,I still face these issues and I have no idea what to do.

These all factors effected me so bad that i barely passed my freshmen year.

Other than that,I forget things so much that I ended up forgetting to pack half of my stuff.I used to leave my dishes dirty for days in dorm,get extremely sad at nights too.I really feel like I have lost my spark after 1 year,I feel like I am on lowest point of my life,I feel like the dumbest person in my class who passes every course on luck.I have lost my confidence alo too and I often overthink a lot like past moments etc.I don't have many good people around me and have basically lost the motivation for most basic tasks😔

if you all have an tips to focus on studies,on my mental health or to reduce brain fog,please share them with me

Thank you!!!

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u/OkStock4101 — 15 days ago

Please help guys!!!

Can anyone please suggest really good free courses to improve my C++?I started it in Sept last year for the first time and teachers were horrible at it,despite trying to imporve it myself I have not improved that kuch and really need good course suggestion to improve basics of Cpp and OOP.

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u/OkStock4101 — 17 days ago

Stress advice

Guys what to do when you get sad out of the blue?

So a little context is that at the start of 2025,I had preboards and I worked really really hard for them passed them all but at the end of feb,a member of our hosue got a very serious disease

The member got the treatment for it but as a close family member like you can imagine how painful it is to watch out family in pain but still I had to pass boards

I worked really really hard for boards despite seeing a serious patient everyday all day,I worked sm

After boards,I started preparing for entry tests snd you can imagine the stress again like imagine someone near you so ill snd you give your best in boards and then entry tests,I used to cry at very random times

After my uni results were announced,That member alhamdulliah fought well and I went to university,udher alag ganda experience raha hai like extreme manipulators miley hain khair now I am on a break but I have been nothing changes in energy like pichlay sal sy I get brain fog a lot and stuff

Got blood tests,everything is normal but still I am stressed and idk lazy and dull all the time,please recommend good solutions I don't feel like praying anymore.Burnout he hai most probably so suggest good solution for it

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u/OkStock4101 — 21 days ago

This stress will kill me someday

Guys what to do when you get sad out of the blue?

So a little context is that at the start of 2025,I had preboards and I worked really really hard for them passed them all but at the end of feb,a member of our hosue got a very serious disease

The member got the treatment for it but as a close family member like you can imagine how painful it is to watch out family in pain but still I had to pass boards

I worked really really hard for boards despite seeing a serious patient everyday all day,I worked sm

After boards,I started preparing for entry tests snd you can imagine the stress again like imagine someone near you so ill snd you give your best in boards and then entry tests,I used to cry at very random times

After my uni results were announced,That member alhamdulliah fought well and I went to university,udher alag ganda experience raha hai like extreme manipulators miley hain khair now I am on a break but I have been nothing changes in energy like pichlay sal sy I get brain fog a lot and stuff

  1. Got blood tests,everything is normal but still I am stressed and idk lazy and dull all the time,please recommend good solutions I don't feel like praying anymore.Burnout he hai most probably so suggest good solution for it
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u/OkStock4101 — 21 days ago

HELP A PERSON

Guys what to do if you really hate a person or more like you are disappointed by a person so much that you get sad,you get angry and you feel so disappointed at yourself when you see that person because that person did something bad to you?

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u/OkStock4101 — 25 days ago
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CLUELESS

Can anyone please explain this plo and clo thing very clearly to me and what happens if someone fails em?

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u/OkStock4101 — 28 days ago
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HELPPPP

Bhai Aik sal hou gaaaya GIKI mein and I would say it was not up to my expectations.Maybe because I didn’t perform well

I won't say GIKI itself is bad but there were many factors in GIKI that made me not enjoy studying.There are many people around me who are continuously saying they will leave GIKI because it isn't good but the thing is my problem is I liked GIKI but I couldn't manage parhai.Can any senior here guide me please what should I do other than leaving GIKI

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u/OkStock4101 — 1 month ago
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Scholarships in giki

Are there any scholarships in giki which are given after 2nd sem and not based on gpa but rather previous records like fsc matric?

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u/OkStock4101 — 1 month ago