I had some records that were subpoenaed that don’t necessarily belong to me, but have to do with me. The person that was subpoenaed cannot afford an attorney so we are considering (or I should say they) are considering filing a motion to quash pro se as anyone had any experience with this?
He does all the fun things on his time now. Makes effort. Makes things fun for kids. I feel like my kids are falling in love with him. It’s breaking my heart bc it took divorce and him hating me and the desire to compete with me to make him this way. He’s so mad and bitter at me that he has so much energy to make his life with the kids just the best time ever solely to make sure my life with the kids is gray and full in comparison.
I’m worried they’ll love and want him more. I’m worried the facade will one day fade and mess them up and break their hearts.
What are yalls longer term experiences with Disney dads?
I am going through a divorce and about to be a single mom. Auto insurance is so expensive and I’m trying to minimize cost as much as possible until I make a career change.
I have a older car… It’s a 2012 GMC Acadia with almost 180,000 miles on it. I cannot afford a new car if something were to happen with this one at the moment. But I also don’t know if it’s wise to dump hundreds of dollars in car insurance every month for full coverage versus just liability only. When I could save that money possibly for a new (to me) car should something happen to mine.
How do I go about assessing the risk of carrying liability only versus full coverage?
Any and all advice welcome!
Currently my soon to be ex-husband carries the auto insurance and for my car it is $190 per month, we only insure my car since he has one through his employer. I simply cannot afford that amount when I am officially financially on my own in the near future.
Has anyone ever found a gps tracker on their car? Did you use any type of device to locate it?
I need to order one asap.
Thanks!
I don’t have a large yard at my new place…but what is the best way to take care of lawn maintenance?
I got a quote for $60 every 2 weeks but I can’t afford that! And I don’t own a lawnmower. But the HOA will be on my tail for long unkempt yard.
How do yall manage?! Is there a cheap mower out there yall like? I certainly can’t manage the pull cord kind to start.
Anyone gone sugar free (or at least 80/20) and noticed anything life changing?
I truly believe and know that I did my very best in my marriage to make it work… But with that being said, I know I picked up a lot of bad habits living with an emotionally abusive and narcissistic man for over a decade. How do you make sure you don’t take the bad stuff into a new relationship one day?
I realize some of the main advice will be time in between relationships and therapy, but what are some of the top things you have learned?
What are you taking from your past relationship and turning into something good in a new relationship? I’m terrified of repeating the same mistakes despite time and therapy.
His interrogatories and documents to produce are late as of two weeks ago about in my lawyer already sent a friendly letter stating they needed to be submitted by today at noon and that deadline has passed. I think a motion to compel happens next?
But my main question is why are his responses late? I can’t understand any advantage for that?
I really don’t think he’s hiding any assets or anything so I just don’t get it. Though he is trying to prove adultery and I wonder if he’s still trying to collect evidence for that (good lucky buddy, he’s ridiculous). But even so turning stuff in late looks worse, doesn’t it?
Am I missing something here?
My five year old daughter is very excited for mommy’s new home….but I can already tell she is going to STRUGGLE with 50/50 custody as per our temporary orders.
I move at the end of the month. I’m so sad. I knew I’d feel sad about not seeing my kids but now it’s weighing on me how sad she will be. Oh my heart hurts. What do I do?!
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I have a 5 year old girl and a 9 year old boy.
I’m moving out soon. How to decide what to take? Do we let them pick things they want to take? Do I decide? How is the best way to go about this? 💔
Just signed a temporary order that outlines living arrangements and custody of our two young kiddos.
I was not prepared for these emotions right now….
He refused to signed my temporary orders my lawyer drew up. He didn’t even respond to them for 3 weeks. He verbally refused them to my face. And now all of a sudden he signed them 3 days before our temporary order court hearing.
I knew split custody was coming. I knew me moving out was coming but good golly my emotions are all over the place! I’m still anxious. And the immense amount of grief I feel knowing it’s all really happening.
I did want the divorce. After years and years of emotional abuse. Financial misconduct on both sides. I’m ready for a clean slate. But it’s still so far away. Everything is disputed between us.
And now signed temp orders….prepping my kids for a move…worried about paying bills….worried about my salvation and standing with God.
Everything hurts. I just needed to let it out. 🩷
In the middle of discovery at the moment. I’m worried I’m about to need a new (well new to me, but def used) car.
This would have been on two incomes but I’m not the breadwinner. I have to have a car for work. My credit is not good at the moment. I have no savings. Was never on my radar as a dual income household.
I have no family or friends to borrow money or a car from…
Whether it’s a car or another similar situation, what do we do in a situation like this?? Stbxh will be zero help, he hates me.