u/Ok_Help_9964

This was my great grandmother's mom. My great grandmother was raised being told she died of cancer, but was told she was murdered later in life, with not much detail. Recently one of her distant nephews uploaded her picture and the article of her death on a ancestory website shedding light what happened. Apparently a rejected lover of hers didn't approve of her male boarder roommate and he went to their place and shot the boarder and a stray bullet hit her stomach killing her. The boarder managed to run to a nearby hospital and survived, while the attacker ended up turning the gun on himself and committed suicide. All around very tragic.

My Cooper just gives me this blank stare and whines like this on a rare occasion if he wants to play more during bed time.

Whenever I'm out and about, or going going through some fast food drive thru, all the time women say "Ohhh such a cute doggie!" or "Ohhh he's so handsome!" and they even occasionally hook him up with free food!

But they never say "Ohhh such a cute man." Or "Ohh you're so handsome" to me. They never hook me up with free food, unless they screw up my order. All this time and effort lookmaxxing and it's my Boxer who's getting all the attention. He's mogging (dogging?) Me. It's like I'm his designated ugly friend to elevate him. How do I cope and help keep my cortisol levels low?

Pic 1 is my hair now just grown out from Pic 2 to give you an idea of what my hair looks like grown out a little. I've always cut my hair like Pic 2. Keeping 2.5 inches on top with a mid fade to .5 and just swooping the front back instead of letting it hang forward. I think it looks fine but I'm not sure if there's other haircuts out there that would look better or if I should keep cutting it how it is.

Pic 1 is my hair now. Pic 2 is how i always got my haircuts. Mid fade to .5 and 2 inch on top and just swoop the front back. Was curious to see if what people here would think looks better with my hair. Posting pics with longer hair so people see what I'm working with hair wise. Pics of what would work are welcomed.