u/Ok_Particular125

We’ve been dating for a month. We were making out and I was pushing against him. He was into it he grabbed my hips and was passionate as well. At a point he said he likes to go slow and doesn’t want to rush it. I agreed and if that’s all it is I’m totally ok with going on more dates till we feel ready. I would actually prefer it as well.

Yes I am a bit toxic in that I have never had a man do this before and it’s so extremely sexy. Most men want to sleep with me on the first date and it’s normally me telling them to hold off. Wondering if maybe there’s a reason - is he emotionally unavailable rn? Still getting over an ex? Small? How/after how many dates do I ask him what his reasons are for holding off?

Talking to this guy I really like. We’ve been on a few dates so far and he hasn’t made a move towards kissing or anything sexual but it’s super refreshing. I have a history of jumping into things and sleeping with men pretty soon and I don’t want to ruin this. Him not making any moves is making me want to jump his bones even more. 😬 when is the proper time to start make out session and how do I slowly progress to more without doing it too soon?

I worked at a PA firm and we did the accounting for very small local companies. I quit, moved to a bigger city and am now being told by recruiters that my previous role failed me in that they used me as more an administrative position by telling me to do bookkeeping, reconciliations, payroll, told me to do certain tasks but didn’t teach me the concepts or explain why I was doing what I was doing. He kept asking me if I have ever done accounts payable/receivable and I don’t believe I did, but they were also super small company’s that got cash when they performed the service (small restaurant or school or construction) and didn’t have many loans or accounts payable, they purchased everything with credit card or cash and paid it off and I did do the correct entries for that - is that considered accounts payable?

He told me to review YouTube videos and learn more on my own while I am searching for a job and that he felt sorry for me that they just used me as an administrative role and didn’t properly give me accountant training.

Am I not going to find a job at this point? Am I really hopeless unless I do more research? Does no one care to train you anymore?

My doctor recommended both dmannose and cranberry pac. One in particular is now supplement- mannose cranberry however I noticed that one doesn’t say the mg of pacs just of cranberry but it is significantly cheaper ($18) - this is what my doctor prescribed. The second one I’ve looked at is from Good Kitty which is essentially the same thing, same amounts but it does list that it has 36 mg of pacs and is a lot more expensive ($80). I’d much rather use the cheaper one. However I want to make sure it’s worth it or would it be more worth it to buy the expensive one?

A little confused because I really enjoyed our first few dates. He seems like a sweet, genuine person. He does all the little things you should do when you start dating someone and we have great chemistry. One small negative - he makes music and while I like his voice, I don’t like the music/lyrics. They seem very juvenile is all I will say and I don’t want to lie but I also don’t want to be super honest and say I hate it. What’s a good way of putting it?

Just moved here, need to make friends. Where can I go out on the weekends to meet people?

We would be making out and he would be shivering/trembling out of nervousness 😭 what can I do to calm him down? Tried laughing about it with him to make it not a big deal and made it clear I thought it was cute but he couldn’t relax. I am worried if we ever have sex if it’ll get worse lol

I didn’t enjoy my date last night. He was nice but his humor was not on the same level as mine and there just wasn’t much chemistry. He messaged me on a dating app his number to continue talking but I don’t want to. I also don’t want to just ghost him as I know how much that hurts. What do I say? “I’m sorry but I didn’t feel a connection, good luck to you”

I am new to the city - I have no friends yet and stupidly told my tinder match that. We went on one date and it was great, would like to get to know him more but obviously I’m not committed yet. He asked me what I’m doing on Saturday and I already made plans with someone else for that day that I also met on tinder 😬

What do I tell him I’m doing?