u/Ok_Tourist549

Matched with a girl on Hinge a few days ago. We have good conversations whenever the topic is something she’s passionate about. We spent a while talking about her boarding school in Mussoorie, and she sent long, thoughtful messages with stories and memories.

The problem is that outside of that, she rarely asks me anything about myself. Most of the conversation moves forward because I keep asking questions or changing topics. Lately, her replies have become quite short. She still replies, but it’s mostly factual answers like “I chose Bombay” or “It’s only been two weeks.”

I did tell her I’d love to hear some of her boarding school stories in person sometime. She didn’t acknowledge that, but she also didn’t go cold and kept chatting.
So I’m confused. Is this just someone who’s a dry texter and opens up only on topics she cares about, or am I carrying the conversation because the interest isn’t really there?

What do i do here? Just unmatch? Say something then unmatch? Or what

I’ve been talking to someone I matched with on a dating app for a few days, and I’m struggling to gauge whether she’s genuinely interested or just politely replying.
Initially, she mostly answered my questions and never really asked much about me, so I felt like I was carrying the conversation.
Then we got onto the topic of boarding school. She wrote several long messages about growing up in a boarding school in Mussoorie, shared stories, and seemed genuinely engaged. I responded, told her about my own school experience, and even said, “I’d love to hear a few of these stories in person sometime.” She didn’t acknowledge that line but kept talking about boarding school.
Later I changed the topic and asked what brought her to Mumbai. She replied:
Me: “So how did Bombay happen?”
Her: “I chose it. Didn’t want to be in Delhi anymore.”
Me: “Delhi must’ve really pissed you off then :P”
Her: “Yep. Safety, pollution, etc.”
So now I’m confused again.
On one hand, she has shown she can write long, thoughtful replies when she’s interested in the topic. On the other hand, she rarely asks me questions and often gives short factual replies unless I keep the conversation moving.
Would you read this as:
She’s interested but just not much of a texter?
She’s only interested in talking about topics she enjoys?
She’s being polite and I’m carrying the conversation?
Looking for honest opinions, especially from people who’ve been on either side of this dynamic.