u/Old-Librarian-5508

My girlfriend and i have been together just under a year. Shes 25 I'm 22. She has her own place. She already has a 2 year old son from another guy however hes not in her life anymore. She never wanted to have him but her dad forced her to have the child. Her mom is the primary caretaker of the child and her mom lives with her temporarily. She said she couldnt handle being a mom and didnt want more kids. I said the same when we met. I didnt want kids now. Im find with her son and i understand the situation she went through. She's the best woman I've met and she supports me and loves me to the fullest. We are a very happy couple. Recently in june we had an abortion because we weren't ready and it was very scary for us. Mind you she was using depo provera and plan b every time i finished inside after that. Recently we found she is pregnant again. We have no idea how. Tbh idk if im ready to be a father. She doesnt know whether she's ready to be a mom she couldnt be the first time. She says she cannot go through another abortion tho. She says she wants to keep it now and in some way i do too. Her mom and my brother are very supportive right now about it. However my parents aren't. They're saying she faked using depo to stay with me, this child will ruin my life, shes not stable enough to have a child etc. Im just not sure what to do right now.

My girlfriend and i have been together just under a year. Shes 25 I'm 22. She has her own place. She already has a 2 year old son from another guy however hes not in her life anymore. She never wanted to have him but her dad forced her to have the child. Her mom is the primary caretaker of the child and her mom lives with her temporarily. She said she couldnt handle being a mom and didnt want more kids. I said the same when we met. I didnt want kids now. Im find with her son and i understand the situation she went through. She's the best woman I've met and she supports me and loves me to the fullest. We are a very happy couple. Recently in june we had an abortion because we weren't ready and it was very scary for us. Mind you she was using depo provera and plan b every time i finished inside after that. Recently we found she is pregnant again. We have no idea how. Tbh idk if im ready to be a father. She doesnt know whether she's ready to be a mom she couldnt be the first time. She says she cannot go through another abortion tho. She says she wants to keep it now and in some way i do too. Her mom and my brother are very supportive right now about it. However my parents aren't. They're saying she faked using depo to stay with me, this child will ruin my life, shes not stable enough to have a child etc. Im just not sure what to do right now.

My girlfriend and i have been together just under a year. Shes 24 I'm 22. She has her own place. I live with my parents. She already has a 2 year old son from another guy however hes not in her life anymore. She never wanted to have him but her dad forced her to have the child. Her mom is the primary caretaker of the child and her mom lives with her temporarily. She said she couldnt handle being a mom and didnt want more kids. I said the same when we met. I didnt want kids now. Im find with her son and i understand the situation she went through. She's the best woman I've met and she supports me and loves me to the fullest. We are a very happy couple. Recently in june we had an abortion because we weren't ready and it was very scary for us. Mind you she was using depo provera and plan b every time i finished inside after that. Recently we found she is pregnant again. We have no idea how. It is super unlikely and we were using the correct precautions to prevent this from happening. Part of us think this is just meant to happenn idk if im ready to be a father. She doesnt know whether she's ready to be a mom she couldnt be the first time. She says she cannot go through another abortion tho. She says she wants to keep it now and in some way i do too. Her mom and my brother are very supportive right now about it. However my parents aren't. They're saying she faked using depo to stay with me, this child will ruin my life, shes not stable enough to have a child etc. Im just not sure what to do right now.