u/Olerbia

Amazing Day — TERRIBLE Night

Writing this at 4:30am having successfully gotten perhaps 2 hours of sleep and being so tired I've just cried so apologies for any typos or delulu energy.

My toddler (who is just over 12 months) has been showing some signs (I thought) of switching to a one nap schedule. She has been somewhat harder to put down recently and fighting naps/bedtime on occasion so I thought oh maybe it's nearing time. (Note; she did eventually fall asleep on hard days but it would sometimes take 30 minutes to an hour)

Today she had a mid morning / early afternoon nap. Usually she sleeps 2 hours naturally but went from 10:30 to 1:30pm by herself — so 3 hours.

I thought it could be a good time to try a one nap schedule however I'd watch for cues and if she wanted to go to sleep, I was fine with a later schedule.

Well we had a pretty solid day. I watched for yawning or eye rubbing and her signing for milk (usually the time we go upstairs because we are weaning). None of this happened. We stayed up til 7:30 and then did our bed time routine so she was asleep at 8. Conked right out. I mean within 10 minutes she was snoring. So I thought the sleep pressure was great. But maybe I was wrong 😭?!

By 10pm we had restlessness and rousing. We have woken multiple times tonight and we were down to 2ish wakes a night (she has only slept through the night once) so this was unusual and it had been BRUTAL. She hasn't gone longer than an hour since 10 and had been full sitting up, babbling, staring into the void, sometimes full hours at a time.

Naturally I'm like great I ruined her sleep. She just woke up again as I finished this and was only down for 15 minutes. Help... Lol. Even though it felt great during the day and we played the whole time, was she really just hyper over tired? Or is her brain just thrown off by the lack of second nap? I feel like atp I'm going back to two tomorrow...

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u/Olerbia — 1 day ago

LoTR Board (First Ever Attempt)

Baby's first birthday party. . . Tried my hand at making a board. It might not be the prettiest thing ever; but it was devoured by the end of the night so I'll call that a big win.

u/Olerbia — 12 days ago
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Vanilla LoTR Cookies for Baby's First Birthday

My insanely talented and amazing best friend (who does not have Reddit but gave me permission to show her work) made these cookies for my baby's first birthday! I'm blown away and so proud of her!! Thought I'd share her beautiful work with people who can appreciate it! ❤️

(I have edited the ones with baby's name just because I don't post that here — so the cookies with "R" are her name lol)

u/Olerbia — 14 days ago

My baby's first birthday is coming up and I've taken on a lot of baking tasks I want to do ahead of time to minimize the day of cooking.

Generally speaking; how far ahead can we make baked goods with them still tasting fresh? I have a bit over a week.

List below

- Fruit Tart w/ a crumble on top (raspberry and apple)

- Birthday Cake (scratch+piped decorations)

- Soft, white, braided bread

- Lembas Bread (lol, it's LotR themed!)

With a week in mind, how much would you do beforehand, when, and what would be best the day of — if anything?

Thank you!!! 💕

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u/Olerbia — 21 days ago

Coming up on 1 year. We have bed shared since like day five so pretty much the entire time. My partner has slept downstairs on the pull out. But he wants to come back!

Part of this transitional period is I want to night wean. My baby still loves to wake up 3ish times. She eats three meals a day with snacks and nurses about 4ish times during the day at varying times. Night weaning is part of the steps in my head to get her into her own crib (still in the room).

Anyway! One of the best ways they say to night wean is to have dad take over bed time — meaning I remove myself completely and he takes over comforting and offering alternative soothing methods (which will include water and/or cow milk after 1 year).

He has obviously never slept in bed with her. I'm anxious about that!!

Our bed is not massive and I'm unsure if all three of us could fit for a trial period? But I may try that. Beyond that; any suggestions how to make sure it's safe? Thank you!

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u/Olerbia — 25 days ago