u/Ollyollyoxenfreed10

Shoe recs

I have rotten no good arthritic feet. My right food is a hot mess with toes and foot bones affected. I also have a fused right ankle. Finding shoes that are comfortable is a struggle. I wear Hoka Bondi’s for most things. I am searching for some kind of flat and sandal that would be decent enough to wear to work, church, weddings, etc.

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u/Ollyollyoxenfreed10 — 6 days ago

Tree removal

Searching for someone to cut down a tree in my front yard. My husband had been saying he would handle it for over two years. I’m getting it done asap.
Who do you recommend? For reference it’s a Japanese maple that’s about two stories tall.

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u/Ollyollyoxenfreed10 — 7 days ago

I call myself a part time mermaid these days because I am at the pool every day swimming or doing water aerobics. Trying to find a swimsuit for swimming with a big chest (36 DDD) but down to a size 12 dress size in a one piece is tough! Does anyone have any place to guide me or suggestions on how you find a suit that fits my lovely lady lumps, my apron belly, and doesn’t slow me down too much? Thanks!

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u/Ollyollyoxenfreed10 — 23 days ago

I’m having a wacky bleeding session currently and I didn’t use my vaginal estrogen yesterday because I was bleeding heavily. What do you do when you’re on your period? Do you just apply externally?

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u/Ollyollyoxenfreed10 — 24 days ago

My husband has not taken great care of himself over the last five years. He has developed diabetes and a couple of complications from it. He is super pig headed and won’t even be honest with me about what the doctor tells him. One of the complications of his diabetes that concerns me is that he is getting UTI’s and kidney infections.

I look vows 30 years ago that included in sickness and in health. I gained a lot of weight and it negatively impacted my health. I have working really hard to lose weight. I focus on my health by eating healthy, taking vitamins, exercising, going to therapy, and yoga. I’ve tried to lead by positive example. I’ve asked him to come to the gym with me. I have asked him to walk. I think that depression might be a factor as well as living in denial.

I am starting to think things like do I want to spend the rest of my life with someone who doesn’t care about his health? How much obligation do I have to care for someone who doesn’t care for himself? I’ve tried gentle conversations and a positive approach.

Where do I go from here? WWYD?

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u/Ollyollyoxenfreed10 — 25 days ago

I am doing my first big charity ball and my skin has changed a ton in the last year due to a huge weightloss and perimenopause. I keep trying and failing to find my makeup groove. Several other ladies on the ball committee are utilizing the services of a professional makeup artist. She’s charging $100 for full face glam. Is it worth it? I miss feeling confident doing my makeup.

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u/Ollyollyoxenfreed10 — 28 days ago