u/One-Pitch7691

So there's this boy in my P.F (personal fitness, basically just P.E) and Art class, yesterday I played volleyball with him and some other kids.

Besides the receiving with my face accidentally (😔) it went great, I would really like to be friends with him because he's very nice and we have to things in common. (Volleyball and art.)

But there's a bit of a problem, in art class he sits with a bunch of other boys, his group has one of the biggest tables besides the group of girls. My table has only three people, me a girl and a boy. There are no assigned seats btw.

I identify as being Non-binary, but no one really knows that, except four of my relatives I don't currently live with, I'm AFAB so I'm afraid I'll be seen as a pick me for sitting at his table, I'm already seen as a tomboy so I fear that will be my final nail in the coffin.

Also I don't have a crush on him, yeah he's visually appealing to look at but idc, I literally have no friends.

Also I don't know his name.

Most of the group home/ foster care posts I see are old and I'm wondering if things have improved.

I'm 15 (NB) and I'm going either Monday or Tuesday of this week, I'm honestly scared, I have a lot of valuable things (to me at least) like poems, crochet, and craft stuff packed but apparently they limit what you can bring with you.

I have a big suitcase, a backpack and a bag and I'm wondering what will happen to most of my stuff.

Also is there a way I can get back some of my old stuff? currently most of my crochet is in a storage unit in my mom's name. She "forgot" to bring it with her to our last court appearance even though I specifically asked her.

Any current foster children in group homes please respond, are they really that bad?