u/One_Possession_2599

25|F in Sabah but open to know everyone from WM and EM.

A little about me, I like going to the gym to make bad decisions and skip cardio, big fan of coffee and matcha, don't smoke or drink alcohol, I also like listening to podcasts, trying new food spots and watching action movies!

Looking for someone who's easy to talk to, has a good sense of humour, and enjoys good conversations. Let's be weird together. You don't necessarily have to like the same things that I do.

I'm straight too btw

Hi guys!!!

I recently saw a similar post on here and I figured I'd like to try to post on here and see if it works!!

I am 25/F, Chinese banana (can't speak and write Chinese at all btw) and I'm also still studying! I'm based at Inanam but I'm open to get to know everyone even the ones from different districts and see how it goes from there!

I've tried dating apps too but it's just not cutting it for me because bumble doesn't have enough people to swipe on, tinder has too much men looking for ONS and CMB is literally just dead.

Let's chat a little and see if we make it out of reddit and hopefully (a date) 🫣

Oh and I'm looking for something long term preferably but I'm open to being friends first too before moving onto the next step. Please don't hesitate to hit me up in my DMs (I promise I don't bite!!)

Hi guys! I'm absolutely at my wits end currently with my older dog, he's a 6 year old medium sized mutt and my much younger one is a 8 month old rottweiler puppy.

We got our rottie pup at 2 months old back in October 2025 and we introduced them on neutral ground at the park and they got along very well even after we started introducing them in the house, separated by a baby gate. Everything is going okay with the usual corrections from the older one but they were all one off - he would snap at her and then the puppy backs off and they'll be friends again.

All until the puppy turned 7 months old and she was bigger than him. He started attacking her out of nowhere. The toy that she was playing with was accidentally flung at him, he'll rush straight at her and attack her (at one point, he grabbed her on the neck and started shaking her) my puppy wouldn't fight back at all. She would cry and then I'll quickly grab my older dog by the neck and he'll let go. The puppy runs to one of us and she'll hide.

If the older dog wants the toy that is beside the puppy, he'll attack her too.

If the puppy accidentally made contact with him when we just got back home and she was excited to see us, he'll attack her.

Last night, older dog is sitting outside on the balcony, puppy is in the living room with us and we were opening presents, puppy was very excited and grabbed one of the presents and played with it. Older dog came in, looked at the puppy and then attacked her. We managed to stop it in time before he can get to the puppy. Separated them for a couple hours and then after the older dog was calm, we let him out again. He sniffed the puppy and then walked away. About 10 minutes later though, the puppy was sitting quietly beside of the table that we were sitting around and then my older dog suddenly attacked her again. I managed to get in between of the both of them in time but my older dog got my hand instead but he didn't draw blood but it's pretty swollen and bruised.

This morning, he tried attacking the puppy over her food. The puppy is eating in her crate. The crate stopped the attack from happening.

His attacks have ended in the puppy bleeding before too. But they weren't bad - just a small scratch on her muzzle/nose but they are deep enough to cause her to bleed.

Older dog is generally not human friendly as well. He's very timid and have very bad anxiety if I'm not around with him. He attacks my mom and sister too if they get too close to him and he decided that he doesn't like them close to him but sometimes, he'll allow them to pet him but if he doesn't want them to pet him, he'll attempt to attack them too.

I need help - I feel like I'm going crazy being constantly on guard in case he attacks her again and fearing he'll attack me now too because there was several times where I grabbed him from attacking the puppy, he turned on me but once he realized it was me, he let go.

Hello, I have a 8 month old rottie puppy, unspayed female who hasn't gone on heat yet.

I noticed last night that she had this very bad metallic smell coming from her saliva after she bit my scrunchie. Her breath smells like puppy breath from last time but yesterday and this morning was a very distinct metallic smell like pennies

I had been giving her some dehydrated beef skin chew so I thought maybe a corner cut her mouth somewhere but I checked all of her mouth but couldn't find any bleeding. Her toys didn't have any blood on them either.

I read that it can be anal glands too but I didn't particularly notice that she's been licking her privates more or anything.

I've been feeding her the same kibble since she was 2 months old, didn't change anything up. Really worried that it can be kidney/liver failure although she's not having any other symptoms except for her saliva. It's very noticable on her saliva but not really on her breath. Her breath smells almost normal but her saliva has a very metallic smell to it

Vet appointment scheduled for this Saturday

Warning: quite a long read

Hi guys!!! I'm 25/F and just wanted to rant about this guy that I dated 4 years ago (My first and only boyfriend that I was dedicated too but plot twist, it wasn't like that! And I'm telling this story just so you guys and gals out there wouldn't fall for all of these + I saw him just now in the afternoon, still at the same place that he was working at when we dated and it sparked this random rant)

I was 20 and he was 24 at that time and we met on Bumble. He was funny and was really dedicated to replying to my messages constantly and what not. We were however in different cities though so it made meeting him harder than it necessarily is. We didn't meet until around 2 months into the online dating scheme.

He told me that he had an ex girlfriend who passed away in a freak car accident which left him really shaken up to drive a car (but he can ride in cars, no problem, he wasn't the one driving the car that his alleged girlfriend died in). He told me that he had borrowed a car from his friend and wanted to drive up to Kota Marudu but changed his mind because of his girlfriend's death and walked to the place instead. Kota Marudu is probably 80km away from where he was at. I asked his friend after we broke up, a coworker of his that I had gotten to know if it was true, he had a deceased girlfriend, his coworker laughed and said no.

He also lied about his religion and his family upbringing. He told me that he was an orphan, born to a Chinese father and a kadazan mother but was adopted into a Muslim family and claimed that he's a Buddhist. But nope! I reconfirmed with his friend (after we broke up) and he told me that he was born and raised in a Muslim family.

And he also lied and said that his deceased girlfriend has a younger sister who studies in the same highschool as me, who is a year younger than me. I asked what's her sister's name and he told me Abbygail but I looked up the name on my yearbook, the person does not exist.

He also liked to correlate everything that I like with his 'deceased girlfriend'. I like running, he says his dead gf likes it too. I like anime, he'll say he used to go to conventions with his dead gf.

He also lied to me about being hospitalized and posed as his none existent brother to WhatsApp me that he was in critical condition in the hospital because he has a weak heart. I reconfirmed this with his friend too and lo and behold, the ex does not have a brother nor is he a sick little duckling who spends 200 days in the hospital in a year. He also lied about him changing jobs and then he quickly abandoned the idea and told me he quit his new job and went back to his old and current job as the new job didn't want him because he has a weak heart! I asked his coworker about this too and he had never change jobs before!

And he also like to say that he got into fights and he would beat up anyone that talked bad about him and the people around him. His coworker told me, don't believe anything that he told you because none of it is true. He couldn't win a fight to safe his life.

And he has 3 phone numbers on 3 different phones!

Now if you're wondering why I was naive and believed everything that he told me, he was my first boyfriend and I really liked him. We met 2 months into our relationship and I found out, he was the same height as me! (I was 156cm) and he lied that he was 169cm! But height wasn't too important for me so I decided to let it slide. And this back and forth relationship only went on for another 2 more months before I found out that he was supposedly seeing another girl!

I had my suspicions but when I called him out on it, he strongly denied it and told me that he only loves me and no one else. And naive me, believed him. Until one day, he irritated me by comparing me to his 'deceased gf' again and I ghosted him for about a week and he was posting sad love quotes on his whatsapp status. He texted me at around midnight one day and asked if we could talk. I saw the message the very next morning and instead of saying yeah we can talk, I decided to just call it quits and broke up with him over text. He had asked if we can still stay friends but honestly, I really loved him (naive 20 year old me, really really loved him) I turned him down on staying friends.

And here's the plot twist!

2 weeks after we broke up, I found out through his instagram that he is newly married and they have a newborn baby together! (Not a baby in the womb, a baby out in real life and it's his biological child!)

I got played and I thought there was a 3rd person in that relationship but all along, I was the 3rd person.

I was young, dumb and naive. Kbye.