Moving to Luquillo

My uncle and I are trying to move to Luquillo, but we have a few things to navigate. He's from PR, he's getting older and wants to move home. He just got back from his aunt's funeral and he misses everyone. I'm only half Puerto Rican. I'm half Ashkenazi (Eastern European) Jewish, and I saw there's still a large Jewish community in the San Juan area. Antisemitism wise, the last ten years in the NYC area have been the worst years of my life. Destruction of property, carving swastikas into my house, tearing down decor, putting shattered lightbulbs planted into my lawn where my children run and play, desecrated family graves, threats on our synagogue, people being verbally hateful to my face etc -- I want to know how myself and my daughter will be treated, will we be safe to practice and observe our religion? What are people's general attitude towards the Jewish community in Puerto Rico?

We currently live together, and want to keep it that way. Work. We are both in similar lines of work, we work as vendors next to each other. I'm a henna artist with 6 years of experience working the seaside heights boardwalk in NJ, working bourbon Street new Orleans in the fall-spring. I do private parties, work fairs, work concerts in Madison Square Garden NYC. I've been in a fashion magazine. But I HAVE to go back and forth from the south to north every summer and winter, because I don't have year round tourism here. I have to follow the right weather around, and it's not easy. I want to be somewhere with almost a full year of the right kinda weather to work outside. Does anybody know how permits work?

My uncle makes and sells crystal jewelry and decor (like the spiritual kind of crystals, not like polished diamonds and sapphires). We plan on having our mobile shop that folds into a trailer shipped to PR, and find somewhere we'd be allowed to set up. I'll have to tow it w a truck. We'd also need to figure out 2bdr rental, minimum. Ideally 3 bedrooms, but I can share with my daughter if I have to. I see some RVs and RV campgrounds I can afford if I have to go that route. I'm struggling to find affordable property. He's getting older and losing his memory so I need something that can fit 3 ppl, but it doesn't have to be fancy.

I know it's cheaper elsewhere, but I'm pretty set on the Luquillo area because that's where family is, and I plan on putting my daughter in the Grace school, I think it would be the perfect school for her, from my research on them. Eventually I would like to buy land and build on it, but I won't afford that for a while. A jagua orchard would be amazing because I use jagua for my henna work, and it's native to PR. Solar panels and a generator 🤞🏻 I understand to expect the cost of living to be high, and indeed it's comparable to the jersey shore pricing wise nothing new. I honestly do very well for myself with the henna, through both tourists AND locals. I love doing local events and meeting people. I'm a former English teacher and I can teach or tutor again if teachers are needed. My uncle and I have done 15 years of volunteer work with the homeless here, locally, and I tend to rescue every homeless cat and dog I can help, care for and re-home.

I just hope we bring something of value to Puerto Rico. As a fellow busker in New Orleans said, "As long as you're adding to the party ,not taking away from the party..." And I would say we add to the party 🥳

I know gentrification sucks, I hear the kioskos are overpriced and declining in quality now. Are people getting generally sick of gringos? I have a Hispanic last name, but I look pretty white, so unless I lead with "Hi my name is first and last," then they probably won't be able to tell 😕 How tense are things in that area?

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u/OpheliaPhoeniXXX — 1 day ago

My location is still safe, for now 🥺

The cookies were standard sized and the cups were filled to the brim. As long as my local crumbl owner refuses to bow to corporate downsizing, I will continue to support. It's not their fault the company is doing this to their business. If they do shrink, I am going to respectfully tell the owner why I can no longer buy from them, and I'm going to contact corporate and tell them as well.

u/OpheliaPhoeniXXX — 9 days ago

His fav place to take a nap (I don't blame him)

Passed out drunk on boobies burrowed in my sports bra. Tried to get a decent pic. My assistant insisted on zooming in on the single tooth sticking out.

u/OpheliaPhoeniXXX — 11 days ago
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Fixed her caption for her

ngl I was vibing along to this one after a nice after work blunt but the work must be done

u/OpheliaPhoeniXXX — 21 days ago
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Bayside Prisoners Have No Access to Running Water "Because of the ICE protests"

My nephew is currently locked up in Bayside and I just got off of the phone with him. He painted a grim picture of how badly things are going. Prisoners in Bayside have no running water "because of the ICE protests outside of Delaney Hall." If you aren't familiar with their locations, Bayside is near Cape May, 3hrs south of Delaney Hall in Newark. They are resorting to pissing in bottles and pooping in bags because there's no way to flush the toilet. There's limited access to drinking water, as it has to be handed out. How does a protest 3hrs away have any bearing on whether or not prisoners are being held without access to running water.

I want answers I'll probably never get because this probably won't get any coverage in the news, thank God he only has 4 months left of this nightmare, but I worry for those who are stuck there far longer because ICE isn't going away anytime soon, and if they can blame systemic issues on "protestors" so easily, what next...

ETA: Their tablets have been taken away in an attempt to circumvent prisoners from contacting their loved ones, and commissary has been cut off as well. My nephew is a foodie, he's an amazing cook, his dad's mom is from Trinidad and she taught him everything she knows. One of our fav things to do together is cook a nice meal or go out to eat. I know he fucked up and he's doing his time for what he did, but commissary was seriously one of the only things making his stay bearable.

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u/OpheliaPhoeniXXX — 1 month ago