u/Optimal_Ad1638

I hate everything about my physical appearance i have changed drastically in the past 8 months but i still don't feel like it is enough, my physique and body fat percentage is pretty bad even though i am in a healthy BMI now etc. The main hard part is realizing my height will stay the same and i am done growing since i am 18 i might grow one inch but that isn't enough to make a difference but also cope to think i will grow, Anyway thanks for listening to a post that basically gets posted on here all the time.

I'm slowly starting to "accept" i'll be like this for the rest of my life and there is nothing i can do, its just about being a virgin it is how women or even people in general treat you i posted in here before and just like before since then i have been self improving even more physically i'm sorry but i honestly don't bother personality wise there is no point i'm so sick and tired of people saying women care about personality when they don't all i see online is dudes aiming guns at their girlfriends heads and them posting it on tiktok and twitter/x and the girl loving it and bragging about it , anyway i went and tried to be better i posted on icelexit and i tried to take their advice i really did i had one person reach out to "help" me and talk but it became clear to me she was just bragging about her sex life and saw me as a pet so i blocked her

anyway thanks for reading this far, there is some "context" i guess. Now here is my question, for older virgins how did you accept it if you did like how do you live your life happily or half way tolerable when you get reminded of this stuff everyday? Thanks i hope this doesn't get deleted and i get banned lol.

How do i exit inceldom? Like just exit the mindset or what, is it not about getting a girlfriend or even any other social status? Like I've been improving physical over the last 7 months but still nothing has changed i don't expect women to come up to me but still, anyway like i said maybe a bad or basic or both question but how exactly do i exit?

I recently lost almost 60 lbs, cut my long hair/shaved, skincare etc did all the things people tell you to do but its not enough might of well as not done nothing at all i mean I'm 6'0 and 172lbs at 18 but its literally like nothing has happened i don't expect girls to act like those girls in the axe body spray commercials but i still get the same disgusted glances and results from them even after improving myself and i don't know what else to do except improve more lmao anyway sorry for the rant i just think i didn't really expect it to be like this when i started my self improvement journey.

I'm 18 and from the southern part of the U.S i like music i play guitar i'm into going to the gym my favorite game is red dead redemption 2 and looking to make new friends, thanks!

Im 18 and from the southern US its currently midnight and as silly it sounds i finally got the courage to make a post and try to connect with people i don't have a lot of interests except the gym and especially music i also play guitar, like i said its midnight so if you see this late and i dont respond its probably because im still asleep but if im up still i will talk, thanks!