u/Original_Attention_5

Looking for experiences from art students, artists, and creatives in Iloilo

I'm currently doing research for an architecture thesis about the possibility of developing an art school / arts education facility in Iloilo.

I'm trying to understand the actual experiences of people who have studied or pursued art in Iloilo, particularly regarding the availability of schools, facilities, and opportunities.

If you've studied Fine Arts, Multimedia Arts, Visual Arts, Digital Art, or another art-related field in Iloilo, I'd really appreciate your perspective:

• What school/program did you take or consider taking?
• What was your experience with the facilities available to you?
• Were there any studios, equipment, workshops, or spaces you wished your school had?
• Did you ever have to go outside Iloilo for a particular art program, class, workshop, or facility? If yes, what were you looking for?
• For artists/creatives, what kinds of spaces or facilities do you feel are currently lacking in Iloilo?
• What would you want to see in a dedicated art school or creative facility in Iloilo?

Im in my fifth year in architecture, and we are going to start our thesis. IM SCARED , our title defense is next week ( rn our prof just told us lol)

i have two proposal , proposal 1 was started last semester so i had more data, and i only thought of proposal no.2 which im equally curious to research, both have my interest!

and im having these several fears and doubt, what if the panel wont like it, what if i get too nervous during the panel, what if i miss things! and im still unsure which proposal i want to do!!

i tend to overplan my research outputs, sometimes i feel like im doing it right , and ended up being lacking , its that fear i dont want to do in my last year in college!!

This is scary ,, please give me advice

Just a vent !!

Tiktok is the one platform where its so shit and rude in every community, mental health related or even fandom.

I hate it how they say small cuts aren't valid , shallow ones aren't, you have to be this and that , "no person who sh show their scars!!" , its ridiculous how they try to shame who goes shallow , who goes deep , who goes quiet/open about it.

All sh is valid, no matter what , all of us are trying to cope , to find something , to feel something , expressive or not , we are trying.

I never thought I would hate the word "larping" , its annoying

i tend to not work on days when my brain knows i can work a bit better the next morning and not on an afternoon after class. Sometimes i think i might miss out more if i do work on things early or on a full day so i just wait on it the next day when time permits

Do you do the same???? adviceee

hello ask ko tani if diin ang office ni? for thesis purposes! thank you

Hi .. i am a 23 yr old female

For the longest time , ive been exposed to any sort of adult media , right from kinder.

Not forced on me , I just discovered it through the adult magazines my dad had ( which he hid but I found it) and discovering adult anime content on my brother's ipod ( i thought it was cartoons)

Since I was younger, I already discovered how to make myself feel good and will do it in guilt especially growing up as catholic

As I grew up, I was a weird cringe teenager so no guys liked me , no boyfriend ever and I was also academically focus and is an introvert during highschool

Now im in college , i finally met my boyfriend ,and until now we haven't had any action despite 3yrs have passed

I love him very much and is very patient and I wouldn't want anything else

But I do know he wants to get physical with me , and I only told him to be patient still.

The more I search asexuality, the more I relate to it.. i dont crave it , like its not something I need to strengthen the relationship

Its more of the act of service ,time and talk I prefer

Im scared he'll get tired waiting ,

I am not sure of course, I still consume adult media and even make myself feel good but the idea doing it with someone, somehow I cry about it

When i try to imagine being intimately physical with him, i cry . Idk if its more on my body issues , or I just.. dont want to?

Please help me, am I asexual? And how do I even explain this

I have one dark scar on my thigh and she saw it because i wore shorts , i just say its from a sharp edge of table ( i have a glass drafting table) .

Today,she saw the scar earlier when I lifted my skirt , she asked thesame thing again and I said thesame excuse , now when I got home from school, she looked me and asked again about it , saying she wants to see it and she specifically said if I did it on purpose

With a strict tone hahaha

I dont plan telling them whatever is going on, never , because i dont trust my feelings with my family

How do I even stop her , if saying no wont even stop them

Back in highschool , it was my lowest or mid weight , I was struggling with food and wouldn't even dare to drink sodas and or eat at a buffet ( my fam literally jokes about me , to never bring me to a buffet)

But when I entered college , I somehow got better , I ate more and discovered food i really liked

And my idea of that " i need to lose weight because no guy will like me" disappeared because I met my bf in college and still together so I kinda ate more , drank sodas again ( im still conscious about what I eat)

Right now , im at my heaviest , though people dont point my weight anymore and got friends who struggle with me so I dont feel alone , just made see im still the biggest among them.

And I feel like coming back to that same feeling, I tried everything, tried to eat properly, even work out , but the new foods i learned to love.. it feels like I wasnt really locking in

And what i did in highschool worked ..

Is it really hard to relapse on the same skin? Like everytime It heals , seems to be thicker

I accidentally gave myself a styro 20 days ago, ( i used a new one so it was sharper) , as a cat scratcher , this made me scared repeating it, because theres too much cleaning , just a big scar.. now i cant even draw blood , scared it will happen again

I accidentally did a styro while on a college trip outside my country .

I got so socially drained and irritated (( because of the weather , the whole trip itinerary, and my own classmate)) , it just got me so tired and annoyed and I felt like I was acting kinda selfish so I relapsed.

Im using a recently new eyebrow răz0r , so I did a swipe , thinking it was just a small scratch , or a dead skin then I realised I did a big styro

And worse I only habe 4 bandaid , because I THOUGHT i wont be relapsing...

Now i have one left , and the rest was on the wound , now i still have days left on the trip so hhahhahhaha

My mom is definitely my no.1 hater , body shames the fuck out of me , has this weird ocd rule of cleanliness that limits to cook or do things

There are times we get along and shit , but i hate it when I try to dress up, she comments negatively. I am very aware of my chest and its bigger , and I don't even wear short or revealing outfits.

I got down , she sees my top , which is a camisole with a collared shirt that's slightly small that I layered , small as in , around the chest area. She says my camisole is quite see through, and I told her i wouldn't wear if it was, then she tells me buttoned it up and I told i can't because its small

And because I said no, and because it not new , this micro arguments and stuff, its annoying to even answer. I always just leave than continuing the convo because it pisses me off

And now its dinner time, she doesnt talk to me like a brat , and she didnt eat dinner for what? She wont let me cook anywhere because she has too much rules and complains.

She goes telling my dad she didnt eat? Im the one who has no money? She can eat anyway? And most of the time I DONT GET FED if we fight

So idont know ,

This sucks to think, theyre diagnosed with depression and had have talks with her about mental health and all.

Theyre the type to post vents like a scribble of their unwanted messy thoughts,screenshot of conversations with friends about struggles or past pain in a dump account specifically for those kind .

Posts about smoking, post about not sure why theyre alive, at the same time motivational quote.

Theyre very open about it, I should be happy for them, maybe its my struggle because I struggle to share and be open with my own.

Everyone in the class is aware of theirs, how their house situation is, how open with them and their depression

So why does it irks me so much?

I am a cat scratcher but i changed the way I hold my eyebrow raz, and it cuts a bit deeper

And I realised it didn't hurt so much until I saw its white then it turned red😭 , at first I thought it just made a dent because I prefer not so sharp raz , and that's what they say it doesnt hurt and cat scratches hurts more ..

Whats your opinion with Tagbak terminal, ang iya gid mga Jeeps ? How busy is it during weekdays, rush hours and sa weekends?

D mn mainit didto mag wait or ano? Thanks