u/OwlFirm1309

I pray every night someone has the power to hurt hm! Even if it causes 1% of the pain he as dished out. Why why do they always get to win???

I’m going to take a break from here.

Before I wanted to ask one more question

For the ones with cheaters, why do you think the supplies never reach out to me? I would be so easy to find if they really cared about him and he is using his real name. No one as ever. If they did I would say ( all yours)

Anyone else?

List something that is good in your narcissist personality!

Mine has many good traits, but the lieing just dominate.

He can be very funny.

His your NS Better looking then average?

For those married to someone who cheats, do you think they believe they’re much better-looking than average and can always find new supply?

How, in the exact same sentence, can they lie and tell you how thankful they are for you?

But putting the extreme hurt aside for a second — how does someone’s mind even work this way? It’s evil, just plain evil.

He tells to opposing stories, I ask a question and all hell breaks out. Anyone else! I think I’m going to have a nervous breakdown.

For every effort they make, one lie tears it all down. Profess their love and make real efforts but then lie. Why? Just why?

He loves me so so so much he still keeps a burner phone

Has anyone ever heard a narcissist truly express deep regret? Because whenever they talk about it, it’s never about the lies, the cheating, or the manipulation—they always seem to leave that part out.

I honestly thought there was no way I could do it—gather evidence, document everything, and at the same time keep my mouth shut and act normal without giving myself away. But somehow, I have.

And it’s come at a cost. The depression it’s caused has been extremely severe. Carrying all of this alone, knowing the truth and not being able to say it, has taken a huge toll on me.

I’m holding on to the hope that when everything finally comes out, this weight will lift and I’ll be able to breathe again and move forward.

For anyone who’s been through something similar—did it get better once the truth was out?

So it was his idea to go to marriage counseling. From everything I’ve researched, it seems like some people do this because they think they can outsmart the counselor and turn everything around on you—making it seem like you’re the problem. Has anyone had this experience?