u/Own-War9484

(this this my friends story and she wrote it I’m just posting it for her)

So basically, we have been together for 6 months, and everything was great. While we were still in school, we never argued unless he had skipped a class without telling me. He was always really sweet, and I really love him. he has a problem with committing to what he says; for example, he kept saying that he was gonna ask me to be his girlfriend in a special way, but he just ended up asking right before class. If I ever had a problem with anything, I would just tell him, and he would fix it.

I think all the problems started on my birthday. I barely saw him all day, and he didn't get me anything or do smth nice that day, which I don't care for, but it does kinda matter. All of my friends said that he should've done better, but I didn't take it to heart. A couple weeks later, on the day of my party, he showed up 2 hours late with flowers that he said he was gonna get me weeks ago, but I still really appreciated it. He left early with his friends afterwards cuz one of them had to go, and my parents did not like that he was late and left early. During the party, he. over heard 2 of my friends mentioning how they thought it was messed up that he was late, and he didn't like that and told me about it later.

Anyways, once the school year was over, I went to Texas for 3 weeks, and we weren't able to talk or call much, and that's when the distance started. He wasn't communicating with me, and he kept mentioning things like pictures or whatnot or wanting to "see," which I said no to because I don't like that kind of stuff. He respected it, but he brings it up still sometimes. His wants and his needs are completely different from mine; I'm about all the emotional stuff and being each other's best friends, while his are not all the way there. I feel like we don't get each other's humor, and our personalities are completely different. we keep havign important conversations abt communication and getting to know eachother better but there was a point in time when i was in texas when i kept trying to explain to him how i fel but i felt like he wasnt really understanding me or hearing me and i just stopped caring about explaining my part because it got us no where. he didnt like that and he started trying again instead of being dry and told me i was giving up on us and honeslty i think i was too.

We can barely hold a conversation nowadays unless it's an argument or one of those conversations. Right now what the problem is that no one around me likes him, and they all tell me that maybe were js not right for each other and to break up. I honestly love him so much, and I have a lot of hope for this to work out, and I feel like we can fix things and make it work, were js kids trying to figure this out together. I tried talking to him about it yesterday, but he got mad that my friends would say that and cussed them out to me, which I did not let slide.

I understand why he is upset at that, and so am I, but he didn't even wait for me to finish what I was gonna say, which was all about how I'm hopeful for us and that I really think we can make this work, but every time I talk to him I feel like he's proving my friends right. I feel like we could make it work tho; we js need to mature and grow together, but idk if that would be worth it anymore.

I also feel I should mention that he said part of the reason why he gets distant is because hes suppressing his sexual feelings because i am not willing to send anything and because we cant do anything because there's no chance to, and that he doesnt like that we can never hang out because my parents are strict and they dont let me go out with him without my sister there. Those are 2 things I can't really control, and he makes me feel bad for it. I'm upset about those things too, but I just focus on talking and building the friendship part of our relationship. He wants more than that, but I can't really do much about it. idk if I explained everything right, so please ask any questions.

So I’m getting my wisdom teeth removed tomorrow but I don’t really know what I’m going to eat. I got some pudding, oranges (the kind that come in cups and are super soft) meatballs, Mac and cheese, and applesauce but I need more things. the problem is that I don’t like most of the foods suggested. I don’t like eggs, soup, mashed potatoes, tofu, avocado, etc. I‘ve looked up foods you can and can‘t eat and most of the foods you can yet I won’t. Are there any foods I’m missing that I could eat? What did you eat when you got them out?

I’m getting my wisdom teeth removed in a few days and I have no idea what I’m going to eat. I meat pudding and applesauce but I feel like that’s it. What did you eat when you got yours remove?

So I got a nostril piercing in early April and I’m going to the beach tomorrow. Is it healed enough to go in the water? (I will clean it after.) It looks/feels pretty healed but this is the first piercing I’ve ever had so I don’t know. If I can’t, could I put a waterproof bandaid over it to protect it?