u/Own-Watercress5372

Me (24F) and my boyfriend were together for a while. Our sex life was pretty open and adventurous, and I want to be clear I'm not here to kink-shame anyone (you do you). But I had one hard line that I'd told him about plainly, no recording. Ever. He knew exactly how I felt about it .

A while ago one of these camera detector apps popped up in a totally unrelated sub I follow, nothing to do with relationships or security or anything like that. I wasn't paranoid or actively hunting for anything, I just grabbed it out of curiosity. And it flagged what looked like a "camera" in our bedroom.

I showed him right away. He panicked and got really defensive . Denied everything, and then flipped it around on me, blaming me for "actively trying to find a camera" in the first place, even while insisting he'd never put one there. And honestly the look on his face was pure horror. It wasn't the app that convinced me, it was him. I know him, and I know what he looks like when he's lying (and he literally flipped).

Then, conveniently, about a day later that thing stopped showing up on the app entirely.

He says I have a trust problem and that he "just wants to move past this." He keeps insisting he did nothing and that I ended a good relationship over something stupid I saw on the internet. But I couldn't get past it, so I broke up with him ( he cannot explain why that thing disappeared on the app but he just calls it a stupid app now) .

Now he's blaming me for the breakup and acting like the victim. To make things worse, I'm scared he might actually have footage somewhere (he denies ofc). I don't think he's the type to leak anything, but I honestly don't trust his ability to keep something like that secure even if he wanted to.

I feel weird and a little guilty, and he's got me second-guessing myself. So.. AITA?

( and how much should I worry about a possible recording :/ )

I saw this and thought about you.

Not sure jf it is still valid. It seems the dev started almost two days ago ( and it says 48 hours :) )

https://www.reddit.com/r/AppGiveaway/s/9Ni82E3IHF

I am just curious. The dev did not respond.

Hi all,

Newbie here which some let’s say unfortunate events pushed me in this direction of creating apps.

My question is:

I see the 10 version of the same things across the subs. Each being monetised differently.

How people decide on this? Is there a resource, guidance, or anything you could suggest me to learn more about this?

( hoping this is the correct sub )