u/PandaSad7073

Ok I am going to sound like a psycho and I’ll do my best to explain this well.

So for the past 2 years (yes not being dramatic) my sister has always been on her period whenever she stays over with me. Like every weekend she stays over at my place she has been on her period.

At first I thought this was just a coincidence, but then after 2 years it happening every month it started to become weird.

So I live alone and I don’t have that much of a social life (introvert and boring), so I really get excited when my sister comes over and she always does, every month she stays for like a weekend or a few days more, but she is always on her period.

Her periods are kinda heavy, it makes her sick and super grumpy. So I always end up having to deal with a very angry, moody and half disabled visitor.

Also I always end up having to take care of her. Being the one always cooking or ordering out, rubbing her back, making her teas and hot chocolate every hour and we never do anything cause she is in too much pain. So I am just looking at her wrapped into a blanket until she leaves.

So the last time she came, I told her: please dont tell me u r getting ur period again; or are on ur period. She laugher and said noo her period is due in a few days, so we had many plans and well you can guess it, her period started again and we spent the day on the couch while she could barely even have a conversation.

So later on I told her to please plan her next visits to me far from her period, cause for the past years everytime we spend time its just her being half dead and me taking care of her.

I don’t mind tending to her and taking care of her, she is my sister, but I also really miss hanging out with her and miss spending quality time with her.

She spend most of her weekends with her friends and she always is energetic and cheery with them.

So it feels annoying that I only get her exhausted and grumpy side. Like without exaggerating in the past 2 years I have never seen her on a non-period day. Its such a known thing that everytime I tell my parents she is coming over, they joke: aah she is gonna be on her period again.

Oh yeah the food: iranian kebab sandwich with fries

Lasagna for breakfast. (Celebrating) You are allowed to judge me. No regrets.

So I broke up with him a while ago cause he just was a horrible coldhearted person. Like a dementor that wants to suck the life out of you. Alcoholic and really emotionally immature. Anyway me and him have been in this toxic cycle for years.

He reached out telling me he wanted to meet. I went along with it, but did tell him that I am still hurt by how he treated me and all the things he did to me. He called me dramatic and blabla. He just cant handle being called out. He has an extremely fragile ego. I gave him the chance to apologise for all he did, but instead he blocked me.

for extra info: he always prided himself in being a person who has never ever blocked anyone in his life.

Anyway this made me so happy. Im surprised that I don’t feel bothered at all. I actually feel so happy and so FREE. Im gonna have a celebration day.

Finally relieved from the poltergeist that was tormenting me.

I am not even mad that he didn’t apologise or that he tried to blame me for the reactions on his abuse instead of admitting that he gave me PTSD cause of how fucking horrible was to me

No I am just genuinely just happy. Like thank youuuuuuuu be goneeeeee devil

Food: medium rare steak that ended up being rare with lumpy drymashed potatoes and tasteless broccoli.

So me and this guy lets call him ‘Jason’. Jason and I met like 2 years ago and we immediately hit it off, great chemistry, great vibes. We used to laugh so hard that we d always end up in tears. It seemed a match made in heaven… until it wasnt anymore. He started pulling away, being too busy, dry replies. Because I could feel him losing interest, i dumped him. Yeah I was like to myself: just dump him before he dumps you lol. He was mad and then completely ghosted me. Like completely disappeared, new number new everything. Social medias deleted. I couldnt reach him in anyway.

Tbh after this I did feel stupid for maybe dumping him so quickly without at least giving him a chance to explain why his behaviour was so off. And I did date other guys after him, but it was never the same. He always remained on my mind.

Flash forward a year later (so a year ago from now) he suddenly reaches out again. Ngl I was so happy to speak to him again, I had really missed him. We were just friends and then well we met and all those old feelings came back and things were amazing again. Until recently he was being sad one day and got really drunk. I asked him why he is so sad and he said he just remembered how his ex did him so dirty and it made him sad. It made him sad remembering how he gave his all to a girl and she still abandoned him. Well I didnt know this ex even existed tbh, but when I asked him about it the next day when he was sober. He told me the whole story of how she was in his life for a few years on and off. That when we met they were ‘off’, but then they got back together etc etc. He gave it one last chance and she fucked him up so badly. Then he was finished permanently with her. (So he claims) and that he regret that kinda let me go to to be with her. That he feels stupid that he didnt ‘pick me’, but he is happy and feels blessed to be with me again.

I dont know why he thought that hearing this wouldnt make me lose my mind. Look I know everyone has a past and ppl they have loved sure, but to tell blatantly: I had you, but still choose her over you. Basically telling me: the only reason he got back with me is cause she hurt him 💀 like he d be on top of her rn still not giving a f about my existence if she had been nicer and more genuine with him.

NGL. My heart? Shattered? My ego? Destroyed.

I just don’t know why, but the moment I knew this everything got ruined. I considered him the love of my life while for him I am plan B. The fact that he even still feels sad about it and thinks about it.

I know u guys might think I overreacted, but I dumped him on the spot. As much we I love him and his presence in my life made me so happy, I could never live with the idea that he chose another woman over me.

My eyes are so swollen from the tears, I can barely see the screen ☹️ so sorry if spelling or grammar isnsucking. My brain aint braining