Why people respond more When you are mean or treat them like sh*t ?
have you ever noticed trying to get someone's attention by being a nice or polite guy ?
it never got much response when you are a nice polite type. but when you are raw or just say what you feel about that person in present moment and it gets me more response/ or trouble whatever but it's better than being ignored.
I have seen and tested this in social settings , online communities ( discord ,reddit etc).