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Move is putting a lot of stress on our relationship

My husband [26] and I [24] have been married for about a year and a half. My husband likes to job hop which puts a lot of stress on me because it makes me feel really unstable. For reference he’s had 6 or 7 jobs since we’ve been married. The longest he’s kept one was maybe 4-5 months. We were living in Utah and he got a fully remote job and I thought this could be our chance to get out of there while still having a steady job while we kind of settled in and I found a job wherever we ended up. We made a plan to travel through the Midwest/south/east coast and kind of feel out places to see if we liked them while simultaneously saving up for a downpayment on a house. It sounded perfect and I feel like it should have worked out. Right before we left on our roadtrip adventure he quit his job. And now I am just so stressed. We are homeless and jobless and have no idea what we’re doing or where we’re going. I have been trying to apply places and he hasn’t really done anything to find a new job. He keeps getting mad at me for being stressed and bringing negative energy into the relationship and that this trip was supposed to be fun. But I can’t enjoy it because we have no plan and we definitely are no longer looking for a house. Just a dirt cheap apartment we can rent and hopefully save up for a house in the future. He also wants kids asap but I don’t feel comfortable being pregnant giving his job hopping history and this whole situation. It feels like we haven’t stopped fighting for like a month and it’s just been literally the worst.

TL;DR
We are taking a roadtrip across country that was supposed to find us a forever home and be funded by my husbands remote job and he quit right before we left and is upset that I am stressed about it. Any advice?

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u/PatientPepper7881 — 2 days ago

Move is causing major stress on relationship

My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half. My husband likes to job hop which puts a lot of stress on me because it makes me feel really unstable. For reference he’s had 6 or 7 jobs since we’ve been married. The longest he’s kept one was maybe 4-5 months. We were living in Utah and he got a fully remote job and I thought this could be our chance to get out of there while still having a steady job while we kind of settled in and I found a job wherever we ended up. We made a plan to travel through the Midwest/south/east coast and kind of feel out places to see if we liked them while simultaneously saving up for a downpayment on a house. It sounded perfect and I feel like it should have worked out. Right before we left on our roadtrip adventure he quit his job. And now I am just so stressed. We are homeless and jobless and have no idea what we’re doing or where we’re going. I have been trying to apply places and he hasn’t really done anything to find a new job. He keeps getting mad at me for being stressed and bringing negative energy into the relationship and that this trip was supposed to be fun. But I can’t enjoy it because we have no plan and we definitely are no longer looking for a house. Just a dirt cheap apartment we can rent and hopefully save up for a house in the future. He also wants kids asap but I don’t feel comfortable being pregnant giving his job hopping history and this whole situation. It feels like we haven’t stopped fighting for like a month and it’s just been literally the worst.

TL;DR
We are taking a roadtrip across country that was supposed to find us a forever home and be funded by my husbands remote job and he quit right before we left and is upset that I am stressed about it. Any advice?

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u/PatientPepper7881 — 2 days ago

Help

Hey everyone! I’ve got hazel leaning more green eyes. I used to use the double extend L’Oréal
mascara and I really loved the length it gave my lashes but I just don’t love the color so I switched to the L’Oréal voluminous burgundy shade which really makes my eyes pop but it doesn’t give very good length to my lashes. Does any one know any other brands I could try out that give length and color?

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u/PatientPepper7881 — 6 days ago
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Thinking about getting a dachshund

Hey! I have been looking into getting a dachshund. I think they are just the cutest! I have been doing a lot of research and I know they’re more difficult to train and can be stubborn and have health issues regarding their teeth and their backs if they’re not taken care of properly. I also heard they’re not always the friendliest to kids and other dogs etc. I would be a first time dog owner so I guess I’d just like some opinions before I commit. Is it worth it for a beginner like me? Does doing the research and having some foreknowledge about training difficulties and special needs to accommodate its back maybe make it a little easier to handle? We don’t have kids yet but we know we will someday would that be an issue? We’re also thinking about getting some chickens and I heard that they might attack them due to their hunting genes. Is there anything else I should be aware of or look into about them that I should be concerned about or that can placate some of my worries? Sorry for so many questions. I just want to be really prepared and informed before so I can give my pup the best I can!

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u/PatientPepper7881 — 10 days ago