u/PeaDowntown6285

33F married to 33M with a 2yo. I want to understand if this is normal. Lately I haven't been getting a lot of attention from my husband - not sexually,but emotionally. We have been working from home since Covid and our routines have been the same before kid as well,except for a lot of impromptu dates and outings. It has significantly reduced now cos dealing with a toddler in cafes n restaurants are a lot (he says so,not me). I m okay with that cos it is pretty annoying. But even at home I feel more like room mates. He prefers to watch good quality and rated shows and movies only while I watch things that vibes. So we end up watching things he wants to watch and when i m watching something, he goes to the other room and would watch something on the laptop. We no longer eat meals together cos my daughter's bedtime starts at 8:30 so whoever puts her to sleep wats before that. N the off time that we do,we will be watching tv cos he cannot eat without a screen.He is also very keen on ,"catching up" with his yt subscriptions. I have told him time and again that yt content is to watch when bored and not to watch like it's a job. And he also follows football,cricket,F1 and sometimes wrestling. And in order to not bother my screentime,he watches that alone in another room as well. He is always in 3 states - tired (because he was up the previous night watching shit) ; sweaty and annoyed (we live in the south and he hyper sweats) and away from me (because of watching something). We seems to spend a lot of time away from each other being in the same house. I feel very emotionally empty and deprived and I don't know how to explain this. He spoils me crazy with both things and household help,which again is stressing me because he keeps cleaning things. I have explicitly told him that I feel like I m living with my mother and not in a good way and he said he wil change but doesnt. He is a very sweet person,takes care of us a lot but also seems to be so distant and in his own world. I no longer feel like us and more like you and I. What do I do?