u/Perfect_Comfort_1921

Okay Hi👋🏻🩷 I'm in my early 20s, still living with my family, with no job or financial independence. Every day I feel humiliated and emotionally drained. My family situation is very difficult. My father shows many traits of malignant narcissism and is emotionally abusive, while my mother often doesn't understand what I'm going through, even though she means well. When I was younger, I was much more motivated and determined. Now I feel like I'm just existing instead of living. I lose interest in almost everything I start, and I don't know if it's depression, anxiety, or something else. Seeing other people around my age enjoying life makes me wonder what's wrong with me. I want to be happy, find a job, fall in love, and actually live, but I feel stuck and don't know how to move forward. I've tried seeing psychologists before, but those experiences left me feeling disappointed. Right now I can't afford therapy either .Or for example, I wanted to be a gamer, but I'm shy and I don't have the facilities like a system and all that. I also like painting, but I like to design for my own enjoyment, not as a source of income. I like other arts too, but when I started them, I wasn't very keen on continuing them. I don't want to give up on life🥲I just don't know how to feel alive. Has anyone else been through something similar? How did you get through it?

Let's have a friendly conversation! What are your positive and negative traits as an ISFP?🩷

I'll start🙃

𖣁My positive traits, at least according to other people, are that I'm friendly and supportive. I'm not sure if daydreaming a lot counts as a positive trait, but I like to think it does. 🙂‍↕️😂

𖠢As for my negative traits... I can be pretty lazy. I also get angry pretty quickly sometimes, but I usually regret it afterward or feel guilty. And, to be honest, I'm a little jealous too. 🥲🤦🏻‍♀️I also don't really have a clear goal or a specific passion. I love all kinds of art, but I never seem to have the patience or motivation to actually do them.

If you don't feel comfortable sharing about yourself, don't worry ,you don't have to. I totally understand. 🙂‍↕️🩷

Hi 🌙

Okay, I know this might sound stupid, but I've been studying typology and psychology for a long time. I still kind of doubt my understanding sometimes, but after a lot of research and help from people who know typology well, I typed myself as an ISFP 9w1.

The thing is, whenever I say I'm an ISFP 9w1, people insist that ISFPs "can't" be Enneagram 9s, especially 9w1s. It makes me constantly question myself. At this point, I don't know if I'm really this type or not.

Sometimes I feel like maybe they're right. Maybe I'm actually a Type 4 who mistyped herself as a 9. Do you think it's possible that I'm actually another type, like 4w3 or 4w5, but I think I'm a 9? Or am I just being influenced by all these opinions?

Right now, I really doubt who I am. I've struggled with this ever since I was a teenager. I know I want peace and happiness, but I can't trust myself anymore. I don't know if that's because I believe I'm a 9, or if that's truly who I am.also there's a way that if I am a 9 I become a type 4?

Hi my fellow friends, okay um let's play a game and yeah I know it's a ridiculous question, but for the record, if there were to be only one old and powerful country in the modern era that held power (and that country even had to be among the oldest countries), which one would you choose?

❖Iran (Persia) ❖Greece ❖Ancient Egypt ❖India ❖China

❍Also, I didn't put numbers next to each country because I thought people would start arguing about which country was the oldest and deserved to be at the top. In my opinion, all of them were ancient and powerful civilizations also we don't talk about their present kingdom or governments just besides culture history and people.❍

I know this question might be sound stupid,but I've close friendships with INFP girls, especially the first one.we understood each other and I thought it would last, but it ended after a few years due to mistakes on both sides. What bothers me is that in group settings, these INFPs always gravitated toward logical types (like ISTP or INTJ), talking easily and eagerly with them, while with me they were quiet and I had to push just to get a conversation. I wasn't toxic; I genuinely tried and invested in them. Now I'm exhausted and have no energy for people. I once read a comment saying INFPs aren't interested in ISFPs and don't understand why ISFPs are drawn to them, and that stung because it felt true. My question is: why are most INFPs so attracted to Logical types and they really doesn't like ISFPs?