what would you wear if you were singing Disney?

this is my first time soloing with an orchestra, and I don't know what to wear.

the solo is "A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes" from Cinderella, and the whole concert is Disney. The director told me I could wear whatever I want, but that feels so broad.

Should I wear a costume? A nice dress? Concert black (I will be hopping on my bassoon for another of the pieces)

if you were going to an orchestra concert that is Disney themed, would you expect the soloists to be in costume, or would that be weird?

thanks for the advice.

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u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 5 days ago

opinions solicited: concert attire for soloists in a Disney concert

Hi all, sorry if this is over sharing: but I would like your opinions.

I'm a long time bassoonist in our community orchestra. We're in a college town that loves the arts, so we have a fairly decent orchestra.

This year one of our concerts is Disney, and we have a few vocal solos. I decided to try my hand at it (I've been dreaming of this for years, and finally overcame my anxiety enough to try), and I got a solo part!

But, this is my very first time being a vocal soloist at the front of the orchestra, let alone in a major concert, and I don't know what to wear. I don't own any actual dresses. The organizer said I could choose whatever I want, a costume, a pretty dress, concert black, etc, so I decided to come here and ask for your opinions.

The song I am singing is from Cinderella (A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes) and these are the options I'm debating, but I'm open to other suggestions.

wearing a costume: either the blue ball dress, or the rags that she's wearing when she actually sings the song,

a Cinderalla inspired dress (blue, fancy, but not exactly like the Cinderella dress)

A nice fancy dress that has nothing to do with Cinderella that I could potentially reuse if I ever do something like this again.

considerations:
My body type is not easy to fit normal dresses. My bottom half and top half don't match in size. I almost never wear dresses because of this, just skirts if the need arises.

I don't have a huge budget for this, but I can sew.

I am also hopping on the bassoon for another of the pieces and don't want to stand out when I'm in the middle of the orchestra, though theoretically I could change, assuming there's enough time in between the two songs?

as a concert goer what would you expect to see?

Everyone: what are your opinions on what I should wear?

TIA

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u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 5 days ago

How do you find a carpet installer, but not through a store?

The title: we want to buy home Depot carpet, but don't have time to wait for their installer ( could be 4 weeks out, and we need carpet in 3 weeks, max)

There are other carpet stores in our town with their own installers, but most of their carpet is outside of our price range.

So we want to just buy the home Depot carpet and have someone install it who can do it quicker.

How do we go about finding a person? It seems like it would be rude to ask one of the other stores for their list of installers when we aren't buying carpet from them?

Thanks.

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u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 18 days ago

school advice (not homework help) subreddit?

we want to brainstorm ideas for a service project my son has to do for a school competition (sterling scholar, which requires scholarly knowledge, leadership, and service). We want to find service projects that utilize computer science, since that's the field he's competing in.

where would I post this question?

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u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 1 month ago
▲ 11 r/MusicEd

I'm late to the game and feel like I have no chance.

Hi .

I graduated in music Ed with a k-12 endorsement back in 2008.

Then I became a stay at home Mom. Now my youngest is finally going to preschool for half the day, and I'm starting to think, " wow I'd love to try and get back into music Ed".

I have some problems though. First, my certificate is expired. Second, moving is not feasible right now, and there are no music jobs near me that I'm aware of. Third, even if there were, we live next to a college, and all those college graduates are going to look a lot better than me when they apply for the same jobs.

So I'm trying to figure out how I can get in. I know one of the local highschools could desperately use at least an aid, and many of the elementary schools don't have a music teacher at all. I could volunteer to help in those settings. I can't sub unless it's only for a half day.

I'm trying to start the ball rolling, since I'd rather wait until my baby is in full day before getting a real job. But before I put my heart and soul into this I'm just wondering:
Has anyone here gone a non traditional route like this and actually gotten a job?

And do you have any advice?

Should I try and renew my certificate before even contemplating trying to get a job?

Thanks for your thoughts on this.

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u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/airbnb_hosts+1 crossposts

looking at getting into AirBnb

we bought my grandpa's old house. It's right by a college and there's a lot going on there in the summer. But we are debating renting to students vs airbnb. Can you tell me everything I should consider in this?

thanks!

EDIT: for those that were helpful, thanks. for those who were not, why? Is asking for help from people who have experience not a good first step in doing research?

regardless: let me clarify. I'm not looking for you to do research that I could feasibly to myself, such as pricing, statistics and the like. I'm not asking you to create a pro/con list.

I'm asking for your personal experiences in Airbnb-ing, what you wish you had known before you got into it, what nobody tells you, and that sort of thing. Things I might not think of myself because I have no experience in it, when creating my own list.

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u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 2 months ago

Phonics books

I'm looking for true phonics books. Not sight word books that pretend to be phonics books because they have a certain decodable word mixed in with the sight words.

The only one I know of is the Bob Books, does anyone know of any others that only use decodable cvc words?

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u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 2 months ago

confused, and hurt, but also more closure?

so, this weekend, my dad gave me this letter. he found it among some old papers, or something. I asked him what this was all about, and he told me he didn't remember. my mom has passed, so I can't ask her. I never knew or had any inclination that she thought there was something about me worth getting looked at.

I'm feeling like everything has changed, even though nothing actually has. All of my childhood memories hold a different hue knowing that my mom knew something was off, enough to apply for disability services when I was 3.5 yrs old. I always assumed that she just didn't know. But she at least knew enough to wonder. I thought I had processed all of my childhood stuff, and now I have to start all over again. what was she thinking when my teachers told her I was in lala land all day? What was she thinking when i couldn't manage to do homework? Why did I feel like I was just lazy my whole life, if she knew there was something there?

it also makes me think that maybe I have more than just ADHD. I've never been officially diagnosed, since I can't seem to make myself find the appropriate doctor to call. SMH.

I don't know. I don't know what ever came of this. I don't know what prompted her to apply. i don't know why she never told me. I feel like I don't know anything anymore, including myself.

I don't even know what I'm asking. I guess it's more of a rant. so I guess I'm asking for sympathy. thanks for listening.

u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 3 months ago

my first is graduating high school. we're so proud of him! but I do have a quick question about graduation announcement etiquette, as I'm sure it's very different from when I graduated. Is it appropriate to include a Venmo on the card to help fund his next step adventures (trade school, church mission, etc.) or is that tacky?

Thanks for the advice.

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u/PerspectiveOk4209 — 3 months ago